Opinion

I want to start this post by saying that these are my thoughts on the subject of impact and intent. They are not an attempt to tell anyone what to…

Being submissive is not simple. Submission is not simple. To say it is in my opinion is to completely devalue it. I am writing this in response to Jerusalem Mortimer’s…

What actually is sexy? The answer to this is different for everyone. What I find sexy is not necessarily what you find sexy and even those things that we agree…

Bullying comes in all shapes and sizes and happens to all sorts of people. I was bullied at school by two girls in particular who managed to turn an already…

The other day after getting out of the shower I was sorting through the pile of discarded clothes on the bedroom floor deciding if any of them could be worn…

I have thought long and hard about writing this post but I have never been one for shying away from tricky subjects and so I decided that not writing it…

In my local area group on Fetlife, which I run, a new member posed this question; “The predicament I find myself in is my complete lack of tools of the…

Before I start I want to make it absolutely clear that I am not belittling anyone’s experiences and possible traumas they have encountered in life. We are all a sum…

Today I read a post on Kendra Hollidays blog, The Beautiful Kind, about a threesome that she and her partner recently experienced. The threesome in question was an FMF with…

When you open the front cover of a murder mystery do you find a warning inside telling you that stabbing people with a knife is dangerous, or, never go down…

Today on Twitter (25th June 2013) I got involved in a conversation with a number of people about appropriate or more worryingly inappropriate dress and tattoo adornment for older women.…

Earlier this evening this tweet was bought to my attention Well bugger me, if I only had know it was that simple to write a decent sex blog. If it…

I am submissive. I know this is probably not a shock to many of you but bear with me this opening sentence is important. Yesterday Sir and I read a…