pain

I can’t stop thinking about pegs today. It is his fault. He was the one who bought the subject up and so I shared a picture of a time when…

“A tattoo is a true poetic creation, and is always more than meets the eye. As a tattoo is grounded on living skin, so its essence emotes a poignancy unique…

H is for hurt me. Which is something I desire a great deal. Just to clear for anyone new here I mean in the consensual kink way when I say…

“It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.” – Marquis de Sade Not always but often. The Marquis was definitely onto something when it comes to that exciting…

“I have been thinking about clothes pins” “Oh, I didn’t know laundry was something that you spent time thinking about” “Funny! No, I have been thinking about how I am…

“A bruise is a lesson… and each lesson makes us better.” ~ George R. R. Martin Me: You gonna teach me a lesson? Him: Fuck yes and not just one…

Tonight I am going to spread my legs wide and touch myself whilst I think about the way you looked at me when I asked you to hurt me and…

My muscles ache. All the walking and squats have been paying off and I feel stronger, fitter, happier about my body. I love that dull ache that comes with sore…

Run your fingers over the marks. The ones you made with the flogger and the metal rod. That yesterday burned red and hot on my skin but today have turned…

Last night I sat and wrote a post for This D/s Life about my relationship with pain. In fact what I really wrote about was why I often endure pain…

Way back when in the early days of our D/s relationship @domsigns asked me to fill in a BDSM checklist. At the time it led to many fascinating (and hot)…

I am fairly sure that my blog gives off the impression that I am a masochist; that I derive pleasure from pain. It is a label I have thought about…

It seems like I have only just written about the topic of biting and here it is cropping up on the Kink of the Week. The last time I tackled…

“My love, do you know where the sheet is?” “The Sheet?” “Yes, THE sheet!” “Ohhh THE sheet… nope, last time I saw it, I was laying on it!” “Do you…

This is the misery stick; the gift that keeps on giving. A fairly innocent looking thing at first glance but in the right hands and used in the right way…