Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021

by Molly Moore

And the time has come; The Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 list is here.

Yesterday I published the Category Award and New Voices winners. Please do go and visit that post and see who were the lucky winners of those accolades.

A final word about my brilliant sponsors, Chaturbate. Thank you for once again supporting this little project and making it possible for me to devote the time to it that it needs.

If you are curious about how the list works and the rules then you can find all the answers on The Transparency Report Post and also the Rules page.

Also let’s not forget the past winners of this list who are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) A Dissolute Life Means… (2015) Domme Chronicles (2016) Kayla Lords: A Sexual Being (2017) Rebel’s Notes (2018) Floss Does Life (2019) Little Switch Bitch and Super Smash Cache

And now for 2021

1. Mx Nillin

“Nillin’s blog is bold, powerful, at time challenging and direct and always unashamedly filthy.” That is what I wrote about Nillin’s blog last year and I stand by that statement again this year. One of the things I have always said about making it to the number one spot here on the list is that it is content above anything else that achieves that. Creating compelling, powerful, thoughtful and thought-provoking content is the key. Bleeding on the page if you like, and Nillin does that sharing their triumphs and their challenges, their lust and loves, their happy and sads and securing themselves this number one spot in the process.

Follow them on Twitter: @MxNillin

2. Smutathon

This is quite frankly one of the most amazing projects that has ever come out of the sex blogging community. This year I was delighted to see them nominated and that they had published enough content on the blog to eligible. Not only is that content amazingly hot and filthy smut written during the Smutathon but also powerful guest pieces around their theme. The result is that this project has raised over £10,000 for various charities since it’s inception and just for that they deserve this spot on the list.

Follow them on Twitter: @smutforacause

3. On Queer Street

I know that Quinn’s has had a challenging year and as a result has reduced the amount of blog content he has created but whilst he may have reduced quantity slightly he has definitely not reduced quality. In fact quite the opposite. He is a truly talented writer and thinker and that is reflected in every post he publishes.

Follow them on Twitter: @OnQueerStreet

4. Coffee and Kink

Amy continues to be at the top of her blogging game writing an engaging mixture of fiction and non-fiction. She has been a bit of a reviewing machine this year too so if you are looking for advice about a sex toy purchase then I highly suggest a stop at Amy’s blog because she has likely written about it already.

Follow them on Twitter: @coffeeandkink

5. Girly Juice

Kate has held a place in the top 10 for the last 4 years and this year is no different. Her writing excels and I regularly enjoy reading her content. Also she reviewed the Balldo this year and I was totally skeptical about that product (I pretty much still am) but her review made me so wanna try it out.

Follow them on Twitter: @girly_juice

6 Focused and Filthy

When it comes to photography Missy is second to none. Her blog is a visual delight of self portraits but also a growing collection of images she has captured of others. I find her work both beautiful and often very hot but also inspiring to me as a photographer.

Follow them on Twitter: @FocusedFilthy

7. A to sub Bee

I have always been a dedicated reader of Bee’s blog but this last year their work has just taken on a whole new level. Their exploration of non-monogamy and also embracing their queerness shines through in their work which. I feel like they are stepping into their true selves and we are getting to see that in their blog content. It makes for compelling, sexy and powerful reading.

Follow them on Twitter: @sub_bee

8. Cara Sutra

I think that Cara might be one of the hardest working bloggers that I know. She knows exactly what she is doing and she does it absolutely brilliantly. Her blog is a one stop shop where you will find reviews, guides, fiction, thought pieces and images.

Follow them on Twitter: @thecarasutra

9. Love, Emma

I only discovered Emma’s blog a couple of months ago but since stumbling on it through a retweet on twitter it has become a firm favourite of mine. I find her writing so engaging. She can go from funny to vulnerable often all in one post and I am excited to see how her blog continues to develop.

Follow them on Twitter: @EmmaAus27418832

10. Love, Violet

I think Violet is a hugely talented writer and blogger. In particular her fiction is always a must read for me but the depth and breadth of her writing is what earns her a place on this list.

Follow them on Twitter: @fireandhoney

11 Obsession Rouge  @ObsessionRouge
12 Kelvin Sparks  @kelvinsparks_
13 Poly.Land   @polydotland
14 The Beautiful Kind  @TBK365
15 Naked Wanderings  @nakedwanderings
16 Arousibility  @Arousibility
17 Miss Ruby’s Reviews   @MissRubyReviews
18 Rewriting the rules  @megjohnbarker
19 KnkStriped  @ZebraRoseSub
20 Exposing 40   @exposing40
21 Master’s Pleasing Bitch  @MPBjulie
22 Tess tesst  @jay_tesst
23 Temperature’s Rising  
24 Joanne’s Reviews  @joannesreviews
25 Princess Previews  @PrincessPreview
26 Betty Butch  @betty_butch
27 Love is a Fetish  @loveisafetish
28 E. L. Byrne Writer  @ELByrne1
29 Off the Cuffs  @ocpkink
30 Innocent Loverboy  @innocentlb
31 Happy Come Lucky  @ht_honey
32 The Smut Report   @smutreport
33 A Faded Romantic’s Notebook  @romdominant
34 Denying Thumper  @thumperMN
35 My Dissolute Life  @nLikes
36 Ready for Polyamory  @lauracb88
37 Nikki Nelson  @NikkiNWrites
38 The Gentle Domme  @TheGentleDomme
39 Kinky World  @mistress_kay
40 O Miss Pearl  @OMissPearl
41 Tall, Dark and Dominant  @darkanddominant
42 Vanilla Free Sex  @vanillafreesex
43 On her back  @on_her_back
44 A Leap of Faith  @thebarefootsub
45 Lillith Avir  @Lillith_A
46 Maria Open’s Up  @MSM1647
47 Wind Whisperer  @_WindWhisperer_
48 Still Searching For Prince Charming  @SS4PC
49 Down the Bunny Rabbit Hole  @luvbunnysl82
50 Witch of the Wands  @WitchofTheWands
51 Holden and  @h_and_c_dot_com/
52 Submissive Feminist   @SubFeminist
53 Rain De Grey   @raindegrey
54 Asrai Devin   @asrai
55 Modesty Ablaze  @ablazingmodesty
56 Life of Violet  @v_greyauthor
57 Victoria Blisse  @victoriablisse
58 Love Letters to a Unicorn  @AuntieVice
60 Sexilicious Ash  @sexiliciousash
61 Queer Earthling  @threatganglia00
62 August McLaughlin  @augstmclaughlin
63 Corrupting Mrs Jones  
64 Meghan Madness  
65 Adventures in Sexland  @sexlandalice
66 Spices of Lust  @spicesoflust
67 Cassandra  
68 Hannah McKnight  @HannahTGirlMN
69 Life in Grey Places  @hope4greyplaces
70 Loving My Disciplined Life  
71 The Joy as it Flies  @BeStillMyBeaten
72 No Pants Endurance  @nopantsenduran2
73 Tabula Erotica  
74 Hoplessly Hopeless  
75 Miss D  
76 Nijntje & The Bear  
77 Ouizzi  @ouizzi
78 The Lustful Empress  
79 The Poet Kiss  
80 Finding Strength in my Submission  
81 Lascivious Lucy Ashwood  @LasciviousLucy
82 Kinky katie   @KinkyKatie9
83 The Drew Duality   @dualdrew
84 Bambi Biohazard   @BambiBiohazard
85 Mr E and Lilly  
86 I have loved you long time  @The_Other_me_9
87 Megan Ward  @megwardwrites
88 Mistress Lisa’s Femdom Diary  
89 Breaking Away From Monogamy  @K_Ghislaine
90 Jen Dragon  
91 Citrus and Sex  @citrusandsex
92 Sex, Life and Everything  @sexlifeandevery
93 GemStrong63  
94 Raspberry Ripples  
95 Struggling Peter Pan  
96 F dot Leonora  @fdotleonora
97 Ruan Willows Erotica  @RaunchyIs
98 Eros Blog  @ErosBlogBacchus
99 Oh Larney!  

100. YOU! The last spot on the top 100 sex blogs 2021 is for the all the other awesome sex bloggers out there. It is just not possible to include everyone, I relied on the nominations to gather the list and I am sure there are people missing, but this place is for you because every single one of you counts and contributes towards this community.

Want a button for your sidebar or blog post? If you are on the list feel free to grab the code below or alternatively save and upload the image to your own site but if you do that it would be wonderful if you could make sure the badge links back to this post.

Feel free to repost the list on your own blog (in entirety or just a part, like the top ten). All I ask is that you mention that I compiled this list and link back to this blog post. Also feel free to pick your favorites from this list to link to in your own mini-list…or even create your own full list! The whole point is to support the sex blogger community as much as possible by encouraging your readers to visit new and awesome blogs. You can grab the numbered only HTML for the list by CLICKING HERE or the descriptive version of the top ten with the rest of the list HERE

Did you find any broken links or errors on the list? Have I called you by your wrong blog title for instance? Or maybe not included your social media? Feel free to let me know in the comments below I will do my best to correct them. I really have double, triple checked and more the list but every single year there is always some mistake that I have missed.

And that as they say is that for the Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021.

You may also like


MxNillin December 2, 2021 - 7:04 pm

I legit cannot stop happy bouncing all around my house! Thank you SO much Molly, I feel incredibly honoured and am so thrilled to be on this list with so many other incredible humans too! Eeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!

Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 - Innocent Loverboy December 2, 2021 - 7:57 pm

[…] afternoon Molly put her list up, though, so I may as well share that […]

Brigit Delaney December 2, 2021 - 8:27 pm

Who is number 59? It is blank.

Molly Moore December 2, 2021 - 11:27 pm

I somehow managed to make a mistake and Violet Grey was on the list twice so I have removed one of those entries and just left it blank.


David Mei December 2, 2021 - 8:46 pm

Woohoo! #95!!!
I can’t believe I made the top 100!

Brigit Delaney December 3, 2021 - 5:13 am

Congratulations, everyone! It takes a lot of hard work to be recognized.

Jenna December 3, 2021 - 6:59 am

Thank you Molly for including my blog. I have been feeling incredibly unsexy since I became ill, but still trying to write on sexy themes whenever I have the energy. I know you put in a huge amount of work into compiling this list. <3

I am going to create a post to publish about the Top 100 to be published next week. I am having problems with my footer, it won't let me add the badge image, but I will keep trying and maybe ask the WP techs why it keeps on telling me there is an error.

Gem Strong December 3, 2021 - 9:51 am

Oh my god! I’m in shock! I made a list, any list! Than you so much! My blog is actually called Gemma – Journey of Self Discovery but will suffice 😛

Adam Rouge December 7, 2021 - 12:13 am

Hey Molly, Thank you so much for including me on your list! I only found out about it today and am really thrilled!

Congratulations to everyone else too! I am going to slowly make my way through the list to visit all of your websites and twitter profiles 🙂

Friday Finds #13 - Godemiche December 10, 2021 - 4:53 pm

[…] Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 […]

2021 Wrap-up - vanilla free sex January 1, 2022 - 10:22 pm

[…] did make the Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2021 list! I moved up to 42nd on the list. In 2020 I placed 46th and that was the first year that I made […]

Designurbate for Chaturbate - vanilla free sex February 4, 2022 - 6:15 pm

[…] is a well known cam site with millions of daily visitors. They even sponsor the Top 100 Sex Blogs list as you can see by the badges on my sidebar. Whether you are already a model on Chaturbate or […]

The 50+ Best Kinky & BDSM Blogs - Club SMCULT All about BDSM & Fetishes July 19, 2022 - 4:13 pm

[…] […]

Top 100 Sex Blogs 2022 - Molly's Daily Kiss December 3, 2022 - 9:17 am

[…] Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 […]

WindWhisperer December 7, 2022 - 7:21 pm

Thank you. #47

A truly lovely surprise. I am honoured that my Poetry&Prose is included. I would have sent a thank you earlier but I had not thought that my work was being considered. It is absolutely wonderful that you included me. You have my December extra special.

Sincerely, WindWhisperer



Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.