I know I have really let the side down on the 30 Days Of Kink writing project but I am determined to come back to this list now with a renewed energy and finally complete it. I have in mind the development of a new writing project here on my blog that people can share in, but before I start on that one I think it is only right and proper to finish this one first. I know I should probably tackle these prompt in order but that just wouldn’t be my style so today I am starting with…
Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
I think the use of titles in general is a very personal thing. I openly refer to my dom as Sir in both vanilla and kinky settings although I also use his first name as well. However the use of Sir is personal between us and doesn’t mean I would expect anyone else to refer to him as Sir and I know he would feel the same. I think expecting other people to use your title is hugely arrogant. Just because someone proclaims to be a dom and I am a sub does not mean that I should be expected to call him or her Sir or ma’am or whatever other title they may have awarded themselves. Likewise I would be horrified if anyone else referred to me as Slutmine. It is the name we use within the confines of our personal relationship. If this is starting to read a bit like a rant then I apologise but one of my pet hates is people within the BDSM community who think that just because someone is dom or sub that dictates how they are referred to. I am only sub to him, I am only a slut for him, and I am only ever Slutmine to him.
Call me names. Whisper them into my ear as you fuck me. Tell the world what a dirty little cock hungry bitch I am. With one hand holding me by my hair and the other holding the whip remind me of my place and what it is I need. Let me hear the words slut, whore, fucktoy, bitch, and cumslut as you take your pleasure in me. I am all those things for you but most of all I am Slutmine.
To him, for him and named by him; Slutmine.
I do love my name so very much. When I hear it whispered into my ear it is guaranteed to send a little shiver down my spine. The use of that name is a real trigger to make me feel very submissive towards him. It is not bandied about in everyday speaking and so when I hear it used or see it on my screen it will always serve to bring me up short and remind me of exactly who and what I am. It is the name that truly identifies me as his property. Only he ever says it and I am only ever Slutmine for him.