Michael’s girlfriend is here. She is visiting from the USA and is only here for a few days. Too few days in fact is what we have all decided today.
They have been exploring their relationship long distance for 6 months now and this is their first in person meeting and I have been lucky enough to witness all of it and it has been joyful.
I have never been a jealous person and we have certainly had a previous third partner but this time round it is slightly different as this is definitely their relationship and so I have wondered if that might change anything for me but it hasn’t. They are Daddy and Kitten. It is their thing they have built together and I love it. I love seeing them together. They both look so happy to be near each other finally. We are all sharing a bed and today I have watched them play, witnessed Cara working off her points and got to take some beautiful pictures of her as well as the both of them together.
So far I have not written about this new part of our lives because mainly it was their thing and also it was new for everyone and needed space to develop without scrutiny so if you are thinking, wait, what, did I miss something, you really didn’t as this is the first mention of it here but it won’t be the last. Mostly it is their story to tell and share if they wish but clearly I have a place in it and I have my own thoughts and feelings to explore which I will do in time.
The internet is a wonderful thing, it brings people together who would never have found one another without such technology but it does also mean that often times people find someone who doesn’t live in their street, town, city or even their country and then the complications of long distance relationships arise. I know all too well how tough that can be seeing as Michael and I started off that way too so what the future holds only time will tell but another trip is being planned, but in the meantime the thing to do is to focus on the here and now and enjoy this short but precious time together.