If it is hard and smooth then I am probably going to want to stick it inside me. Clearly there are some exceptions to this rule, although carrots are not one of them but for the purpose of this post I am actually referring to dildos.
This topic for Kink of the Week had me searching through my dildo drawer (isn’t that what every girl keeps in her bedside drawer?) to find my favourites so that I could photograph them. Once they were all laid out on the bed I suddenly realised that my dildo kink, and I most definitely have one of those, is fairly focused on a certain type of dildo; predominantly but not exclusively glass. Even those that are not glass, the stone and wood ones, all have something in common with the glass in that they are hard, and the wood one aside, are all very smooth, fairly heavy and great conductors of temperature.
My first dildo, and I am sure I am not alone in this, was the handle of my hairbrush. I can’t remember how old I was exactly somewhere around the age of 14 – 16. I had already been using my fingers but they just didn’t seem to quite cut it. What made me reach for the hairbrush I have no idea, it is not like anyone had suggested it to me, or I had read about it. I was fairly sheltered and naive back then but I guess the shape just looked right, even to my innocent eyes, it seemed the obvious choice.
I didn’t get my first dildo until I was in my 20’s. It was a gold plastic thing with a rounded tip, that took batteries and vibrated. After a while that was replaced with a plastic cock that for many years I was very fond of and along with a little silver bullet, they were my go to masturbation tools. During my 20’s and even more so, my early 30’s I was a keen, frequent and enthusiastic masturbator, which only increased as I discovered the internet and started to explore/learn about my kinks online.
My first glass dildo was purchased for me. My lover at the time introduced me to the idea of both warming and cooling it and using it for anal. I was utterly taken with the thing, not only did it look beautiful, almost like a piece of art work, but it felt fucking amazing fucking me. Since then I have added a fair few to my collection in all shapes and sizes, including the beautiful Cucumber from Fucking Sculptures, which combines all that I love about glass with all that I love about size!
Which leads me onto the wooden dildo. That was purchased purely for its size. I am a big lover of feeling very full, with clitoral stimulation a good tight filling will always make me cum hard. As you can see from the picture the wood certainly fills. Sadly the varnish has not held so now it can only be used with a condom and it is not the toy to use when if you are in a hurry. Its size means it requires a slow approach and plenty of lube.
For me though the glass is definitely were my true passion is when it comes to dildos. I love their oh so smooth exterior that glides so perfect inside me. No matter how wet you are, they will never chafe or make you feel dry. I like them warmed up but I love them even more when they are chilled. The sensation of that cold glass pushing into me is something else and the body’s natural reaction to that invasion of cold is to try to counteract it by flooding the area with increased blood flow and so although you start with cold what you end up with is extra hot!
However maybe the most wonderful thing about them is that all this fabulousness is brought to you by what appears to be a work of art. I have long ago come to the conclusion that there is something truly wonderful, almost decadent, about being fucked by an object that is visually beautiful and this statement applies to both cocks and glass dildos!