Ring around the rosie

By on June 27, 2017.

I have absolutely no experience with cock rings whatsoever. I do have a lot of experience with cocks, but not a single one of them has been sporting a cock ring and so it is a thing I only know about from what I have read, or seen, from other people.

Now as I am sure you are all aware I am a big fan of cock but I am an even bigger fan of hard cock. It is, in my opinion, cock in its finest state. I love fucking, I love being fucked. I love cock in my cunt and cock in my arse. Fucking is possibly my biggest kink. Virtually all my fantasies feature it in some way or another whether it is me being fucked or watching others fuck and in many respects it is the key to my orgasms. Just writing those sentences and thinking about Michael fucking me makes me squirm in my chair. I can’t stress how much I love it when he fucks me.

Cock rings therefore seem like maybe something that I could get on (or should that say off?) with as their purpose is to aid in a man’s erection, both in potentially making it harder and if he has a problem with losing his erection then a cock ring can help combat that also. Essentially what a ring does it trap the blood in the penis. The male body is quite good at pumping blood in, but it doesn’t really actively pump the blood back out again. It just kind of slowly flows back out and so during an erection the flow of blood in is far stronger and greater in volume than the amount of blood leaving the penis, thus causing and maintaining an erection. Placing a ring around the base of the penis reduces that outward flow even further thus making a harder erection more likely.

Michael does not have any problems getting or maintaining an erection, but I still find myself curious as to what the result would be if he tried a cock ring. Not just because it might make for an even harder hard cock but also for him because lots of men report increased sensitivity and intensity of orgasms when using a cock ring and surely that can only be a good thing. A harder cock that feels better for him and results in an intense orgasm for hopefully the both of us? Seems like something we should maybe give a go.

Well I think that maybe it is but I am not sure Michael does. When I mentioned it recently he hmm’d about it and asked me why I thought that. I kind of gave him a shorter version of what I have written above which he listened to but it has not been mentioned since. Now he is a man who likes to ponder things but I also know that he is a man who has never been very taken with the idea of male sex toys, he has nothing against them mind you, but they have just never appealed to him and I suspect cock rings fall into that mindset too. However I also know he is a man who is open to trying new things

However, if he was to be up for giving it a go where the hell do we start?

When you look for cock rings there are quite literally hundreds of different types you can buy made from a variety of different materials. Some of them are stretchy and some of them are fixed bands made from titanium or stainless steel. Some come with extra rings or ‘pockets’ for the testicles and some don’t. Some look plain and simple and some look absolutely terrifying. Clearly more research is required if we are to actually go shopping for one but if anyone out there has any personal recommendations for a good one then I would love to hear to know what it is and why you like it.

I just read this piece to Michael and that resulted in us having another conversation about cock rings and it seems we both have the same worries about the fixed metal type rings. As Michael pointed out, if something is not right and it is stretchy, then removal is easy, you get stuck in a metal one and your only option is a hospital visit. Not something that either of feel is an alluring prospect. Also Michael has really rather large testicles so finding one that fit would maybe be a challenge. However it does seem that he is up for giving a ring a try so if anyone does has any thoughts or advice we totally want to hear them and if as a result my lack of experience with a man wearing a cock ring changes, I will be sure to come back and write another post about it.

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  1. I had no experience with cock rings until JB tried the Tyler by Svakom. It’s stretchy and it vibrates. He can adjust it so the vibrations hit his testicles or with a turn, I feel them against my clit while he fucks me. That’s my favorite way lol. JB lasts longer and his orgasms are more intense too. That’s HIS favorite part lol. We haven’t tried any others so not sure how it compares to other cock rings.
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  2. The rings illustrated in Mrs Fever’s post http://mrsfever.com/2017/06/25/cock-rings/ are firm but slightly stretchy,I would recommend them. I was no fan of cock rings prior to Mrs Fever introducing me to them, even the first we tried, which was a gummy, stretchy ring, was painful to try and get on. I understand Michael’s apprehension towards rings, but if you find the right one,,, damn does it make things fun 🙂

  3. Michael can try a set of different sizes such as “Beauty Molly” (for about $5 on Amazon) until he finds the right fit. If that works out, he can work into the PALOQUETH (for about $10 on Amazon).

    And if none of these have the right fit, try one of those velcro ones that are adjustable. You can DIY it yourself for about $1.

    I always carry lots of different ones in my toybag when visiting clients. Some people get a little freaked when I put them on, but they like the effect b/c they make things last longer.

  4. In my experience …
    Don’t bother with metal rings. They don’t conform to the shape of your cock and balls as well as silicone etc so don’t do the job of restricting blood flow. And they’re not nearly as comfortable.
    Don’t worry about not getting a metal cock ring off. The situation is unlikely to arise, and even then, medical staff have seen infinitely kinkier things.
    Vibrators have never done it for me so cock rings with built in vibrators have never been an attraction for me (and weren’t commonly available when I was fucking anyone other than my Wife) but a rock hard cock AND something buzzing against your clit should rock your world … and possibly his too.
    If you’re concerned about getting a cock ring on, or off, or finding the right size, or it not being comfortable, have a look at adjustable cock rings.
    If you get a non-adjustable ring, put your balls in first – one at a time – and then your flaccid cock. It’s easer to get them on before your hard, and putting your balls iafter your cock is almost garuanteed to result in anti-erotic tweakage.
    Rings with bobbles built in, to my mind are a waste of time. They might look funky but I can’t see any benefit for fucker or fuckee.
    Rings with things like ball sacks, or multiple loops than seperately go around your cock and balls (and possibly between your balls) can be fun, but try something simple first.
    Equally, thicker rings are worth leaving till you’ve tried a thin one.
    I would say start with something simple and soft. And possibly with a vibe built in.
    One word of caution, you can get varicose veins in your cock. I don’t know if these are ever related to cock rings, and I believe in most cases they are benign, but my guess is excessive use might be detremental.

  5. PS On reflection, if you’re going for a super-stretchy cock ring, and have at least 3 hands, you can probably put it over both your balls and a fully erect flagpole all in one go, as it’s possible to stretch them really wide with two hands.

  6. We have no experience with cock rings either and it is not something we have ever thought about using. I will, however, be following your progress and experience on this with interest 😉

    Rebel xox
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  7. We’ve never really given them much thought. Like Michael, D has never been bothered by male sex toys but isn’t afraid of giving something a go.

    Whilst we have tried a very lose fitting silicon one with a vibrating bullet that didn’t sit against my clit as it should. Now having read these posts I may try to convince him to try a better on…nothing too rigid that could get stuck though! I may just wait and see what your experiences are.
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  8. Metal ones come in different sizes and much preferable in.my experience really do the job. No problem getting them off especially once you’ve orgasmed. It undoubtedly makes you harder and gives a really strong orgasm . Not too fiddly and the stainless steel ones are really smooth and don’t have any bits to squeeze or trap like stretchy ones.

    Go for quality every time

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