Thoughts for the day

Bullying comes in all shapes and sizes and happens to all sorts of people. I was bullied at school by two girls in particular who managed to turn an already …

The other day after getting out of the shower I was sorting through the pile of discarded clothes on the bedroom floor deciding if any of them could be worn …

In my local area group on Fetlife, which I run, a new member posed this question; “The predicament I find myself in is my complete lack of tools of the …

I have spent the last couple of days thinking over the topic of shame. Despite the modern times we live in where a woman can vote, own a property, work, …

Before I start I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not belittling anyone’s experiences and possible traumas they have encountered in life. We are all a sum …

Today I read a post on Kendra Hollidays blog, The Beautiful Kind, about a threesome that she and her partner recently experienced. The threesome in question was an FMF with …

Rebel is hundred today! Well not Rebel herself obviously, but her fabulous meme Wicked Wednesday celebrates its hundredth post this week which means that I too am celebrating my 100th …

It is a funny time of year don’t you think? Christmas is behind us and yet the New Year is not quite here. It always feels a to me a …

I am not sure I have many secret pleasure left. When you write an autobiographical sex blog you tend to gradually expose all your secret pleasure. No one sets out …

Did you watch SexBox on Channel 4 on Monday night? (apologies for my USA readers as I suspect you have to be in the UK to view it) If you …

On my travels around the internet I am constantly stumbling across interesting things and so I have decided that from now I shall attempt to share more of this stuff …

Sexy is that look in his eye when I say no, the slow easy smile that spreads across his lips as he advances across the room towards me and the …

When I look up submissive or submission in the dictionary I am greeted with such words as ‘meek’ ‘obedient’ ‘passive’ and compliant an I can only assume that these strict …

I have always known I was different. At school I was the lonely quiet child, painfully shy and socially awkward. I had the odd friend from time to time, lonely …

The prompt for Wicked Wednesday this week is this… (click the image to enlarge) I have not written a great deal about this subject and so when I saw the …