Issues of the day

For many people sex blogging and other related forms of erotic creative work is something that they do under a pen name in order to keep the ‘adult’ related side…

Before I start I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not belittling anyone’s experiences and possible traumas they have encountered in life. We are all a sum…

When you open the front cover of a murder mystery do you find a warning inside telling you that stabbing people with a knife is dangerous, or, never go down…

Yes, I appear to be back on soap box again. I apologise if the tone of things round here has become a little activist in nature but this is a…

I confess that I have a rape fantasy. In fact I have more than one. They all differ slightly, there is darkened rooms, shadowy faces, slow exposure, examination and then…

Did you watch SexBox on Channel 4 on Monday night? (apologies for my USA readers as I suspect you have to be in the UK to view it) If you…

Today on Twitter (25th June 2013) I got involved in a conversation with a number of people about appropriate or more worryingly inappropriate dress and tattoo adornment for older women.…

Do you know what your favourite dildo is made of? Of course you do right, I mean it tells you right there on the packaging doesn’t it? Or does it?…

… or so William Saletan a writer at Slate.com would have you believe. Over the last few days he has written two pieces on the subject of BDSM The Trouble…

I am submissive. I know this is probably not a shock to many of you but bear with me this opening sentence is important. Yesterday Sir and I read a…

31st May 2011 What do you call yours; Vagina, lady bits, cunt, vag, pussy, hoo hoo, down there, vajayjay, cunny, kitty, fanny (for American readers, fanny in the UK is…

1st May 2011 I have a house that I own, 2 healthy children, an income, a car, and my health. There are tough parts of my life and over the…

21st March 2011 If you are not a Brit then you may not have heard about Red Nose Day. It is the big fund raiser attached to a charity in…

December 20th 2010 Have you heard the news? It has snowed in the UK! If you have been watching the various media reports of life in the UK over the…