Before Michael I had never given a man a hand job. Sure I had touched cocks aplenty and sucked them too, but a true hand-job to orgasm would be a no. He is the first man to ever ask me for such a thing and to be honest at the time when he did I was surprised. I remember quizzing him about it, you really want a hand-job? Wouldn’t you prefer a blow job? He was insistent and handed me the lube and then laughed at me when I looked confused. Again I have never had a man ask me to use lube.
I have come to learn that the use of lube for a good hand-job is essential for a circumsized man. The lack of foreskin means that there is slightly less movement of the skin over the shaft and particularly the head of the penis, so making your hand glide, silky smooth, over the skin makes it a far more pleasurable experience.
That first time Michael took my hands in his and guided me. He poured the lube into the palm of my hand and then holding my hands in his showed me exactly how he liked to be touched. Where and how much pressure to apply, how to cup one hand over the head of his cock and the pace at which it works just so, perfectly right for him. Not only has he taught me how to give him the perfect hand-job but he has also introduced me to the absolutely joy and pleasure of giving them. (and if you are interested on his thoughts on hand-jobs he wrote about them here, Bang it out.
Personally I think they are a hugely underrated sex act, a bit like fingering, or sometimes even oral sex they are seen as just a stepping stone along the path to penetrative sex and sure they can be that, but just like sucking someone off, or fingering someone, they can also be an absolutely fantastic stand alone acts. Like oral sex though they come with that idea that the pleasure is a one way thing, the person receiving is getting it all while the person giving is just a facilitators but for me that is nonsense. It is a very selfish view of sex I think which implies that unless the other person is actively having something done to them then they are just a service provider, completely missing that there is amazing joy, pleasure and satisfaction to be obtained from giving someone else an orgasmic experience.
I love the way he throws he head back and closes his eyes when I touch him just right. I love feeling his cock grow ever harder beneath my touch. The sounds he makes, the little words he whispers or the filthy thoughts he shares about me watching as someone else touches him or how he tells me he will pay me if I do a good job. Using my hands also means I am free to use my mouth to tell him filthy dirty things that I know will turn him on. I love the feel of him in my hands, exploring every inch of his dick, learning every vein, every contour, feeling the heat of it. I have made it my business to be the best at this for him. I have watched, and listened and studied his every reaction. There is no one who knows how to do give him a better hand-job than me, and if there is ever going to be then it will be because I taught them.
If there is a favourite moment to giving a hand-job then I would have to say it is the few moments before he orgasms, when I can see his balls go tight and his thighs twitch but the absolutely best bit of watching the come erupt from his cock. I absolutely fucking love seeing it come out, it is a seriously big turn on to me. I think it is why I also have a thing about him coming on my tits because I get to see it right in front of my face, but when I am giving him a hand-job I get to not only enjoy that moment by seeing it but also feeling it too and then afterwards I get the final delightful pleasure of smearing it on my body.
Before Michael, if you had asked me about hand-jobs I probably would have said I didn’t really see the point of them but would be happy to give one. What he has taught me is just how fucking hot it is to give someone pleasure in that way, to see and hear them respond to your touch, to learn their body, to bask in their pleasure and find peace and contentment in sharing that with them, is an intoxicating delight that I am very glad I have discovered.
Sadly at the moment we are going through a very rare separation as I am away for a couple of days looking after someone else’s kids so that means we couldn’t take a new picture for this piece so you have to put up with this previously seen image until I get home and then maybe we can set about creating some new hand-job photos.