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Molly holding cock in her hand Never hurt the cockie

Before Michael I had never given a man a hand job. Sure I had touched cocks aplenty and sucked them too, but a true hand-job to orgasm would be a no. He is the first man to ever ask me for such a thing and to be honest at the time when he did I was surprised. I remember quizzing him about it, you really want a hand-job? Wouldn’t you prefer a blow job? He was insistent and handed me the lube and then laughed at me when I looked confused. Again I have never had a man ask me to use lube.

I have come to learn that the use of lube for a good hand-job is essential for a circumsized man. The lack of foreskin means that there is slightly less movement of the skin over the shaft and particularly the head of the penis, so making your hand glide, silky smooth, over the skin makes it a far more pleasurable experience.

That first time Michael took my hands in his and guided me. He poured the lube into the palm of my hand and then holding my hands in his showed me exactly how he liked to be touched. Where and how much pressure to apply, how to cup one hand over the head of his cock and the pace at which it works just so, perfectly right for him. Not only has he taught me how to give him the perfect hand-job but he has also introduced me to the absolutely joy and pleasure of giving them. (and if you are interested on his thoughts on hand-jobs he wrote about them here, Bang it out.

Personally I think they are a hugely underrated sex act, a bit like fingering, or sometimes even oral sex they are seen as just a stepping stone along the path to penetrative sex and sure they can be that, but just like sucking someone off, or fingering someone, they can also be an absolutely fantastic stand alone acts. Like oral sex though they come with that idea that the pleasure is a one way thing, the person receiving is getting it all while the person giving is just a facilitators but for me that is nonsense. It is a very selfish view of sex I think which implies that unless the other person is actively having something done to them then they are just a service provider, completely missing that there is amazing joy, pleasure and satisfaction to be obtained from giving someone else an orgasmic experience.

I love the way he throws he head back and closes his eyes when I touch him just right. I love feeling his cock grow ever harder beneath my touch. The sounds he makes, the little words he whispers or the filthy thoughts he shares about me watching as someone else touches him or how he tells me he will pay me if I do a good job. Using my hands also means I am free to use my mouth to tell him filthy dirty things that I know will turn him on. I love the feel of him in my hands, exploring every inch of his dick, learning every vein, every contour, feeling the heat of it. I have made it my business to be the best at this for him. I have watched, and listened and studied his every reaction. There is no one who knows how to do give him a better hand-job than me, and if there is ever going to be then it will be because I taught them.

If there is a favourite moment to giving a hand-job then I would have to say it is the few moments before he orgasms, when I can see his balls go tight and his thighs twitch but the absolutely best bit of watching the come erupt from his cock. I absolutely fucking love seeing it come out, it is a seriously big turn on to me. I think it is why I also have a thing about him coming on my tits because I get to see it right in front of my face, but when I am giving him a hand-job I get to not only enjoy that moment by seeing it but also feeling it too and then afterwards I get the final delightful pleasure of smearing it on my body.

Before Michael, if you had asked me about hand-jobs I probably would have said I didn’t really see the point of them but would be happy to give one. What he has taught me is just how fucking hot it is to give someone pleasure in that way, to see and hear them respond to your touch, to learn their body, to bask in their pleasure and find peace and contentment in sharing that with them, is an intoxicating delight that I am very glad I have discovered.

Molly holding cock in her hand Never hurt the cockieSadly at the moment we are going through a very rare separation as I am away for a couple of days looking after someone else’s kids so that means we couldn’t take a new picture for this piece so you have to put up with this previously seen image until I get home and then maybe we can set about creating some new hand-job photos.

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  • Molly Moore – Author, Blogger, Photographer, Speaker, Director of Operations @Eroticon
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  • Show Comments (16)

  • Elliott Henry

    Nice post. As you can imagine, a subject close to my heart. My favorite part of foreplay or as the main attraction. I’m sure he is up to the task of returning the favor.

  • Mrs Fever

    There is no one who knows how to do give him a better hand-job than me, and if there is ever going to be then it will be because I taught them.

    Amen.

    .

    Hand jobs are a huge part of my sex life with my husband. I love giving them and I know _exactly_ when to change my pace, when to turn my wrist just so, when to increase pressure, how to drive him to the edge, when to back him off, what will push him over…

    I just KNOW him, intimately, in a way that only our mutual years of shared-touch experience can know.

    And no one will ever be as good as I am at giving him that touch.

    (Unless, as you say, *I* am the one to teach them.)

    Love this post. <3

    • Molly Moore

      Thank you… and for me, the idea of sharing that knowledge with someone is a bit of a turn on

      Mollyx

  • May More

    Great post – I think you are so right about it being an underrated sexual act. Also its such a turn on to see how they handle their own cock – was cool that he showed you exactly how he likes it

  • Indigo Byrd

    I am amazed that I hadn’t really appreciated this before. Thanks for sharing this. If I ever get the chance to do this particular deed again I will be far more appreciative of it as an experience in its own right. Though now that I think of it – there was the time when my young lover and I were coming home on the night bus…
    Indie x

    • Molly Moore

      Ohh that sounds like a fun story.

      Mollyx

      • Indigo Byrd

        It was a fun story. I’ve never had so much sex in such a short time in my life… Might have to write about some of it sometime soon…

        • Molly Moore

          You absolutely should!

  • Marie Rebelle

    I totally agree that thinking giving a hand job is only nice for the receive is so wrong. I love pleasing Master T even if I am not at the receiving hand at all. It’s so rewarding to hear him moan when my hand or mouth is ‘on him’ 🙂

    Rebel xox

  • Cara Thereon

    Can a post be both informative and sexy? I’ll have to study up so I can be ready.

    • Molly Moore

      Haha, I think so….and as Michael would say, soooon

      Mollyx

  • Modesty Ablaze

    Totally agree with your “the absolutely best bit of watching the come erupt” . . . it is a magical, and rewarding, moment isn’t it.
    The culmination, the achievement, the satisfaction of giving pleasure!
    Wonderful post. And I’m sure I’m not alone in looking forward to seeing those new photos!!!
    Xxx – K

  • Sweeten Dirty

    I do agree that handjobs are a bit underrated. Personally I never really gave them a second thought once I started exploring PIV. However, this week’s KoTW topic has me appreciating and looking at them in a new light.

  • Tabitha Rayne

    Ooo lovely post Molly – I find hand jobs a very intimate thing to do – even more so than oral, somehow – I’m sometimes quite shy about it – until I bough a Tenga Egg – definitely an experience I want to share x x x

  • Lord Raven

    hands can do oh su much and hand jobs can be fun as a spur of the moment thing or just foreplay to a longer scene.
    Thank you for sharing

  • Jo

    Oh – that moment right before *anyone* comes is my very favorite moment! I definitely prefer this moment in manual sex more than oral, since with manual sex it’s much easier to look at my partner’s face. I am a huge fan of all manual sex… something about lubing up hands and playing feels so intimate to me.

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