Equal to the Task

by Molly Moore
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I suck at tasks.

The whole thing is really annoying actually because the idea of them appeals to me. I am a person who likes routine and structure. I make lists, I have a detailed google calendar that includes both work and kids schedules and then there are the spread sheets. Oh so many spread sheets. Tasks sound like something that would fit into my world perfectly and yet I still struggle with them.

The worst tasks for me are the ones where there is no completion. I find those very frustrating. You can’t ever tick them off as being done, they are just never-ending and even if I start off enjoying them the moment the novelty wears off they become boring to me and potentially frustrating too because you can’t ever reach a goal.

When we were long distance he set me a task to wear my butt plug for at least 30 minutes every day. At first it was exciting and sexy but eventually it just became this thing I did or, more truthfully, something I constantly forgot to do. He would remind me and encourage me and on occasion punish me for not doing it but mainly I just felt shit about it because I was letting him down by not remembering every day. He was thousands of miles away in the USA and I could have easily lied about it but that defeated the whole object of our relationship in my mind and so I was always honest about not doing it.

Those kinds of tasks, daily rituals or achievements just don’t work for me. I need to have flexibility in my life. Asking me to do an hour’s uninterrupted writing every day sounds like something that would be great for me but the truth is that type of rigid expectation on my time will only serve to eventually irritate and frustrate me and there is nothing sexy about that. It might help me achieve a goal in the short-term but in the long-term I will only start to resent it.

Short individual tasks can be different though. If it is something I can do and achieve then that will tap into the sense of satisfaction I get from completing something. Finishing things are very important to me. I think it is why I like writing short stories and have always struggled with longer bodies of work. I need to complete things to be motivated to carry on, things that have no end, become boring very quickly. Do I have a short attention span? Maybe, for some things definitely yes, for writing this blog, the answer would appear to be absolutely not.

A couple of weeks ago when I asked if I could have a wank he said yes, which he nearly always does, but it came with a task. Go upstairs and send me a series of pictures of yourself as you do it and when you are done I want to hear what you thought about. I dashed up the stairs, discarded my clothes and happily set about my task. I completed it without a problem and when I sent the last one of the shiny wet glass dildo he came upstairs and joined me. The whole thing was a huge sexy success. So you can see tasks are not completely lost on me.

He wrote his own post about tasks last week and I am glad to see that he intends to continue to try to find ways to make this work within our relationship because the concept of tasks really does appeal to me it is just the practicalities of it that tend to trip me up. I want to do them, I really do, but I am very prone to getting distracted and also, to be quite frank, have a fairly stubborn streak when it comes to being told what to do. I know, not the words of a ‘twue sub’, but I have never claimed to be anything other than what I am, feisty, defiant and in need of a strong hand. Offer me a way out and I am (probably) going to take it, corner me and make me, and then you will have my attention.

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Mrs Fever August 30, 2016 - 11:48 pm

I get what you mean about things becoming too every-day to be exciting, and I’m with you on needing both flexibility and the feeling of accomplishment. There’s a big difference to me between the humdrum neverending (or never *finished*) tasks and the ones that can be checked off the list as DONE, and with a sense of satisfaction.

Lurv Spanking August 31, 2016 - 4:03 pm

I was fine until I scrolled down and saw the picture…

Marie Rebelle August 31, 2016 - 5:49 pm

Reading through this it made me realize that there’s only one long term task I could keep going. All the others I have eventually failed. However, the short term tasks are much easier to do. I think it’s time for some tasks again… I actually crave them.

Loved reading your take on tasks 🙂

Rebel xox

Modesty Ablaze August 31, 2016 - 8:02 pm

Spreadsheets . . . and computer calendars . . . oh goodness, I am impressed!!!
I am too unorganised and shambolic to be able to do those sort of things.
But agree with you completely about anything too regular . . . and samey . . . becomes mundane and boring! LOL!!!
And lists ??? Most Saturday mornings I ask round the family to write down things they need me to get from my supermarket shop . . . then almost always race out the door, having left the list on the kitchen table!!!
So yes I agree . . . very often, the practicalities of life get in the way of earlier exciting thoughts of “things” we’d like to do. But it’s still fun to keep thinking about them !!!
Xxx – K

Julie August 31, 2016 - 8:48 pm

Like you I want to be compliant, concentrate on the tasks in hand. But like you I find it difficult to hold my focus. Yet, when it comes to work I am perfectly organised and do what is needed. I have my lists and am proud to achieve them. But to be frank I will never come close to the list making of my Master and perhaps that is my issue. Mainly though, he loves me for who I am, which seems to be the same for @DomSigns?

I really do want to please, but at times I seem to be so rubbish at it.

Love the photo xx

Eliott September 1, 2016 - 3:30 am

Lovely glass. The colors compliment.

Bee September 7, 2016 - 9:55 pm

I suck too, luckily for me he sucks at remembering to check too. I guess busyness gets in the way *sigh

And you had a 30 minute plug wearing task too…hmmm, have those two been talking again?!

Molly Moore September 7, 2016 - 10:50 pm

Well mine was from when we were LDR so quite a while ago now… maybe ‘him indoors’ has been reading my blog


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