Poly Stuff

“What’s love got to do, got to do with it?” ~ Tina Turner A very good question Tina. Let’s see if we can answer it Childhood and love For many…

“So many things to unlearn….” ~ The Other Me. We learn from experiences and sometimes the things we learn are positive and sometimes they are not. This post deals with…

Sometimes things go well and sometimes they totally wrong foot you and when they do often the best and only thing you can do is sit with it for a…

I have a lot of slutty desires many of which I have written about here and explored over the last 8 years or so but one particular area has been…

I went on a date on Sunday. Well maybe a date is not quite the right word for it, it was more along the lines of a hook up. I…

I have been debating writing this post for a couple of weeks but, well, it is hard and so I have repeatedly talked myself out of it but today I…

“Authentic… … representing one’s true nature or beliefs; true to oneself or to the person identified” I have always tried to be this here on my blog and in my…

I am really not very good at monogamy When I told Michael I was planning on writing this post he said I shouldn’t say that as it makes it sound…

I know it has been a while since I did one of these but better late than never so here goes. Of late I have been having lots of thought…

“A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.” ~ Bernard Meltzer I was bullied at school.…

Compersion: A feeling of joy when a loved one invests in and takes pleasure from another romantic or sexual relationship. (Urban Dictionary) I wonder how long it will be before…

A couple of months back someone left this question on my blog and I promised to write a post in response. Apologies to Melinda who left the comment as it…

Michael’s girlfriend is here. She is visiting from the USA and is only here for a few days. Too few days in fact is what we have all decided today.…