Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020

by Molly Moore
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Today is the day; The Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020 list is here.

If you have not read the housekeeping post from yesterday please do so, New Voices and other bits, as it contains important information and thoughts about the list as well as the New Voices Awards. It might also answer any questions you have about the list (especially if you want to know why you are not on it) and most importantly of all a very big thank you to my amazing sponsors Chaturbate.

Also let’s not forget the past winners of this list who are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) A Dissolute Life Means… (2015) Domme Chronicles (2016) Kayla Lords: A Sexual Being (2017) Rebel’s Notes (2018) Floss Does Life (2019)

And now for something slightly different

For the last 10 days or so I have been deliberating over who should be the get the number one spot this year. Flipping back and forth between two blogs that had ended up at the top of the list with essentially the same scores. In the past there has always been a clear winner but this year picking between two blogs that both felt like they smashing it but where also very different has been a struggle. Until about 3 nights ago when I woke up in the middle of the night and realised I don’t have to pick. This is my list and if I want to have two blogs sharing the number one slot, then I can… And so that dear reader is what I have done.

1. Little Switch Bitch

In a year where so many of us have struggled for various reasons when it has come to sex blogging LSB seems to have bloomed. She has always been a great blogger but this year she seems to have taken what she was already doing and built on it. I feel like she has truly come into her own this year. Yes there are still amazing images and fabulous reviews but she has added in an increasing amount of thoughtful and hot first person narratives and also launched a very popular meme: Quote Quest. She absolutely 100% deserves her place at the top of this list.

Follow them on Twitter:@ _LittleSBitch

1. Super Smash Cache

And so to my other winner for 2020. Like LSB she too has been an excellent blogger for a good many years now but this year she seems to have taken everything she always did well and just done it even better and even more. I have no idea how many toys she has reviewed this year but I can tell you it is an impressive amount and each and every single one of those reviews is both amazingly comprehensive and accessible but also peppered with imaginative and beautiful shot images. There has never been a sex toy review blog at the number one spot. I think Cy definitely deserves to be that first though.

Follow them on Twitter: @supersmashcache

2. Sex, Love and Videotape

Livvy was nominated for her main blog and this project this year and so I asked her which one she would like to be consider for the list. To my delighted she picked this. If there has been one blog I have read obsessively throughout this year, eagerly anticipating each post, it has been this one. In Livvy’s own words this is a “sex positive movie review blog” but those reviews are intelligent, thoughtful, analytical and thought-provoking. Movies, sex, brilliant writing. What’s not to love here.

Follow them on Twitter: @sexlovevideo

3. Love, Violet

I am almost at a loss for words when it comes to Violet’s blog. It is beautifully put together. She has such a great eye when it comes to design but also it doesn’t just look good but it also is easy to navigate. It one of those blogs that you go there to read one thing and end up 20 minutes later realising you have fallen down a rabbit hole of sexy writing. Fiction, non-fiction, reviews, images. It is all here and it is all excellent.

Follow them on Twitter: @fireandhoney

4. On Queer Street

Quinn’s blog is another one that is a joy to look at and navigate around but hir’s content continues to be of the highest standard. Hir’s filth is, well utterly delightful filth that often has me discovering new thoughts and ideas that I didn’t know were hot to me until ze wrote about them. Ze is a truly talented writer in my opinion who has an amazing skill when it comes to taking those little subtle things, thoughts and ideas and turning them into something throbbing with desire and heat.

Follow them on Twitter: @OnQueerStreet

5. Mx Nillin

Nillin’s blog is bold, powerful, at time challenging and direct and always unashamedly filthy. I have learned so much from them over the years and this year in particular. They make me think, they make me challenge ideas and thoughts around a variety of different subject but they also take me on a journey with them where I find myself sharing in both their joys and their hardships/sadness. Oh and did I mention, fabulous filth? Both words and images, that just seem to hit the (wet) spot.

Follow them on Twitter: @MxNillin

6. Girly Juice

Pretty sure no one will be surprised to find Kate in the top 10 again this year. Her blog is just so readable. A bit like Violet I often head there because something has caught my eye and then discover that time has passed and I have slipped into a Girly Juice reading marathon.

Follow them on Twitter: @girly_juice

7. Coffee and Kink

I have always been a big fan of Amy’s blog but this year I have found myself there time and again reading her excellent content. She is an accomplished writer and I have particularly enjoyed reading her pieces inspired Quote Quest and also some of the filth she wrote for Smutathon 2020, well if you have not read it then you have been missing out.

Follow them on Twitter: @coffeeandkink

8 Focused and Filthy

It will come as no surprise to anyone when I say I love photography and I have a particular passion for self portrait photography all of which I suspect explains my love of this blog. It is an feast for the eyes. A growing collection of beautifully and skillfully crafted, sensual, sexy, imagery.

Follow them on Twitter: @FocusedFilthy

9. Poly. Land

This blog continues to be a favourite read of mine and I continue to be hugely impressed at not only the amount of content they produce but at the quality and diversity of that content. Despite the title of this blog implying it is all about poly that is far from the truth. It is a rich offering of advice and thoughts about relationships of all styles.

Follow them on Twitter: @polydotland

10. Cara Sutra

I find this a slightly tricky one to write because I feel like Cara really needs no introduction. She is quite frankly damn good at what she does and what she does is consistently create quality, engaging, informative content. There are guides, reviews, images, fiction, just so much good stuff to enjoy from one of the best sex bloggers around.

Follow them on Twitter: @thecarasutra

11 Kelvin Sparks @kelvinsparks_
12 Temperature’s Rising
13 Tabitha Rayne @TabithaErotica
14 The Beautiful Kind @TBK365
15 Naked Wanderings @nakedwanderings
16 Arousibility @Arousibility
17 Jayne Renault @jayne_renault
18 Climaximaal @electricluna
19 Miss Ruby’s Reviews @MissRubyReviews
20 Cara Thereon @thereon_cara
21 Rewriting the rules @megjohnbarker
22 Knkstriped @ZebraRoseSub
23 A to sub Bee @sub_bee
24 Exposing 40 @exposing40
25 Master’s Pleasing Bitch @MPBJulie
26 Tess Tesst @jay_tesst
27 Off the Cuffs @ocpkink
28 Joanne’s Reviews @joannesreviews
29 Princess Previews @PrincessPreview
30 Betty Butch @betty_butch
31 Pain as pleasure @bibulousone
32 E L Byrne Writer @ELByrne1
33 Chrisy Kay
34 Love is a Fetish @loveisafetish
35 Blue Submission @bluesubmission
36 Innocent Loverboy @innocentlb
37 Phallophile Reviews @PhallophileRev
38 Discovering Kink @dscoveringkink
39 Queer Courtesan @QueerCourtesan
40 Denying Thumper @thumperMN
41 The Artful Muse @Ms_muse_dreamer
42 The Gentle Domme @TheGentleDomme
43 Happy Come Lucky @ht_honey
44 Tall, Dark and Dominant @darkanddominant
45 Crippling Up Reviews
46 Vanilla Free Sex @vanillafreesex
47 A Leap of Faith @thebarefootsub
48 Objects De Plaisir @Objets2Plaisir
49 Francesca Demont @DemontFrancesca
50 Lillith Avir @Lillith_A
51 Accidental Masturbator
52 Still Searching for Prince Charming @SS4PC
53 Brigit Delaney’s @BrigitWrites
54 Down the Bunny Rabbit Hole @LuvbunnySL82
55 O Miss Pearl @OMissPearl
56 Anne Stagg @annestaggwrites
57 Witch Of The Wands @WitchofTheWands
58 Holden and @h_and_c_dot_com/
59 Submissive Feminist @SubFeminist
60 Forbidden Writings @Charlton_Tod
61 Exhibit A @EA_unadorned
62 Dildo or Dildon’t @Makeupandsin
63 Pretty Pink Lotusbud @prttypnkltsbd
64 Rain De Grey @raindegrey
65 Modesty Ablaze @ablazingmodesty
66 Asrai Devin @asrai
67 Steeled Snake @Steeledsnake
68 Victoria Blisse @victoriablisse
69 Isabelle Lauren @RomanticIsa
70 Becoming Violet Grey @v_greyauthor
71 Nessbow
73 Open Bobs BB openbobsbb
74 Lippenbekenntnisse
75 Queer Earthling @threatganglia00
76 Cleareyedgirl
77 Light in grey places  @hope4greyplaces
78 A Kinky Autistic @kinkyAutistic
79 Krystal Minx @BisexualMinx
80 Hannah McKnight @HannahTGirlMN
81 Little Penny Berry
82 Miss D
83 Persephone Raya @kitten4_daddy
84 Femdom Ramblings from a submissive male
85 The Lustful Empress
86 Quenby Creatives @quenbycreatives
87 Breaking Away from Mononogamy @K_Ghislaine
88 Oz Bigdownunder OzBigdownunder
89 Lascivious Lucy Ashwood @LasciviousLucy
90 Tinted Blu @tintedblu
91 The Poets Kiss
92 Bambi Biohazard @BambiBiohazard
93 Jerusalem Mortimer: Between the Lines @JaimeMortimer
94 I have loved you a long time @The_Other_me_9
95 Megan Ward @megwardwrites
96 JenDragon @JenetalTorture
97 Alethea Hunt @aletheaalone
98 Sex, Life and Everything @sexlifeandevery
99 Raspberry Ripples

100. YOU! The last spot on the top 100 sex blogs 2020 is for the all the other awesome sex bloggers out there. It is just not possible to include everyone, I relied on the nominations to gather the list and I am sure there are people missing, but this place is for you because every single one of you counts and contributes towards this community.

Want a button for your sidebar or blog post? If you are on the list feel free to grab the code below or alternatively save and upload the image to your own site but if you do that it would be wonderful if you could make sure the badge links back to this post.

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Feel free to repost the list on your own blog (in entirety or just a part, like the top ten). All I ask is that you mention that I compiled this list and link back to this blog post. Also feel free to pick your favorites from this list to link to in your own mini-list…or even create your own full list! The whole point is to support the sex blogger community as much as possible by encouraging your readers to visit new and awesome blogs. You can grab the numbered only HTML for the list by CLICKING HERE or the descriptive version of the top ten with the rest of the list HERE

Did you find any broken links or errors on the list? Have I called you by your wrong blog title for instance? Or maybe not included your social media? Feel free to let me know in the comments below I will do my best to correct them. I really have double, triple checked and more the list but every single year there is always some mistake that I have missed.

And that as they say is that for the Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020.

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Krystal Minx December 1, 2020 - 1:33 pm

CONGRATULATIONS to all these great bloggers, and THANKS to Molly for all the time and effort it takes to bring this list forth! (I wish I had *half* your gusto!)
Great to see so many favorites that we all know and follow on the list, and I can’t wait to check out and learn about all the new additions!
WELL DONE TO ALL! xoxo/Krystal ?

Jenna December 1, 2020 - 2:07 pm

Woooop! Wooooop!

I just sneaked in to your top 100 – only just!
Wait til I tell Ben!

Molly Moore December 8, 2020 - 6:35 pm

Thanks for this. I love a 99 too

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Chrisy Kay December 1, 2020 - 5:17 pm

Thank you, Molly for the time and attention you put toward this every year! Congratulations to all the wonderful blogs and the people that give so much of themselves!

slave sindee December 2, 2020 - 5:45 am

Great List i follow many on your list

Lexualromance December 2, 2020 - 6:24 pm

Thanks so much for including us!!

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Jay December 4, 2020 - 1:42 pm

We are so deeply honored to be on number 26!! Thank you so much Molly for all the work you do for our community!

Lisa Stone December 5, 2020 - 10:26 am

The people should know their heroes!

Steeled Snake Charmer December 7, 2020 - 4:45 pm

Thank you for including us!

Fledawish December 14, 2020 - 5:58 am

Where’s Girlonthenet aka gotn? This year’s content changed but even grew deeper. Hard to find her out expecially after she embraced such daring change and openness.

Thx for blogging

Molly Moore December 14, 2020 - 1:03 pm

HI there

If you actually read the post you will see that she is a previous winner of the list and so features at the top every year as a part winner. Past winners are retired from the list as per the rules.


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Luv Bunny February 3, 2021 - 6:52 pm

Apologies this is so late, but thank you so much Molly for including DTBRH in your Top 100 for 2020. it really means a lot to get this accolade <3
You put so much of yourself into your own blog too. Where would we be without this community? xxx

Dave Matters April 20, 2021 - 10:24 am

This is a great list

I will bookmark this because i need this list to make connections

Thanks for putting this together


Jaclyn Parker October 15, 2021 - 11:23 am

Thanks for all the hard work and I’ll definitely look forward to this list.


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