Being submissive is not simple. Submission is not simple. To say it is in my opinion is to completely devalue it. I am writing this in response to Jerusalem Mortimer’s two posts. One a Sinful Sunday where he used the phrase “Submission can be so simple” and then his follow-up post to that: What do…
What actually is sexy? The answer to this is different for everyone. What I find sexy is not necessarily what you find sexy and even those things that we agree on the nuanced details of them will probably be different. We might both find older men sexy but what it actually is about older men,…
Bullying comes in all shapes and sizes and happens to all sorts of people. I was bullied at school by two girls in particular who managed to turn an already stressful experience (school) into something really horrible. I left school with a spring in my step and joy in my heart that it was finally…
The other day after getting out of the shower I was sorting through the pile of discarded clothes on the bedroom floor deciding if any of them could be worn again or if they all needed to make their way to the laundry basket when just as I lifted my knickers to my face he…
I have thought long and hard about writing this post but I have never been one for shying away from tricky subjects and so I decided that not writing it would be taking the chicken way out and that doesn’t sit well with me. So here I am, with a large empty word document, something…
In my local area group on Fetlife, which I run, a new member posed this question; “The predicament I find myself in is my complete lack of tools of the trade. I have a very willing sub ready and waiting but asking her for guidance would be counter-intuitive hey? Always having been a dominant guy…
Before I start I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not belittling anyone’s experiences and possible traumas they have encountered in life. We are all a sum of the things that have happened to us, both good and bad, they should never be denied, ignored or made little of because they are…
Today I read a post on Kendra Hollidays blog, The Beautiful Kind, about a threesome that she and her partner recently experienced. The threesome in question was an FMF with Kendra, her partner Mathew and an old friend of Kendra’s from high-school, who is referred to as Andromeda. So far so good, but Andromeda is…
When you open the front cover of a murder mystery do you find a warning inside telling you that stabbing people with a knife is dangerous, or, never go down into basements with strangers? The simple answer is no, because it is not the author’s job (I am referring to fiction writing here) to educate…
Today on Twitter (25th June 2013) I got involved in a conversation with a number of people about appropriate or more worryingly inappropriate dress and tattoo adornment for older women. The implication in the original few comments seemed to be, in reference to tattoo’s; don’t get one where people might see as when you are…
Earlier this evening this tweet was bought to my attention Well bugger me, if I only had know it was that simple to write a decent sex blog. If it just a case of getting your tits out in the park then why on earth have I been bothering to write all this inane blah…
I am submissive. I know this is probably not a shock to many of you but bear with me this opening sentence is important. Yesterday Sir and I read a number of journalistic articles that had been written in criticism of another article. The subject that connects all these pieces is the novel The Fifty…
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