pain

I love impact play but for many more reasons than just the contact of hard thing against poor bottom. I love when he says it is time. Sometimes he already …

Thorn in my side.You know that’s all you ever were.A bundle of lies.You know that’s all that it was worthI should have known betterBut I trusted you at first.I should …

I can’t stop thinking about pegs today. It is his fault. He was the one who bought the subject up and so I shared a picture of a time when …

“A tattoo is a true poetic creation, and is always more than meets the eye. As a tattoo is grounded on living skin, so its essence emotes a poignancy unique …

H is for hurt me. Which is something I desire a great deal. Just to clear for anyone new here I mean in the consensual kink way when I say …

“It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.” – Marquis de Sade Not always but often. The Marquis was definitely onto something when it comes to that exciting …

“I have been thinking about clothes pins” “Oh, I didn’t know laundry was something that you spent time thinking about” “Funny! No, I have been thinking about how I am …

“A bruise is a lesson… and each lesson makes us better.”~ George R. R. Martin Me: You gonna teach me a lesson? Him: Fuck yes and not just one either …

Tonight I am going to spread my legs wide and touch myself whilst I think about the way you looked at me when I asked you to hurt me and …

My muscles ache. All the walking and squats have been paying off and I feel stronger, fitter, happier about my body. I love that dull ache that comes with sore …

Run your fingers over the marks. The ones you made with the flogger and the metal rod. That yesterday burned red and hot on my skin but today have turned …

Last night I sat and wrote a post for This D/s Life about my relationship with pain. In fact what I really wrote about was why I often endure pain …

Way back when in the early days of our D/s relationship @domsigns asked me to fill in a BDSM checklist. At the time it led to many fascinating (and hot) …

I am fairly sure that my blog gives off the impression that I am a masochist; that I derive pleasure from pain. It is a label I have thought about …

It seems like I have only just written about the topic of biting and here it is cropping up on the Kink of the Week. The last time I tackled …