About Us

On the 15th January last year I wrote this on my blog about dating and dating apps… I was maybe meant to be going on date tonight. On Wednesday I…

If you had told me a year ago that in a year’s time we wouldn’t be in a D/s relationship any more, that our D/s relationship would be broken, I…

So I had plans for this weeks post but that has all gone out the window because Michael is in hospital. He has been battling an Ulcerative Colitis flare up…

I Gave Him Power What a strong statement that is. So often when it comes to D/s you hear things like, I gave up the power to him, I let…

We have been together coming for 9 years if you count the first few months of our relationship before we met in person. If you don’t know the history, a…

It is the day after (commonly known as Boxing Day in the UK) the presents have all been opened and the turkey consumed. I definitely ate way too much food…

Do you want to know what is wrong with my bum right now? It does not look like this. There are no bruises or bite marks, no welts or scratches.…

Today (Saturday) or yesterday depending on when you are reading this it was Michael’s birthday. His Kitten Cara Thereon is here visiting for a week from the USA. For his…

Back in August I wrote this post, Boxed In, about a kind of disagreement that Michael and I had and how that ended up with me really examining how I…

Twelve Days Between Kisses by Pieces of Jade ~ “He calls this structure that he has imposed upon me keeping or putting me in my “box.” We both love it,…

A couple of months back someone left this question on my blog and I promised to write a post in response. Apologies to Melinda who left the comment as it…

There are not many rules or rituals that are part of our D/s relationship. I don’t have daily tasks or assignments/jobs that I must complete. Sometimes I do, he will…

We fit together perfectly When we turn the light out at night and you wrap your body around mine, your arm draped over my hip, your tummy pressed into the…

Our weekends are a tale of two halves; Kids weekends and kid free weekends On kid weekends life tends to be more family focused. I have 2 children but most…

August 2010 – South Street, Philadelphia It was a hot summers evening. We were wandering down South Street taking in the sights and sounds (it is a cool trendy place…