Top 100 Sex Blogs Redux

By on January 5, 2016.


As you may have heard Rori from Between my Sheets has sadly and unexpectedly had to retire her blog due to ill-health. When I very started my own blog hers was one of the first ones that became a regular read of mine and over the years has continued to be so. Not only did she write great content but she was also the creator of the Top 100 Sex Blogs list which she compiled for a total of 7 years. I am very sad to see the end, for now at least, of her blog and her presence within our community.

I have always been a huge supporter of her list. I am aware it is not without controversy over the years but she always managed it with grace, honesty and intelligence, as a result it was well-respected and for me, one of the key moments in the annual blogging calendar. It has been much mimicked over the years but never, in my opinion matched. I truly believe that this list is of huge value within our community. It helps to recognise some of the best sex bloggers around and also allowed someone like Rori, who was without doubt hugely successful to share some of her ‘traffic juice’ with lesser known but not lesser valued voices and give her readers access to other great reads. You can see a complete list of all the blogs that ever featured on the list over the years on Rori’s site: Top 100 Sex Bloggers

When I saw that Rori was retiring from her site I contacted her about the list and asked her if she would be OK with me taking over and putting together a, belated, Top 100 for 2015. It just feels wrong to ignore a whole year. The message I got back was a definite yes and so (and I know I must be crazy to take on another project but I totally believe this is one worth doing for the whole community), I am going to put together the list for 2015. I will endeavour to do Rori’s list justice and will be following her rules, guidelines and previous winners list.* see below for further details. This list is not instead of my 20 of list that I have been doing, nor is it the same. That list is my personal top reads, this list is going to be fed by your suggestions. One does not negate the other and as such as I will be continuing to make my own (20 of) personal reading list each year.

I am going to create a spread sheet, sexy stuff I know, and each blog nominated will be marked on 4 different areas (10 possible marks in each) resulting in a score out of 40 based on the following areas. We will then average out those scores with any ties will being judged by us. This is not a small task and so just to be clear @domsigns will be helping me with this process.

  • Blog Design – Is it pleasing to the eye, is it easy to find content, is it mobile responsive, is social media information easy to find, is the actual text easy to read?
  • Content – Quality of content. Is it original, interesting, innovative, sexy, inspiring etc? If the images are not created by the blog author are they being used ethically, as in full credits for where an image is sourced from provided? Quantity of content, see the rules below.
  • About Me – Is it easy to find out information about the author of the site that gives a new reader some insight into who or what the site is about. These don’t have to be personal details as such but some sort of introduction to the blog that helps create context for the content.
  • My Personal Score – Rori’s list was always based on what SHE liked and there is no way round this but for me to do the same. If you knock my knickers off then you are going to do well and it is as simple as that.

The Rules (taken directly from Rori’s site)

  • If you are a sex blogger… no nominating yourself! I encourage your to tell your readers and social followers so they can nominate you.
  • Each nomination should include the blog url, not just a name
  • Blog content can be anything sex related – erotica, sex education, sex news, sexy images, etc. Nothing illegal, obviously. (Read this post to decide if a blog is eligible based on content.)
  • The blog can’t be protected. It’s ok if a few of the posts are protected, but the entire blog can’t be behind a password.
  • The blog should be at least a year old, but anyone who’s been blogging since at least Jan. 1, 2015 will be considered. Special exceptions will be made for someone who has recently moved to a new blog, but was previously blogging somewhere else.
  • You can nominate as many bloggers as you like, but please try to limit to your very favorites.
  • The blog must be active, which means that the blogger posts at least once every few weeks. When I judge, any blog with no posts in the last 45 days will be eliminated.
  • Blogs that previously won the #1 spot have been retired (see the list below).

Previous winner on the list are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No #1 winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) PLEASE DO NOT NOMINATE ANY OF THESE PREVIOUS WINNERS.

I know that Rori has already asked for nominations on her post back in October but to make it as fair as possible I am going to start that process all over again as I do not have access to any nominations that were made via email.

I know a lot of blogs but I do not know everyone and I am relying on your to help me get to know many more. Nominations are now open. You make your nominations in the comments below or you can email them directly to me Please mark the subject line with ‘2015 Nominations’. Please feel free to return and make as many nominations as you wish. Nominations will run until the 1st of February which should give people plenty of time. That will give me February to do my February Photofest and get all the reading done for this. I will aim to publish in the 1st week in March.

One final thought before you go though. I am sure there will be people who questions my motivations for doing this but if that is the case then you clearly do not know me very well. I have always and will always do everything in my power to encourage, develop and support the sex blogging community. I believe this list does exactly that. Yes it is subjective. There really is no other way to do it without turning it into a voting contest which then opens it up to being dominated by the blogs with higher followers/readership and or those happy to pump their followers for votes. That doesn’t necessarily reflect the best of the blogs only those with the best reach. That seems counter productive to the very ideals of a list. So, if you have problems with me doing a list, as Rori always used to say, please do feel free to do your own. After all this will be my list, made in the spirit of Rori’s but mine nevertheless.

Right, let’s get this show on the road. Time for you all to start nominating your favourites!


PS. Once you have done your nominations please head over to this post to read an update on the rules and vote on the poll to help me to decide how best to lay the list out. Top 100 Sex Blogs 2015 Update & Poll


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  1. Thank you for doing this. I’m sure we all appreciate the immense amount of hard work and dedication that goes in to something like this.

    Here are my nominations. Good luck everyone!

    Naughty Reenie:
    Mr. Will’s House of Thrills:
    Miss Ruby Reviews:
    Sweet Woman, Dirty Mind:
    Ninja Sexology:
    Deviantt Kitten:
    Bex Talks Sex:
    Gritty Woman:
    Aerie’s Room:
    The Big Gay Review:
    Apricot Creams:
    Dangerous Lilly:
    Cara Sutra:
    Marvy Darling:
    Girl on the Net:
    Girly Juice:
    Beck and her Kinks:

  2. So watch as I casually cut-and-paste from Rori’s site to here. 😉

    Thanks for taking this on, Molly… if anyone could do it, I’m sure it’d be you.

    Anyway, MY NOMINATIONS (which are largely unchanged and follow my usual pattern) ARE:

    (i) Charlie Powell at
    (ii) Horny Geek Girl at
    (iii) Seaside Slut at
    (iv) Abbi Rode at
    (v) Jillian Boyd at

    And one wildcard:

    (vi) Charlie J. Forrest at
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  3. Holy crap, you are amazing and a bit crazy for taking this on too. Remind me to buy you a big box of chocolates next time I see you.

    Alrighty then –

    Innocent Loverboy –

    Charlie Powell –

    Aerie’s Room –

    Marvy Darling –

    Erica and Matt –

    Abbi Rode –

    Seaside Slut –

    Horny Geek Girl –
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  4. Girl on the Net:
    Cara Sutra:
    Justin Decerous:
    The Big Gay Review:
    Dangerous Lilly:
    Charlie Powell:
    Abbi Rode:
    Exhibit A:
    Oleander Plume:

    Okay, I’ll stop now. Am sure there are people I’ve missed but oh well.

  5. I want to nominate everyone on my top 20 list:

    A Dissolute Life Means…
    A Sexual Being
    A to sub Bee
    Behind the Chintz Curtain
    Cammies on the floor
    Exposing 40
    F Dot Leonora
    Happy Come Lucky
    Illicit Thoughts
    Malin James
    Melina Greenport
    Modesty Ablaze
    Molly’s Daily Kiss
    Poison Pen/Dirty Mind
    Remittance Girl
    Sex blog (of sorts)
    Stella Kiink
    Stranded in Toronto
    The Other Livvy
    Understanding Flutterby

    I’m sure I will think of more, but will come back later for those 🙂

    Rebel xox
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  6. so let’s see who hasn’t been nommed yet, will try not to duplicate from previous comments. I also pretty much co-sign Emmeline’s noms.

    The Purple Elysium:
    Penny’s Dirty Thoughts:
    Perineum Plunders:
    Kara Sutra:
    (omg I was about to nom Curvaceous Dee and then got the sads)
    A Roll in the Hay:
    Blissfully Orgasmic:
    For Sploosh’s Sake:
    Come Heather:
    Sugarcunt Writes:
    Redhead Bedhead:
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  7. I wasn’t aware of this but it sounds like great fun. Here are my fav blogs to nominate:

    Master Dream’s Precious Treasure:
    Under His Hand:
    This Girl’s Weblog:
    The Sub Mission:
    The Power Exchange:

    I see a theme in what I like to read, haha.
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  8. Love so hard that you are doing this!!!! 😀 I just know that if anyone can do her list justice, it is you! Here are my noms:

    Erika and Matthew:
    Cammies on the Floor:
    Dangerous Lilly:
    Lorrae Bradbury:
    DJ Black and Indigo Sigh:
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  9. Heaven’s Playground:
    Toy Meets Girl:
    Insatiable Desire:
    Miss Ruby Reviews:
    Rebels Notes:
    Frisky In The 916:
    Cammies on the Floor:
    Sweet Woman, Dirty Mind:
    F Dot Leonora:
    A Dissolute Life Means:
    Modesty Ablaze:
    You Can’t Tame This Sassy Cat:
    Penny For Your (Dirty) Thoughts:
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    • The problem with site traffic is that lots of different sites report in different ways. Blogger for example reports hits not unique visits. Very different numbers. So the only way would be to use an outside ranking site and those all have their issues too. I am not sure traffic is always a reliable indicator


  10. I am so pleased you have taken this up Molly and Domsigns, and look forward to putting forward my favourites. I also love these things as a way of finding new places to visit as well as those that have fallen off of the places I go regularly. J xxx
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  11. I’d like to nominate – it is an insightful, provoking, raw, and entertaining blog.

  12. Oh my gosh Molly, you are an absolute star! What a wonderful thing to take on, thank you so much.

    I think most of these are repeat nominations but I didn’t want anyone to be missed!

    Exhibit A –
    Malin James –
    F Dot Leonora –
    Rebecca Black –
    Happy Come Lucky –
    Ella Dawson –
    Abbi Rode –
    Hyacinth Jones –
    Cammies on the Floor –

    Thanks again!
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  13. Beck and her Kink
    Domme Chronicles
    Easily Aroused
    F Dot Leonora
    (Oleander Plume) Poison Pen/Dirty Mind
    Rebel’s Notes
    Stranded in Toronto (Sub-bee)

    I’m sure I’ll come back for more, apologies in advance. And thank you for doing this for our community, you’re such a rock star.

  14. This is an amazing thing you are doing Molly – kudos to you. Here are the nominations I put forward in October to Rori… I see a number of my other faves also nominated already:

    – Hyacinth Jones |
    – Ferns |
    – Cammies on the floor |
    – Dawn |
    – Oh Joy Sex Toy |

    Ann xo
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  15. Thank you, Molly. Here are my nominations:

    Exhibit A –
    Tamsin Flowers –
    The Other Livvy –
    Ella Dawson –
    Cammies on the Floor –
    Happy Come Lucky –
    Xan West – / (As Corey Alexander)

    with possibly a couple more coming 🙂
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  16. Wow Molly, your energy and capacity to do all the amazing things you do is inspiring and astonishing!
    I’ve read through these comments and delighted to say that almost all the blogs I want to nominate are here – one or two I’ll email when I get a second. I’m so sorry that the reason you’re taking this on is because of Rori’s ill health but I’m sure she will be delighted that the list is now in such wonderful hands. A swift recovery wish x x
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  17. Beck and her Kinks –
    Heaven’s Playground –
    Kinky Biker Mom –
    F Dot Lenora –
    Teachers have Sex –
    Modesty Ablaze –

    Those are my nominations for 2016 Sex Bloggers
    Good Luck Molly & Domsigns with this new endeavor
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  19. I appreciate that you are putting in the effort to complete this list.

    I will assume that previous nominations need not be repeated. So here are a few not-yet-acknowledged people I appreciate who fit the stated criteria and who write, in one form or another, about sex, sexuality, sexual relationships, and all the beautifully complicated messiness that goes along with living as a Sexual Being:

    Fatal Syndrome @

    Drew @

    Ret @

    Holly @

    Lola @

    Diirrty @

    And while I have no idea whether or not this man would consider himself a sex blogger, he writes of love and lust, life and loss, sex and relationships, in a way that is provocative and intoxicating:

    Sad, funny, heartfelt, abstract, educational, erotic… They run the gamut. And all are very very REAL people.

    Thank you again for taking the time to compile this list. Happy New Year! 🙂
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  20. It’s amazing that you’ve taken this on. This feels less like a ranking of blogs and more like a chance for us all to come together and love on each other a bunch and that’s so much fun as a community.
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  21. Hi Molly. Thank you for doing this.

    I have a few nominations:

    A Dissolute Life Means:
    Blood, Sex Crimson:
    The Erotic Writer:
    The Submission of Elle:
    Love Eat Sex Cake:
    Easily Aroused:
    Remittance Girl:
    Rouged Mount:
    The Lustful Literate:

    Again, thank you!
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  22. Dear Molly,
    Thank you ever so much for taking on this list! I am so glad to see it continue. It’s how I found sexy blogs and got inspired to blog! Please take a look at two men’s thoughts:

    James F. Break’s “Break Out” blog
    He helped me understand the dynamic of a bi man and hIs “Veronica Story” is riveting sexy fun.

    Advizor54’s “Free Advice is worth what you pay for It” blog
    He rocks the Friday post series where he takes a photo and runs with it to the sexiest corners of the earth.
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  23. Would love to nominate the following, if i may:

    Malin James ( As sex starts in the mind: for providing delicious food for thoughts, Ever so engaging between the line. )
    Love Hate Sex Cake ( Stunning self portrait photography and delicious erotic Haiku )
    The Other Livvy ( New discovery, fresh, honest and
    Sex is my new hobby ( New discovery and already an interesting exploration )
    F Dot Leonora ( Full of wonders)

    and of course two people where it all started:

    Exposing 40 (Fascinating journey and always up for interesting discussions. Thoughtful photography too)
    Molly’s Daily Kiss ( Always challenging and exciting, strong, thoughtfull evolving photography and an important voice leading the way)

    et voila ! Im discovery new blogs every day, writers, poets etc..i think it will be fair to talk about the ones who i challenged me in every senses in 2015.


  24. for her amazing Wicked Wednesday flash fiction which I don’t comment on enough but always enjoy reading and for the wonderful wonderful pieces that topped and tailed the advent calendar in 2015 and made me cry! for fabulous photography, projects like Small Doves and generally really thoughtful posts. for her beautifully crafted thoughtful analysis, which always brings a fresh perspective, not to mention her really really hot fiction. for being the biggest champion of everyone everywhere ever and for her prolific output which frankly I don’t stand a chance of keeping up with! In admiration for some brutally honest and soul searching writing this year and her hot hot MM fiction.
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  25. Better late than never! xx Hy

    Rebel’s Notes-
    Cammies on the Floor –
    Charlie Powell –
    Exhibit A –
    Penny –
    Zoe –
    Ann –
    Cammies –
    Cara –
    N. Likes –
    Fatal –
    Heather & Nikkie –
    HH & Lola –
    Ferns –
    Dumb Domme – – though she may be ineligible now 🙁
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