Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020 – Nominations

by Molly Moore
Chaturbate sponsor topp sex blogs 202

Right well, here we go again. Welcome to the Top 100 Sex Blogs 2020 – Nominations – Another year, another top 100 list and another chance to nominate your favourite sex bloggers.

Let’s kick things off by introducing the sponsors of this years list and I am so happy to say that Chaturbate who have sponsored in 2017, 2018 AND 2019 are back again this year!

Chaturbate sponsor topp sex blogs 202 Chaturbate is the worlds most popular web-cam where you can chat for free. You’ll find thousands of broadcasters live on cam and ready to play, every time you visit. You don’t even have to enter your email or credit card to meet someone to share your sexy fantasies.

I truly can’t sing their praises enough when it comes to supporting this project. Right from the summer of 2017 through to this current list they have been totally on board with the aims of the list and enthusiastic about supporting the sex blogging community as a whole. Please do take a few moments to go and check them out and enjoy their fabulous site because their support really does make all the difference to the amount of time I can dedicate to this project but be warned you might find them very distracting.

An important note on trans inclusivity and transphobia

There has been a lot of discussion of trans inclusivity and transphobia within the sex blogging community this year. After some of these discussions I hired a trans inclusivity consultant to look at the Top 100 Sex Blogs and highlight areas where I can do more to be trans inclusive. Trans inclusivity involves acknowledging your privilege, working to unlearn the cissexism that we have been taught all our lives, uplifting trans and non-binary voices, and not writing about sex as though all men have dicks or vice versa. Without this inclusivity you cannot be a sex positive writer. I have implemented the changes that were suggested to me most notably being clear in the rules about sex positive content and also making a slight change to importance of social media in the scoring and bringing in a score for the use of pronouns. (You can find these changes in the Transparency Report linked below)

I can’t police every thing every blogger has done, especially when it comes to social media. I do however try to read as much of peoples content as I can to get a good feel for what they write about and how they write about it but it is not a perfect science. I am one person reading through, last year in excess of 170 blogs, I will invariably make mistakes and potentially miss content that might disqualify someone. (As in the past, if that happens and I discover it, that blog will be removed from the list) When it comes to removing people from past lists, this will only be done if at the time the list was posted their content at that time breaks any of the rules.

Please read all the details below carefully before making your nominations!

What is the score?

Please read this post, The Transparency Report,  which covers in great detail how the list is made including lots of details about the scoring system and what things I look for on each blog.

New Voice of the Year

In the past this award has gone to two blogs that are new this year and therefore have not been around long enough to qualify for the Top Sex Bloggers list but who have caught my eye as being interesting and exciting and ones to look out for in the future. However last year there were so many newcomers that there ended up being 7 blogs listed in this category so…

Please include a New Voice Blog in your nominations if you wish.

The Rules of the Game…

I have created a permanent page on my site for the rules, any updates or amendments will be published here but as this is the nominations posts I am putting them here also. PLEASE make sure you READ them before making your nominations!

  • If you are a sex blogger, no nominating yourself! I encourage your to tell your readers and social media followers so they can nominate you. You can of course nominate your fellow sex bloggers.
  • Each nomination MUST include the blog url, not just a name
  • The number of nominations any blog gets is not relevant to the outcome of the list. So those with 1 nomination and those with 20 are all considered for the list on an equal footing. Although I do record the numbers down and in the event of a tiebreak between two blogs for a place on the list the number of nominations might be taken into account.
  • Blog content can be anything sex related – erotica/fiction, sex education, sex news, dating, reviews, photography, confessionals, non fiction, personal life accounts etc. Nothing illegal, obviously.
  • Podcasts are not eligible for the list and if your blog is essentially your show-notes and embed of your podcast then you are not eligible. Someone needs to do a list for Podcasts!
  • Is your content sex positive? In the past blogs have been removed from the list because they do not meet this very important criteria. If you are writing posts that are misogynistic, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, whorephobic, etc. or are essentially pick up artist tips, then your blog is not sex positive and your blog will not be included on the list. Additionally, if you are promoting unsafe practices like vaginal douching, “surprise” anal sex or anal sex without lube then your blog will not be included on the list.
  • If you are linking to such sites or publishing content that is sponsored by sites that I deem to be problematic, (examples listed in the previous point) you will not qualify for the list.
  • The blog can’t be protected. It’s ok if a few of the posts are protected, but the entire blog can’t be behind a password or paywall
  • The blog should be at least a year old, but anyone who’s been blogging since at least November 1st, 2019 will be considered. Special exceptions will be made for someone who has recently moved to a new blog, but was previously blogging somewhere else as long as that content is still available to view.
  • You can nominate as many bloggers as you like.
  • The blog must have a minimum of 24 posts published between 1st Nov 2019 – 31st Oct 2020. Any blog with no posts in the last 45 days will be eliminated.
  • Tumblr style blogs that are purely reposting other people’s content are not eligible for the list.
  • Commercial magazine style sites are not eligible for the list.
  • Blogs attached to commercial shops are not eligible for the list.
  • Blogs that previously won the #1 spot have been retired (see the list below).

Previous winner on the list are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No #1 winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) A Dissolute Life Means (2015) Domme Chronicles (2016) Kayla Lords (2017) Rebel’s Notes (2018) Floss Does life 2019

PLEASE DO NOT NOMINATE ANY OF THESE PREVIOUS WINNERS

These are the current rules as of 1st October 2020. I reserve the right to amend, adapt, change or suspend the rules at our discretion but any changes will be issued in writing on this site.

I know a lot of blogs but I do not know everyone and I am relying on you to help me get to know many more. Nominations are now open. You make your nominations in the comments below or you can email them directly to me [email protected] Please mark the subject line with ‘2020 Nominations’. Please feel free to return and make as many nominations as you wish. Nominations will run until the 1st of November 2020 which should give people plenty of time. That will give me November to do all the reading etc with the aim of publishing the list in the first week of December 2020.

I think that just about covers it, now it is over to you for the nominations!

You may also like

89 comments

Chris October 1, 2020 - 6:19 pm

I nominate Rain DeGrey @ https://www.raindegrey.com

Reply
Top October 1, 2020 - 6:40 pm

I’d like to nominate The barefoot sub
Aleapoffaith.uk
Sex positive and always non judgmental x

Reply
Tom October 1, 2020 - 7:55 pm Reply
Joanne Summers October 1, 2020 - 11:19 pm

Little Switch Bitch – https://littleswitchbitch.com/

Reply
MxNillin October 2, 2020 - 5:41 am Reply
Allison Thorpe October 2, 2020 - 9:25 am

https://twitter.com/megwardwrites?s=09

Maghan Ward is honest funny and so informative

Reply
Kimora October 2, 2020 - 9:39 am

I nominate ozinlondon.co.uk

Reply
Kimora October 2, 2020 - 9:42 am Reply
Stuart Collins October 2, 2020 - 11:26 am

I’d like to nominate @luvbunnySL82

http://WWW.downthebunnyrabbithole.com

Thank you X

Reply
Angie October 2, 2020 - 2:20 pm

I nominate http://www.ozinlondon.co.uk/blog

OCTOBER 2, 2020

Reply
oxyfromsg October 2, 2020 - 5:24 pm

I nominate the lovely @ZebraRoseSub
http://knkstriped.net

Reply
Oxyfromsg October 2, 2020 - 5:26 pm

And nominate
Little Switch Bitch – https://littleswitchbitch.com/

Reply
Storm October 2, 2020 - 6:24 pm Reply
Storm October 2, 2020 - 6:26 pm Reply
Innocent Loverboy October 2, 2020 - 6:46 pm

Every year it gets harder for me to vote in these things – it’s not that I don’t want to, per se; it’s just that a lot of my favourite bloggers don’t update enough to be nominated. I had to think about this for a good long while before I could come up with enough names, let alone pick some to vote for!

ANYWAY, my nominations this year are:

1. Quinn (onqueerstreet.com)
2. Amy (coffeeandkink.me)

The above two are fairly interchangeable, albeit different enough to be unique (if that makes any sense – beyond the fact that they are written by different authors!) – I’m nominating them both because they regularly produce content – something I’ve bemoaned a couple of paragraphs above – which actually has some genuine thought put into it, rather than just being clickbaity. And Quinn, in particular, has put some sterling work into trans activism.

3. Christine (workthegreymatter.com)

It’s very unusual to find another openly Christian sex blogger, and I’ve mostly had to make do with talking to myself about open sex-positivity justified with the fellowship of Jesus Christ! Christine’s blog, thought-provoking and written with eloquence, walks the tightrope between sex and spirituality with just the right sort of balance. It’s a gem.

4. Luv Bunny (downthebunnyrabbithole.com)

I remember her being friendly at Eroticon, and so I started reading her blog after that. It’s a good mix of content, not too one-sided, from someone who clearly knows her subject. And the cheeky nod to Lovehoney, in her name, is a nice add-on.

5. Little Switch Bitch (littleswitchbitch.com)

LSB has had a hell of a time this year considering her continuing battle with Twitter! Her blog, however, still stands where it was, and I really like the way she presents her content. She’s another one I’ve met and chatted with in the flesh, and lovely, to boot – really not as much of a bitch as the name suggests (the switchy side, however, I can’t vouch for…)!

And one wildcard:

DomSigns (domsigns.com)

I was in two minds as to whether or not to nominate him. His blog is like a dichotomy in website form – half wistful and yearning, half mournful and sorrowful – while not everything he writes is to my taste, and I’m not particularly fond of the blog’s design, he still posts things I want to read, so I think that justifies this final nomination.

Reply
Smith October 2, 2020 - 6:49 pm Reply
oxyfromsg October 2, 2020 - 6:54 pm Reply
And now for the "awful self-promotion" bit... - Innocent Loverboy October 2, 2020 - 8:58 pm

[…] Molly’s list. This one was started by Rori Sweet back in the 2000s and adopted by Molly Moore once Rori retired […]

Reply
Quenby October 3, 2020 - 12:13 am

I nominate

mxnillin.com
onqueerstreet.com
coffeeandkink.me
akinkyautistic.com

Reply
Miranda October 3, 2020 - 5:30 am

I would love to nominate fellow Aussies Annabel & Raven – http://www.discovering-kink.com/

Reply
Raven Lee October 9, 2020 - 5:42 am

Thankyou Miranda! So glad you wnjoy our blog!

Reply
Focused and Filthy October 3, 2020 - 11:21 am

I’d like to nominate Honey at https://happycomelucky.com/
The Other Livvy https://theotherlivvy.com/
Zebra Rose at https://www.knkstriped.net/
and Subbee at https://atosubbee.com/

I’ll probably be back later to fill in the others I’ve forgotten.
Missy x

Reply
Mistress Volga October 3, 2020 - 1:27 pm

I nominate https://ozinlondon.co.uk/blog

Mistress Volga

Reply
angie October 3, 2020 - 2:43 pm Reply
Adra October 4, 2020 - 7:48 pm

I’d love to see Submissive Feminist get nominated!

http://www.submissivefeminist.com/

Reply
Charlotte October 5, 2020 - 5:17 pm

I would like to nominate http://Ozinlondon.co.uk/blog

Reply
Andrew Standon October 5, 2020 - 9:04 pm

Dildoordildont.com

Reply
Matthew Bischoff October 5, 2020 - 9:28 pm

I nominate Kate Sloan of girlyjuice.net

Reply
Jon Bradley October 5, 2020 - 9:35 pm Reply
Sinclair Sexsmith October 5, 2020 - 10:14 pm

I nominate submissivefeminist.com

Reply
Mike October 5, 2020 - 10:15 pm Reply
Kubiak October 5, 2020 - 10:16 pm Reply
Meg October 5, 2020 - 10:16 pm

I nominate Carly S. dildoordildont.com

Reply
Susannah October 5, 2020 - 10:21 pm

I nominate submissivefeminist.com

(@SubFeminist)

Reply
rarely-conscious October 5, 2020 - 10:35 pm

I’d like to nominate the lovey submissive feminist:
http://www.submissivefeminist.com/

Reply
MxNillin October 5, 2020 - 11:19 pm

Sarah Brynn Holliday: https://formidablefemme.com

Chronic Sex: http://www.chronicsex.org

Super Smash Cache: https://supersmashcache.com

Reply
MxNillin October 5, 2020 - 11:46 pm

Witch of the Wands: https://www.witchofthewands.com

Isabelle Lauren: https://www.isabellelauren.com

Submissive Feminist: http://www.submissivefeminist.com

Dildo or Dildon’t: https://www.dildoordildont.com

Reply
To October 6, 2020 - 12:24 am

I nominate Rain DeGrey @ https://www.raindegrey.com

Reply
AverageNikki October 6, 2020 - 12:33 am

https://www.offthecuffs.org/blog/ is my first only nomination… Because amazeballs.

Reply
Michael October 6, 2020 - 3:08 am

I would like to nominate Grace on

https://princesspreviews.com/

Reply
Grace October 6, 2020 - 3:15 am

Tawney Darling of Open Bobs BB – http://www.openbobsbb.com/
Betty Butch – http://bettybutch.com/
Hey Epiphora – https://heyepiphora.com/
Kitten Boheme – http://kittenboheme.com/
Phallophile Reviews – https://phallophilereviews.com
Little Switch Bitch – https://littleswitchbitch.com/
Oh Glow – https://ohglowblog.blogspot.com/
Super Smash Cache – https://supersmashcache.com/
The Wench Works – http://www.thewenchworks.com/
Kelvin Sparks – http://kelvinsparks.com/
Backwards Bedroom – http://backwoodsbedroom.com/
Witch of the Wands – http://www.witchofthewands.com/
Ryn’s Revels – https://rynsrevels.com/
Miss Ruby Reviews – https://missrubyreviews.com/
Tess Tesst – https://www.tesstesst.nl/
Lippenbekenntnisse – http://www.lippenbekenntnisse.de
Climaximaal – https://climaximaal.nl
Nessbow – https://nessbow.com/
Objets de Plaisir – https://www.objetsdeplaisir.fr/
The Queer Earthling – https://queerearthling.com/
Hardwood Reviews – https://www.hardwoodtoyreviews.com/
Righteous Femme – https://righteousfemme.com/

Reply
JohnHylton October 6, 2020 - 5:32 am

I nominate Rain DeGrey @ https://www.raindegrey.com

Reply
Holly Pigache October 6, 2020 - 11:03 am

I’d like to nominate Submissy at https://submissy.com/. Her posts are informative, sex-positive and enjoyable.

Reply
Jacqui Smith October 6, 2020 - 11:32 am

https://stillsearchingforprincecharming.co.uk/

Her writing has developed from keeping a humourous blog about dating mishaps, to a change in career to focus solely on writing. I love the diversity of blog posts, from witty comments, to poetry to educational pieces. She champions positivity about sex (particularly for women where there has been such stigma), as well as changes to the national curriculum. Someone that I actually enjoy getting notifications from that another blog post is available!

Reply
Kelvin Sparks October 6, 2020 - 10:51 pm

I want to nominate:

Mx Nillin (mxnillin.com)
Quinn Rhodes(onqueerstreet.com)

Reply
Laurieann Vicsson October 7, 2020 - 12:44 am Reply
Holly October 7, 2020 - 1:12 pm

I would like to nominate https://mlslavepuppet.com/ because she’s spreading sex positivity and giving valuable insight and personal experience into being a slave.

Reply
Larry October 8, 2020 - 8:21 am

I nominate Infernal Monkey – https://infernalmonkey.com/

His reviews consistently make me laugh, and helped me feel at ease with realizing owning a fleshlight wasn’t embarrassing as I’d feared.

Reply
Michael October 8, 2020 - 2:13 pm

I would like to nominate MrsK of LifeofaKinkywife for new voice of the year.
Her blog is inspirational and educational, and fun
https://lifeofakinkywife.com

Reply
Violet Fawkes October 9, 2020 - 4:19 am Reply
Violet Fawkes October 9, 2020 - 4:22 am

Nomination for New Voice Award : Gemma Beryls https://gemmaberyls.home.blog/

Reply
DeviantSuccubus October 9, 2020 - 12:39 pm

I want to nominate MrsK for the New Voice Award: https://lifeofakinkywife.com/

And Francesca Demont: https://francescademontslittlesecrets.com/

Reply
MrsK October 9, 2020 - 2:27 pm

I nominate Deviant Succubus

https://deviantsuccubus.com

Reply
blue October 9, 2020 - 9:03 pm Reply
Laurel E Thompson October 9, 2020 - 9:25 pm

I nominate bluesubmission.com

Reply
Violet October 10, 2020 - 1:36 am Reply
Anne Stagg October 10, 2020 - 5:21 am

I nominate:
Love is a Fetish – https://loveisafetish.com
The Wench Works – https://thewenchworks.com
On Queer Street – https://onqueerstreet.com/about-me/
Mx Nillin – https://mxnillin.com
Quenby Creatives – https://quenbycreatives.com/
Jayne Renault – http://jaynerenault.com/
Tabitha Rayne – https://tabitharayne.com/

Reply
Rolf Hansen October 10, 2020 - 8:42 am

I nominate Rain DeGrey @ https://www.raindegrey.com
An absolutely professionally written blog with a lot of specialist knowledge, but also written with humor. Really very worth reading. Is absolute fun

Reply
Ruby Rousson October 10, 2020 - 2:28 pm

I nominate Rain DeGrey – https://www.raindegrey.com

Reply
NikiT October 11, 2020 - 6:36 pm

I nominate Rain DeGrey

Reply
Emma October 13, 2020 - 8:25 am

2020 nominations
Holly pigache

stillsearchingforprincecharming.co.uk

Reply
MrsK October 13, 2020 - 9:50 pm

I would also like to nominate Sass C. Of
https://thesassysubdaily.com
For new voice of the year

Reply
Steve October 17, 2020 - 3:15 pm

I nominate Arousibility – https://www.Arousibility.com

Reply
LittleSwitchBitch October 21, 2020 - 10:26 am

I know I’ll forget someone so I will most likely be back but in no particular order :

Zebra Rose https://www.knkstriped.net/
Honey https://happycomelucky.com
Sub Bee https://atosubbee.com/
Violet Fawkes https://violetfawkes.com/
E.L.Byrne https://elbyrnewriter.com/
NotSoSexintheCity https://notsosexinthecity.com/
Amy https://coffeeandkink.me/
Blue Submission https://bluesubmission.com/
Tabitha Rayne https://tabitharayne.com/
Love is a Fetish https://loveisafetish.com
Joanne’s Reviews https://www.sexmachinereviews.co.uk/
Princess Previews https://princesspreviews.com/
Devie https://deviantsuccubus.com/
Missy https://focusedandfilthy.com/
Quinn Rhodes https://onqueerstreet.com/
Vanilla Free Sex https://vanillafreesex.com/
Bibulous One http://painaspleasure.com/
Luv Bunny https://www.downthebunnyrabbithole.com/
Julie https://masterspleasingbitch.com/
Lilly https://lillithavir.com/
Isabelle Lauren: https://www.isabellelauren.com
Muse https://the-artful-muse.com/
Tom https://lovedyoualongtime.wordpress.com/
Alethea Hunt https://alethea.whenimonmyown.uk/

Not sure if they count but I also want to throw in Kisungra and Annie Savoy too – mainly because I hope they both see this and in time returns to blogging because I really miss their work x

Reply
Modesty Ablaze October 22, 2020 - 10:24 pm

I nominate “Life of Elliott” https://thelifeofelliottandallthatjizz.com/

Because I do so enjoy seeing a lovely Morning Glory in the morning when I awake !!!

Reply
MxNillin October 25, 2020 - 11:25 am

Rewriting the Rules: https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/
Bambi Biohazard: https://bambibiohazard.com/
Nomadic Boys: https://nomadicboys.com/
The Big Gay Review: https://thebiggayreview.com/
Innocent Loverboy: https://innocentlb.com/

Reply
Brigit Delaney October 25, 2020 - 8:16 pm

Thesassysubdaily.com
Raspberryripples.wordpress.com
Mrsfever.com
Deviantsuccubus.com
Flossdoeslife.com
Purplesgem.com
Littleswitchbitch.com
Submissy.com

Reply
MrsK October 26, 2020 - 6:19 pm

One more to nominate

https://brigitdelaney.com

Reply
Brigit Delaney October 27, 2020 - 2:51 pm

Thank you!

Reply
Mrs Fever October 27, 2020 - 9:07 pm

I don’t know how you do this. I really don’t.

But it’s awesome that you do. 🙂

.

I feel like there has been a significant drop in writership this year — COVID being the obvious reason but there are likely unseen/unknown forces deterring people from blogging as well — and it makes nominating folks a bit difficult. If they meet the “must have 24 posts” part of the brief, they don’t necessarily meet the “within the past 45 days” bit. I’ve held off on leaving any comment here til now because I’ve been {1} counting posts on people’s blogs, and {2} hoping that some of my preferred writers would post again before the end of the month.

I don’t think multiples matter much (not for nominations, anyway; orgasms are another story), so I’ve reviewed all the nominations above and I’m pretty sure I’m not repeating any with the below:

IF Charlie posts again before November 1, and therefore meets the “45 days” requirement, I hope you will consider:

https://sexblogofsorts.com/

OTHERWISE

I’d like to nominate:

https://denyingthumper.com/

(He also blogs at https://thesubmissiverabbit.home.blog/, and between the two sites he meets the 24-post requirement.)

.

Thank you for taking on this gargantuan task, especially in this time of monumental ‘meh’-ness. I appreciate all the work you do!

Reply
Brigit Delaney October 27, 2020 - 11:27 pm

Carathereon.com

Reply
Exhibit A October 29, 2020 - 11:19 pm

Will try to do more tomorrow, but I nominate Sex, Love & Videotape! https://sexlovevideo.theotherlivvy.com/

Reply
Quinn Rhodes October 30, 2020 - 1:59 pm

Have I left this until pretty much the last minute because I’m super anxious that I’ll forget people? Yes. Does doing it at the last minute increase the chances of me forgetting people? Also yes. Anyway, my nominations:

Mx Nillin: https://mxnillin.com
Quenby Creatives: https://quenbycreatives.com
Coffee And Kink: https://coffeeandkink.me
Arousibility: https://arousibility.com
The Wench Works: https://www.thewenchworks.com/
Kelvin Sparks: https://kelvinsparks.com
The Other Livvy: https://theotherlivvy.com
Formidable Femme: http://formidablefemme.com
Girly Juice: https://girlyjuice.net
Exhibit A: http://exhibitunadorned.com
Betty Butch: https://bettybutch.com
Dildo Or Dildon’t: https://www.dildoordildont.com
Super Smash Cache: https://supersmashcache.com
A Kinky Autistic: https://akinkyautistic.com
Queer Courtesan: https://queercourtesan.com
A to sub Bee: https://atosubbee.com

Reply
Francesca Demont October 30, 2020 - 5:13 pm Reply
Sherie Pastor November 1, 2020 - 4:39 am

Krystal is one of my favorite bloggers, I love her pictures so much too!
@bisexualminx
https://krystalminx.wordpress.com/

Reply
Tabitha November 1, 2020 - 8:43 am

Sherryl from Tinted Blu
https://tintedblu.com/

I think everyone else is here, god I hope I am in time, it’s still 31st somewhere I hope!!!

Reply
Sherrie Pastor November 1, 2020 - 10:19 am

Please include Krystal as I love her blog/photos! Submitted a comment before, but did not see it post so something may have happened – if so please excuse this duplicate. Thank you Molly – love (and follow) your site too!
https://krystalminx.wordpress.com @BisexualMinx

Reply
violet fawkes November 30, 2020 - 5:49 pm

Thank you for all the work and time that goes into this Molly – we appreciate you. If I could drop off mince tarts and tea for you as you work on this I would! You’re the best. Thank you.

Reply

Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: