Poly Stuff

On the 15th January last year I wrote this on my blog about dating and dating apps… I was maybe meant to be going on date tonight. On Wednesday I …

“What’s love got to do, got to do with it?” ~ Tina Turner A very good question Tina. Let’s see if we can answer it Childhood and love For many …

“So many things to unlearn….” ~ The Other Me. We learn from experiences and sometimes the things we learn are positive and sometimes they are not. This post deals with …

Sometimes things go well and sometimes they totally wrong foot you and when they do often the best and only thing you can do is sit with it for a …

I have a lot of slutty desires many of which I have written about here and explored over the last 8 years or so but one particular area has been …

I went on a date on Sunday. Well maybe a date is not quite the right word for it, it was more along the lines of a hook up. I …

“Authentic… … representing one’s true nature or beliefs; true to oneself or to the person identified” I have always tried to be this here on my blog and in my …

I am really not very good at monogamy When I told Michael I was planning on writing this post he said I shouldn’t say that as it makes it sound …

I know it has been a while since I did one of these but better late than never so here goes. Of late I have been having lots of thought …

“A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.” ~ Bernard Meltzer I was bullied at school. …

Compersion: A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship. (Urban Dictionary) I wonder how long it will be before …

A couple of months back someone left this question on my blog and I promised to write a post in response. Apologies to Melinda who left the comment as it …

Michael’s girlfriend is here. She is visiting from the USA and is only here for a few days. Too few days in fact is what we have all decided today. …