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Face Slapping is the current topic for Kink of the Week and the first of these topics that falls into my dislike category. It used to be one of those kinks that was listed in my ‘curious about/maybe’ list but I have discovered that its rightful place is on my hard limits list which shows just how important it is to give things a try and not assume anything until you have.

I don’t like it, in fact I hate it. I quickly learnt that it does absolutely nothing for me, in fact quite the opposite, it turns me off, makes me angry and resentful and on occasions sad and none of these things in a good way. I think the first time he did it to me I really had to control the urge not to slap him back and I had never felt that response before with anything we have done. Prior to that things have made me fighty, or else made me feel very subbie, but nothing had ever made me feel like lashing out. I was stunned by the anger and resentment I felt about it. We did discuss it but at that time I think we both felt it was something that we would continue to explore, and we did. Again mixed reactions on my behalf but increasingly ones that made me uncomfortable and until finally one day during a blow job he reached down and slapped my cheek. There was a pause as I analysed things and then letting his cock slip from my mouth I said

“Please don’t do that anymore because it makes me feel like doing things to you that I do NOT want to do to you and that I am fairly sure you will not like if I did”

As my mouth resumed its love for his cock I heard him chuckle and say…

“I thought as much”

Afterwards when we talked about it he said he had been fairly convinced that is where things were heading with this one but he believed it was his job to help me discover that myself and in that respect he did a fine job.

Since that day he has never slapped my face again. I have not updated my hard list in a while, apart from verbally between us and that is all that matters but if I did then this one would definitely feature on it. Run your hands over my face, smear my juices across my lips, push your fingers into my mouth, pull my hair, hold my face in your grip, rub your cock all over my face and most of all cum on it, just don’t ever slap it.

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  • Molly Moore – Author, Blogger, Photographer, Speaker, Director of Operations @Eroticon
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  • Show Comments (13)

  • SassyCat

    It’s something that surely should be discussed prior too, not just done without some sort of warning or approval. I’m sure there are individuals out there that truly enjoy face slapping, and I see you are NOT one of them.:)

    • mollyskiss

      Thanks for your comment. I just want to clarify that this was not a breach of consent, we had talked about it many times and how it made me feel but it was me who wanted to continue exploring and he allowed that to happen until I reached a place where I found the answer. On the occasion the answer was no thank you.

      Mollyxxx

  • V

    Thanks for this Molls…

    It’s nice to know that sometimes a ‘sub’ can say NO and that doesn’t make them any less of a ‘sub’.

    I always learn something from you.

    XXX
    V

  • Saint1ess

    Face slapping is a hard thing for me I really don’t like it. I am not a masochist so luckily anything that involves pain is used as a punishment and face slapping is reserved for when I have done something really really bad. Well written Molly and well done for trying it proporly 🙂

  • Marie Rebelle

    It’s great to explore things together and to be able to discuss it before and after, and to decide that something just does not work for you. I just love to be a witness of the love between you two 🙂

    Rebel xox

  • Fierce Submissive

    I really dug this post, even though I deeply enjoy face slapping, because it could so easily be different for me. I feel some of those feelings you describe, like anger and a desire to lash out, but for me those are energizing and add to the experience. You inspired me to write a post of my own on the subject.

    Thanks for sharing!

  • Jade

    W is much the same…he wants me to explore everything I want to, even when he suspects it may be something I won’t enjoy. I love that about him – and that, like your Master, when I find something that *doesn’t* work, he, too, listens.

  • dedi

    Interesting how you describe it makes you want to lash out. Being slapped in the face has the opposite effect on me, but other things can bring that feeling about sometimes. For me, that usually has to do with my own state of mind in combination of him doing something I don’t really enjoy… Food for thought, thank you! 🙂

    xxx dedi

  • MissX

    First, let me tell you that I am a new reader of your blog and I truly love how open you are regarding your sexuality. Second, I don’t think that face slapping is for everybody, this is why you must discuss it with your partner, choose the rules and the limits of this game and just after all of this is settled , you can do it.

  • Harper Eliot

    Wow! This is really quite something… and I love how you’ve illustrated it with the play between you two. Very interesting indeed.

  • KaziG

    I’m pretty sure I would have much the same reaction if anyone did it to me, with consent or no…

    ~Kazi xxx

  • SubReiSkyeM

    I’m in total agreement with you here, Molly. It makes me react in a very similar way, which is why it belongs on my hard limits list as well. We only did it once, but that was enough for me to know I can’t handle it.

  • Heather Cole

    The subject fascinates me. I don’t hate it, but it’s hard for me to say I love it too. Face slapping inspires such contradicting feelings in me that I think half the fun I have is in deciphering them. Like you, I want to continue to explore it until I decide one way or the other.

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