When it comes to domestic service I am not really the serving kind but that that maybe I might have a developing interest in being served…
He is down on his hands and knees. No mop and bucket today. There is a bucket and a scrubbing brush just no mop. He is meticulously scrubbing the tiled floor in the kitchen.
“Did you miss a bit” I say pointing to the floor just in front of my feet.
“No, I have not got to that bit yet.”
That is obvious because he is still over by the sink and I am standing by the kettle
“Well maybe you should do this bit”
He glances over his shoulder at me. Our eyes meet. He knows that look. He crawls across the floor to me dragging the bucket with him. Now he is kneeling at my feet. The look in his pretty blue eyes makes my blood thump through my veins.
“Here?” he asks wiping just in front of my feet.
“Yes just there” I reply as I sneak my hand up under my skirt and start rubbing my clit.
He makes a little whimpering sound and I know he wants to touch too but I like tormenting him and I like the floor to be clean.
This is just a thought. Up until now most of my kink relationships have involved me being the sub but a couple of months ago I found myself conversing with a sub man and much to my surprised I uncovered a Domme streak I didn’t know existed. Sadly I have not really got to explore it at all, for now but it is has piqued my interest. So we shall see, maybe one day a beautiful blue eyed boy will clean the floor for me while I masturbate over him. I rather like the idea.
However reverse the roles and have me doing the cleaning or any other domestic service and the same can not be said to be true. I am never going to be the type of submissive who is going to cook and clean and wait and serve on someone. I have absolutely not interest in that type is servitude within D/s.
That does not mean I won’t make someone I love and care about a coffee or dinner or do the laundry or iron them a shirt because I absolutely will but I do it because I love them and like to do a nice thing for them not because there is an expectation to serve them in that way or because it is my ‘job’. I am not going to stand each week and iron shirt after shirt after shirt especially if you don’t even know where the fucking iron lives but I will iron your shirt when you are running late because we stayed in bed and fucked when you should have gotten up.
My first husband was often fairly passive aggressive about how clean, or not, the house was and it was something I grew to hugely resent. I am never going to get off on serving someone in that style however that does not mean I don’t get it. Clearly the scenario above shows I totally get it, just it doesn’t work for me if I am the one doing the ‘service’.
That is not to say I don’t like cleaning because in some way I actually do. If I am stressed or anxious or even sometimes angry and good bit of what Michael named ‘stress cleaning’ goes a long way. I think it is the combination of moving my body and also the element of control. You can make things right. You can turn mess into order and that can be a really good feeling sometimes.
One of the other things I like about cleaning is when it is done. There is something about a clean bathroom or kitchen that is just hugely fucking satisfying. It a good job well done that I will make a happy sigh about as I walk away. It is an act of service to me. Also as far as I am concerned the only way to ever clean the bathroom is naked it. So whilst domestic service is not a kink for me if you do like to watch a woman cleaning in the nude, then you best pop round on the days when I do the bathroom because that always involves me getting naked. Cleaning the bathroom with clothes on is just a silly idea that always results in you changing your clothes because they are wet. Naked is the way to go!
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