I love sucking cock. Really I do. It is one of my all time favourite sex things. I love it as part of sex but I also love it as an act in its own right. Giving him a blow job and him coming in my mouth or, if I am lucky, on my tits, is seriously hot to me.
My feelings on receiving oral sex are not quite as enthusiastic for a variety of reasons that you can read more about on my post, Terrifyingly Close. However a summary is that many years of not getting off during oral sex left me thinking it was just not for me. With Michael that opinion has changed and I know that with the right man who is prepared to learn my body it is hot to the extent that sometimes I will even ask for it.
When it comes to oral delights I am of the belief that for it to be really good it requires a persons full attention. Being utterly immersed in giving your partner pleasure is one the keys to great oral sex. Getting distracted in the middle of a blow job does not for a good blow job make and this is why I have never been a huge fan of combining the two acts into one, 69 style.
I don’t know where my head is meant to be. It starts off OK but then I always find one or other act taking over in my mind and that being the one I am focusing on. So either I am so focused on sucking him that I have pretty much switched off to any possible pleasure he is giving me with his mouth or, his mouth feels so damn good that I find myself idly stroking his shaft with my hand instead of giving it my full attention with his mouth. I am generally pretty good at multitasking, but when it comes to a 69 I seem to forget how to do more than one thing at a time.
But what of him? One of the things that really turns him on is the thought of me having an orgasm with his cock in my mouth. He says I suck him best of all when that happens and so for him the idea of a 69 totally fits into that desire. However because I rarely orgasm from oral sex we have basically adapted the notion. I will lay on my side and suck him while he uses his fingers or a dildo on me while I rub my clit. I still struggle with keeping my mind focused though as the sensations start to build in my cunt I often ‘forget’ about what my mouth is supposed to doing. He, on the other hand, does not, and tends to issue a growled reminder to me along the lines of
“Don’t stop sucking my cock or I won’t let you come”
This not only gets my mouth back where it is meant to be but also turns me on even more. A win, win situation which in my opinion is exactly what a 69 is meant to be.