Issues of the day

For many people sex blogging and other related forms of erotic creative work is something that they do under a pen name in order to keep the ‘adult’ related side …

Before I start I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not belittling anyone’s experiences and possible traumas they have encountered in life. We are all a sum …

When you open the front cover of a murder mystery do you find a warning inside telling you that stabbing people with a knife is dangerous, or, never go down …

Yes, I appear to be back on soap box again. I apologise if the tone of things round here has become a little activist in nature but this is a …

I confess that I have a rape fantasy. In fact I have more than one. They all differ slightly, there is darkened rooms, shadowy faces, slow exposure, examination and then …

Did you watch SexBox on Channel 4 on Monday night? (apologies for my USA readers as I suspect you have to be in the UK to view it) If you …

Today on Twitter (25th June 2013) I got involved in a conversation with a number of people about appropriate or more worryingly inappropriate dress and tattoo adornment for older women. …

Do you know what your favourite dildo is made of? Of course you do right, I mean it tells you right there on the packaging doesn’t it? Or does it? …

… or so William Saletan a writer at Slate.com would have you believe. Over the last few days he has written two pieces on the subject of BDSM The Trouble …

I am submissive. I know this is probably not a shock to many of you but bear with me this opening sentence is important. Yesterday Sir and I read a …

31st May 2011 What do you call yours; Vagina, lady bits, cunt, vag, pussy, hoo hoo, down there, vajayjay, cunny, kitty, fanny (for American readers, fanny in the UK is …

1st May 2011 I have a house that I own, 2 healthy children, an income, a car, and my health. There are tough parts of my life and over the …

21st March 2011 If you are not a Brit then you may not have heard about Red Nose Day. It is the big fund raiser attached to a charity in …

December 20th 2010 Have you heard the news? It has snowed in the UK! If you have been watching the various media reports of life in the UK over the …