Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2016

by Molly Moore
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Finally it is here; The Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2016 list.

Please make sure you have read the pre-list post that was published yesterday; The Bit Before. It might just answer any questions you have about the list and most importantly of all is full of very important thank you’s and some words from the sponsors of the list Kink Craft.

Also lets not forget the past winners of this list who are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) A Dissolute Life Means… (2015)


This year the list has been sponsored by Kink Craft who have donated prizes for all the blogs in the top 10. A gold, silver and bronze hand crafted flogger will be winging its way to the bloggers in the top 3 spots respectively and the rest of the top 10 will be receiving a set of Kink Craft nipple sticks.

New Voice of the Year Award

This award goes to a blog(s) that is new this year and therefore have not been around long enough to qualify for the Top Sex Bloggers list. Like last year I could not settle on just one so we have joint winners

A Couple of Kinks – There really are a lot of exceptional sex toy review blogs around but these guys have caught my attention with the variety of content that they are writing. Definitely ones to watch in 2017.

Pain and Pleasure – This blog is an interesting and unique take on kink because it is written by someone who gets their kink fix by paying professional sex workers for it. Despite most of it not being my particular kink I have found his excellent writing engaging and thought-provoking.

And now for the main attraction….

1. Domme Chronicles

I will be absolutely honest with you here when I reordered the list after scoring all the sites I was not in the least bit surprised to find Ferns at the top. She was No.10 on the list last year but in my opinion her rise to the number one spot is well deserved. She has been producing fantastic content for 8+ years and her writing continues to go from strength to strength. To be quite frank not many of us can say that. Even though her kink and mine are the direct opposite of one another her exceptional work always captures my attention and I think that is a huge testament to her writing which is frank, raw, gritty, intelligent and sexy as fuck. I hope you will all join me in congratulating her on the No.1 spot.

2. Dangerous Lilly

As I said last year Lilly is all the things you want in a sex toy reviewer; honest, smart, dedicated, and knowledgeable. Like Ferns she too has been blogging for 8+ years and the quality, quantity and variety of her content is exceptional. If you look back through her blog you will see that she has truly evolved over the years into the blogger she is now who has a genuine passion for what she does and I think that shines through in her work.

3. Rebel’s Notes

I have long been a fan of Rebel’s blog, after all we share a very similar relationship dynamic and so her writing often speaks directly to me but this year she seems to have really blossomed. Her blog is well designed, it looks fantastic and is easy to navigate and both the quantity and quality of her writing is excellent, perhaps even more so when you consider that English is not her first language.

4. Malin James

Malin is an extraordinary, talented writer in my opinion. Her fiction continues to be some of the best around, in fact I would go so far as to say that the erotic fiction on her blog is the best on this list. However she is not just a fiction writer, far from it in fact, her non fiction writing shows a highly self-aware woman who is a deep and intelligent thinker.

5. The Drew Duality

Drew’s blog was a new but happy discovery for me on last years list and one I have continued to visit regularly since then. He has a really engaging writing style that draws you in. His kink is pretty much not my kink and yet his writing, a bit like Ferns makes that absolutely irrelevant to me as the reader. Yep, consider me hooked.

6. Not So Sex in the City

One of my favourite things about compiling this list is finding new blogs to read and when they are as good this one that discovery is even more delicious. I really like her blunt forthright style and the way she writes about things in such an open and honest manner. I have never met this person before but I already find myself rooting for her in her new(ish) relationship. That is the mark of a good blog in my opinion.

7. The Big Gay Review

Another happy discovery of mine from last years list that has continued to go from strength to strength this year. The design and functionality of his blog is absolutely excellent and I really do like the ‘at a glance summery’ in the form of the little dial that he uses on all his reviews. He is a skilled and thoughtful writer and his blog is always a pleasure to read.

8. Tabitha Rayne

Artist, Photography and author, Tabitha is one very talented lady and as such totally deserves this spot on the list. Her content whilst hugely varied is always of a high standard. She really is one kick arse writer when it comes to short flash fiction and her mixture of drawings and photography create a blog with a really strong visual aspect.

9. My Dissolute Life

Nlikes pens a blog that is raw, frank and apologetically himself. His writing comes from a place of honest self-awareness and as a result at times can be a challenging read but in my opinion that is exactly what makes this blog such a great one. This is a sex blog with a capital S!

10. Temperature’s Rising

Mrs Fever’s blog is yet another one that I discovered from compiling last years list and damn can this woman write. Her blog is intelligent, sassy, sexy and passionate. She has a style and way with words that just draws you in and in my experience will turn you on even if her kink is not your kink. That is the mark of a great writer.

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11 Hey Epiphora @epiphora
12 Innocent Loverboy @innocentlb
13 Girly Juice @girly_juice
14 Sexual Destinies @VictoriaVista1
15 Pandora Blake @pandorablake
16 Stranded in Toronto @stranded_in_to
17 Modesty Ablaze @ablazingmodesty
18 Holden and Camille @holden_cammie
19 Love Hate Sex Cake @LoveHateSexCake
20 Penny for your Dirty Thoughts @pennysblog
21 The Other Livvy @theotherlivvy
22 Ann St Vincent @annstvincent
23 Speak With a Suggestive Tongue @Suggestive
24 Denying thumper @thumperMN
25 Teachers Have Sex @teachershavesex
26 Exposing 40 @exposing40
27 oh, that phi @OhThatPhi
28 Melina Greenport @melinagreenport
29 Steeled Snake @steeledsnake
30 Cara Sutra @thecarasutra
31 Ninja Sexology @ninjasexology
32 Goddess Erryn Embers @erryn_embers
33 Domina Jen @DominaJen
34 Miss Scarlet Writes @MissScarletUK
35 Understanding Flutterby @WissPeasel
36 Marvelous Darling @marvydarling
37 BD Swain @RedSwain
38 Happy Come Lucky @ht_honey
39 Chasing Me Chasing you @CollaredMom
40 Horny Geek Girl @hornygeekgirl
41 A Sexual Being @KaylaLords
42 Miss Pearl @OMissPearl
43 You Won’t Tame this Sassy Cat @sassycat38
44 Lady Laid Bare @JillyBoyd
45 Formidable Femme @FemmeReviews
46 The Redhead Bedhead @JoEllenNotte
47 Confessions of a Sex Toy Rep @maryqconfesses
48 Poison Pen Dirty Mind @OleanderPlume
49 Exhibit A @EA_unadorned
50 Sex Is My New Hobby @SexIsMyNewHobby
51 Toy Meets Girl @dizzygirl812
52 A to sub Bee @sub_bee
53 Ella Dawson @brosandprose
54 A Femme Cock @AFemmeCock
55 Sex Death Rock’n’Roll @violetfenn
56 Diary of a Married Woman N/A
57 Emmanuelle De Maupassant @EmmanuelledeM
58 Scandarella @ella_scandal
59 A Slave to Master N/A
60 Illicit Thoughts @Kats_my_Name__
61 The ins and outs with Erika Lynae @erika_lynae
62 My Tickle Trunk @mytickletrunk
63 F Dot Leonora @fdotleonora
64 Vanillamom’s Blog @swirlednilla
65 The Chaste Cyclist @chastecyclist
66 Jerusalem Mortimer: Between the Lines @JaimeMortimer
67 Naked at our Age @JoanPrice
68 Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews
69 Emmeline Peaches Reviews @EmmelinePeaches
70 Pieces Of Jade @piecesofjade
71 Cammies on the Floor @cammiesonfloor
72 Maria Opens Up @MSM1647
73 Girl Boner @augstmclaughlin
74 Screw Taboo @screw_taboo
75 Cherrytart Blog @cherrytartblog
76 The Erotic Writer N/A
77 Blissfully Orgasmic @BlissfullyOrgas
78 Thoughts With a Dildo in Hand @thoughtswdildo
79 Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller
80 Sexologist Vixenne @DrVixenne
81 Joanne’s Sex Machine @joannesreviews
82 Mintie Price @MintiePrice
83 Frisky in the 916 @jackandjillcpl
84 Malflic @malflic
85 Cara Thereon @thereon_cara
86 Nicci Haydon @NicciHaydon
87 Lil Miss Shalla @spacecheetos
88 Princess Previews @PrincessPreview
89 Kore Desires @adrea_kore
90 Lana Fox @foxlana
91 Mischa Eliot @mischa_eliot
92 Fiesty Fox Films @taylorjmace
93 The Dot Spot @dorothyblack
94 Monkey in a Cage @LadyM_n_Monkey
95 Janine Ashbless N/A
96 Voluptasse Magazine @Voluptasse
97 Under Contract to My Wife N/A
98 Carnal Queen @thecarnalqueen
99 IckleBookie @ickle_bookie

100. YOU! The last spot is for the all the other awesome sex bloggers out there. It is just not possible to include everyone, I relied on the nominations to gather the list and I am sure there are people missing, but this place is for you because every single one of you counts and contributes towards this community.

Want a button for your sidebar or blog post? If you are on the list feel free to grab the code below or alternatively save and upload the image to your own site but if you do that it would be wonderful if you could make sure the badge links back to this post.

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Feel free to repost the list on your own blog (in entirety or just a part, like the top ten). All I ask is that you mention that I compiled this list and link back to this blog post. Also feel free to pick your favorites from this list to link to in your own mini-list…or even create your own full list! The whole point is to support the sex blogger community as much as possible by encouraging your readers to visit new and awesome blogs. You can grab the numbered only HTML for the list by CLICKING HERE. or the descriptive version of the top ten with the rest of the list HERE

Did you find any broken links or errors on the list? Have I called you by your wrong blog title for instance? Feel free to let me know in the comments below I will do my best to correct them. I really have double, triple checked and more the list but I will be astounded if there is not a mistake in it somewhere that I have not spotted.

Now all that is left for me to do is wish you all a happy festive season (or whatever you like to call it) and encourage you all bloggers and non bloggers to continue to create and enjoy as much sex blogging as you can in 2017!

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Aurora Glory December 2, 2016 - 1:54 pm

Great to discover some blogs I hadn’t seen before and to see some of my favourites mentioned 🙂
Well done to all on the list and to all the bloggers that came 100th 😉
I’ve only been blogging a month or so and you really don’t realise the hard work and passion that goes into it until you start blogging yourself x

Mrs Fever December 2, 2016 - 3:42 pm


Thank you for all the time and thoughtful effort you put into creating this list, Molly. And thanks to @Domsigns for his dedication in partnering with you on this project. The Top 100 list is really a fantastic gift you give to the sex blogging community, and your hard work is greatly appreciated. 🙂

MariaSibylla December 2, 2016 - 3:46 pm

Thanks Molly for all the hard work you’ve put into creating this list. It really is a great resource for finding new blogs and encouraging all of us in our blogging. Also, I’m over the moon thrilled to be included on the list. It really means a lot.

Emmanuelle de Maupassant December 2, 2016 - 5:52 pm

Love discovering inspirational new blogs.
Great work Molly.
It’s wonderful to be part of such a supportive community.

Hyacinth December 2, 2016 - 6:20 pm

I’m excited about all the new names on the list and can’t wait to get to know everyone!!

Love you guys to the moon and back!! xx Hy

Mr Minx December 2, 2016 - 7:21 pm

CONGRATULATIONS to all these great bloggers, and THANKS to Molly for all the effort it takes to bring this forth!

Great to see so many favorites that we already follow on the list, and can’t wait to check out and follow all the new additions!


nilla December 2, 2016 - 8:34 pm


A bucket load of work went into this, and gosh isn’t it exciting that there ARE over 100 alt-sex bloggers?? Thanks for including me on your list, it’s an honor and a privilege that I don’t take at all lightly…! (Okay, I’m happy dancing in my chair as I write this!)

Congrats to the top TEN! Some I know and some are new and I’m looking forward to visiting as many as I can eke out time for! YAY SEX BLOGGERS!!



Ferns December 2, 2016 - 10:52 pm

This is SUCH a delightful surprise. Holy hell!! Thank you so much :))!

I’m humbled to be in such amazing company: congratulations to all the great sex bloggers who pour their hearts out for others to share.

And Molly, thank you for all the work you do for the sex blogging community. I know none of it happens by magic, but by a lot of hard slog. I know I’m not the only one who appreciates it.


Molly Moore December 3, 2016 - 1:47 pm

Haha, if only I had such magic skills. Thank you for your kind words and congratulations to you. You totally deserve the No.1 spot


Vista December 3, 2016 - 5:28 am

Soooo honored to be included in the list this year …and number 14! First time I’ve made the list. I’m feeling grown up as a blogger. Thank you!

Thank you Molly for all you do to bring attention and support to our efforts.


~ Vista

Molly Moore December 3, 2016 - 1:40 pm

Hi Vista

Yay for feeling grown up as a blogger, as you should, as your work is excellent.


DualDrew December 3, 2016 - 1:33 pm

THANK YOU!!! I saw this about 24 hours ago and think I have smiled the whole time about this. It’s such a nice list and I have so much reading to do now that I have found lots of new people.

Molly Moore December 3, 2016 - 1:39 pm

You are welcome Drew. I hope you enjoy the new reading and I also hope that new people come and find you and enjoy your writing!


Oleander Plume December 3, 2016 - 8:52 pm

Wow, I am totally speechless! Well, not totally, because I am writing this note. But, anyway, thank you so much for putting me on this list! A great group and quite an honor.

Big hugs to you and @DomSigns!!




Jo December 4, 2016 - 3:26 am

Thank you so, so much for not only taking ALL THE TIME to carefully go through all the nominated blogs, but also for making a transparent rubric about how you were scoring them. As a teacher, I appreciate how much time and consideration it takes to try to make sure you’re being as objective as possible, so again – thank you. Thank you for building and supporting community and for being outspoken voices for those of us who choose to be anonymous. I feel really honored to be on this list among so many talented, brilliant, and hard-working people! xxx

Lola Moi December 5, 2016 - 6:40 am

Looks like I have some reading to catch up on!
Congratulations to everyone!
And thanks to you, Molly…
you continue to role model what ‘community making’ is all about.

Beautiful and Bold.

Lola xo

therebelliousangel December 5, 2016 - 7:30 am

A fantastic list as always! So happy to see some favorites as well as some blogs I intend to investigate! Many thanks as always, Molly!

rebelliousangel xx

Collaredmichael December 5, 2016 - 10:23 am

What a fabulous idea! Thanks for taking the time to do this and for sharing so many fabulous blogs! I have hours of time to look forward to exploring these blogs!

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