Rose vibrator sitting between Mollys thighs by the gusset of her panties

V is for Vibrator and a slight change of heart

Many years ago, in my early 20’s I purchased a vibrator. It was back in the days when you could order them from the back of a dirty magazine. It was a purchase that was to lead to me unlocking my orgasms. Up till then I had never had an orgasm and was suspicious they might be made up.

I was wrong about that obviously and when I had my first orgasm while playing round with that vibe, well to say it blew my mind, would be an understatement and quite frankly I think I have been marveling at my orgasms ever since. Every one is fucking amazing to me. My body being about to do it, to give such intense pleasure, amazes and delights me EVERY single time it happens.

About 5+ years after the first dildo I had purchased a couple of others but my go to was still the original one or the bullet vibes I had. However I started to become conscious of the fact that I couldn’t come without a vibe. Now I know for some people with vulva’s that is just how it is but I had been able to and somewhere along the way my body had forgotten how to make that happen so I decided it was time to relearn it.

I stopped using the vibes. It actually took about 3 weeks for my body to catch up but ever since I have been very wary of letting that happen again. I want to be able to make myself come with just my finger and maybe, hopefully, with someone else’s finger or even their mouth. If all my body responds to is vibrations then that is not going to happen.

For years I pretty said I wasn’t particularly into vibrators. Some still had their place in my sex toy collection. The Doxy is good for those times when someone wants to torture you or force orgasms out of you. I still have a couple of trusty bullet vibes I will use from time to time but mostly I like a toy for penetration and then my finger on my clit.

However over the last few months I have been sent quite a few different new toys to try out among them a few vibes and has always been the case in the past I assumed that they mostly wouldn’t be my thing but to my surprise I have rather enjoyed all the ones I have been sent in particular the g-spot vibes but I will write more about those when I review them soon but also this little beauty of a vibe. If you want to know more about it check out my full review, Sohimi Rose Clitoral Vibrator. But I will say it is a great little vibe for an absolute bargain price (there are links for where you can buy it on the review…. and it looks so pretty and I do love me a pretty sex toy and in the past I would said that in reference to dildos but turns out is applies to vines too.

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2 comments

Nikki April 28, 2021 - 7:37 pm

I love this, what a sexy image and insightful musings! Thanks for sharing, you sexy beast you

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Jayden Vincente May 5, 2021 - 12:25 am

Lovely picture! I know what you mean about certain types of stimulation to orgasm. My new partner and I were slightly slow to start until he found his way to bring me to orgasm. (And now he’s, hands down, the most satisfying partner I’ve ever had.)

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