As you may or may not know I have been terrible at completely the 30 Days of Kink writing challenge but as it features on my 101 things in 1001 days I thought I better get on with it as those 1001 days are rapidly drawing to the end. One of the reasons I have…
The prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday is ‘Confusion’ and so it seemed like it was time to share this piece which I had written for the The 30 Days of Kink but had been plucking up the courage to actually post. Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? When I first…
A 30 Days of Kink post… What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? I am independent, feisty, strong-willed and used to running my home and family alone. I lived on my own with my kids for a long while. I was the one in…
A 30 Days of Kink post… Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? “If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living.” ~ Gail Sheehy I have always said that one of the things that I love about our relationship…
Finally another post for the 30 Days of Kink this one is…. Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? I could write so much for this question to be honest. When I first realised I was submissive I could never have envisioned the ways this would alter…
16th May 2012 I wonder what the cold sharp metal of the blade running across my thighs and belly would feel like. Just the thought of it makes my breath catch in my lungs and my heart thump just that little bit louder inside my chest. I imagine the gloved hand over my mouth to…
I know I have really let the side down on the 30 Days Of Kink writing project but I am determined to come back to this list now with a renewed energy and finally complete it. I have in mind the development of a new writing project here on my blog that people can share…
20th May 2011 A 30 Days Of Kink Post Right now, I would say I have a love/hate relationship with all things online. Don’t get me wrong, I love the internet, without it I would be even more isolated in my life than I am currently am. The life of a single parent does not…
3rd May 2011 As soon as I saw this question on the 30 Days Of Kink list it made me chuckle because I am His favourite toy, or so he tells me. Being His favourite toy brings me great pleasure and happiness so maybe being a toy makes me my own favourite toy? Getting confused?…
26th April 2011 What does a kink mean to me? My kinks are things that turn me on, that make me wet, that make me growl and grumble and generally turn me into a slutty bitch. That doesn’t mean I HAVE to have them in order to be turned on. If you can’t get wet…
14th April 2011 A 30 Days Of Kink Post Hard limits are things that you would never ever do, not in a million years or for a million pounds. The reasons that they hard limits will vary depending on what they are, it could be because they breach your own moral code or they have…
15th March Define your kinky self…. Dom, sub, switch? I am submissive. Seems simple enough don’t you think? Actually it’s not that simple really. I know for sure I am not Dom, just the thought of even trying to be Dominant makes me grin, I would be utterly useless and, therefore, that also rules me…
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