Long Distance Relationship

Sometimes things go well and sometimes they totally wrong foot you and when they do often the best and only thing you can do is sit with it for a…

Voluntary or involuntary? Clearly-defined or open-ended? Happy or utterly miserable? Most of us will endure (enjoy?) periods of celibacy at various points in our lives, whether it’s a short dry…

Hertfordshire December 2009 It is snowing, a rare thing in the UK. The kids are waiting in the hall for me. “Come on, just 5 minutes” appears on the screen…

It is not only Masturbation Month but because it is, for that very reason it’s also the topic on Kink of the Week. Yes, I really was that organised for…

One thing I quickly came to realise when @domsigns and I were in a long distance relationship is just how much I craved to be kissed. Oh I wanted to…

“Good afternoon madam, how can I help you” “Checking in” I replied, pushing my reservation confirmation across the desk towards the young man. He immediately busied himself with his computer…

Words are powerful. I have known this since I was a child when I would get utterly lost in the words of a book. As a child books were my…

I am terrible at making decisions. I am brilliant at making decisions. Two contradicting statements but, depending on the circumstance both are true. In my younger years I made some…

It is dusk. We are sitting outside in the garden enjoying the last of the evening warmth. I have a glass of white wine, chilled and crisp and he talking.…

I have spent all week mulling the topic of Protocol over in my brain and I have tried starting this piece about 3 times. Each time I think I have…

I have learnt something about myself in the last couple of days. Sir is away in America for work. I have been dreading this trip for months now but I…

Today is our first wedding anniversary! I can’t believe it has already been a year, where on earth does the time go? Although I think the answer here is probably…

I am on holiday… or more correctly WE are on holiday. This will be our first family holiday together since Sir moved to the UK to live with me and…

20th June 2012 The prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday is …I sent him (her) an email… immediately it got me thinking of all the emails that Sir and I…

21st December 2011 I was thinking back to this time last year. So much has changed and all of it makes me smile. This time last year I was counting…