I wrote the pubic hair prompt for Kink of the Week a couple of months ago. At the time I was completely shaved but I thought that considering he grew a beard for the facial hair prompt maybe I should grow some pubes for this prompt. So I stopped shaving. After about a week I was close to giving up but decided that maybe some management might help and so shaved my vulva and some of my pubis just leaving a small tuft of hair in the middle. Things improved and I decided to live with it for a while.
Pubes on me
I started shaving in my early 30’s. I had never particularly liked my pubes. They were dark and wiry but never curly in that kind of thick bush way that some women have. It never dawned on me to really do anything about them until the internet came into my life and my horizons with regards to sex and my body were well and truly expanded. I started off by shaving my labia and trimming the rest but fairly quickly that evolved to being completely shaved and I loved it. It felt so lovely both between my legs and beneath my fingertips. I had always liked my cunt but stripping it bare, so to speak, ignited a whole new intense level of love for it in me. I have been shaved ever since, until a few weeks ago.
Pubes on other women
I really have no strong feelings about this apart from that I believe wholeheartedly that you should have or not have pubes as you see fit. If you love your full fluffy bush hurrah for you. If you like a landing strip or a neat trimmed patch, or a full wax or shave then hurrah for all of you. The only person you need to please is yourself and hopefully you have a partner(s) who feels exactly the same. I love my shaved cunt but I also love pubes on other people. In fact it was seeing them on others and admiring how pretty and sexy they looked that contributed to my decision to try growing mine again. I will add though that in the few same-sex experiences I have had there is something very sexy about going down on a woman who has shaved her labia. The smoothness and softness of the skin beneath both your fingertips and tongue is just fucking hot to me and so yes, I would probably say that was my preference but it would never be a deal breaker.
Pubes on men
As with the ladies I truly believe that how you chose manscape, or not, is completely up to you. However I have to admit that I am not a fan of the completely shaved look on men. As I said, if you like it on you then that is all that matters but it is not a look that I find particularly hot and sexy. In fact pretty much the opposite. I like men to have a bit of hair, the hairless male body just does not do it for me. My personal preference when it comes to men and pubes is a nice bit of trimming to keep things neat and tidy and reduce the chance of me getting stray hairs stuck in the back of my throat when I am giving a blow job and lovely shaved smooth balls that I can enjoy fondling, nuzzling and licking. I am happy to say that Michael tends to his man garden in exactly this way and not as a result of my preference either as that was his routine before we met.
So back to my pubes…
All I can say is I tried it. I really and truly did try to like my little patch of pubes and I had odd moment when I thought they were OK but no matter how hard I tried I just found them less and less attractive on me. I took this picture last Wednesday, on Thursday morning I grabbed my razor and removed the damn lot and my cunt has been restored to its beautifully smooth hairless self, which is just the way I like it.
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Except for the part about the same sex experience and your relationship now, that whole post could have been written by me. I had never thought of doing anything to my bush back before I got online. It just grew wild. Then I got online when I was 34 and started exploring who I really am. In less than a year I decided to shave just to see if I’d like it. I shaved it all off and haven’t looked back since. I like it much better, especially the way it feels. It has kind of grown back in a couple times, but it’s so much sparser now after all these years that it wasn’t obnoxious, but I still shaved it again when I had the chance. I don’t mind seeing it on other women, I just tend to wonder how they can stand it. LOL As for men, again, you have the same exact thoughts I do. Men with hair on their bodies is so much hotter to me. Hairless chests don’t do a thing for me, and they look like they’re missing something if they don’t have pubic hair. I’m not going to hold it against anybody who wants to get rid of all of it, because hey, I do the same thing, it’s just not a turn on to me when it comes to men.
I am a man who enjoys pubes!!! I simply love the nose candy, the taste, and the whole aura that is involved with pubic hair. The first woman I slept with that was shaved disturbed me as I was expecting a grown up; not a prepubescent female. I dated this woman for several months and asked her to let her pubes grow. I honestly do not understand what the fascination is with clean skin. It isn’t natural, it isn’t adult, and it isn’t natural. I am a rather hairy man. I have a hairy chest, legs, and butt. I am not going to manscape for anyone. My wife says she likes my body and she like my body. Sense we are older than many of your readers, it may be generational, but she doesn’t have very much hair on her body, I don’t mind because, it is her. My advice is quite simple…. Be natural!
100% agree!
Do what’s comfortable for you. Sometimes shaving your pubes can be a hassle and lead to chafing!
Seconding your point: You do YOU when it comes to pubic hair. It’s YOUR body, and it’s about what makes YOU feel most comfortable.
I understand what you mean about not-quite-curlies. Mine is thick and soft and ringlet-y when it’s wet but sort of… Kinked(?) otherwise. I have naturally curly hair on my head, but it’s more wavy/body than true curl, and will often dry in a similar ‘kinked’ fashion *unless* I use product in it. So I got curious as to how my pubic hair would ‘style’ with product. I once used a bit of mousse and scrunched it, and – voila! Curls. 🙂
Haha, I love the fact that you put some product in it, what a fabulous idea
Mollyxxx
I don’t shave often mostly because I am not sexually active other than with myself.
I think pubes look sexy and we share something in common cause I love men with their pubes as suppose to shaved.
I do trim and keep it low in the summer because of the heat and shave when I travel to go see him.
Great post and as always, great pic!!!
Thanks, I was rather pleased with the picture… and yes, I like men with pubes but trimmed a bit and nicely shaved balls is my preference
Mollyxxx
Amen to this! Like you say: everyone should do what they feel comfortable with. Where I loved the feel of the soft hairs when I had to grow my pubes after my fall, I absolutely love the smoothness of my skin with no hair. Sometimes (but really only sometimes) I wonder whether I should grow it again and have it waxed, as I loved the waxing but also the smooth skin afterwards (much smoother than when you shave), but every morning I grab my razor and shave again, so I guess I will just stick with that. As for men, I don’t like the entirely shaven manbits either, but if the man in person is happy with it, I am happy too 🙂
Rebel xox
Never had a wax and to be honest it does not appeal to me. I am quite happy keeping things under control with my razor but you never know, maybe one day I will have one
Mollyxxx
Wonderful reading . . . and I have to say (as I dare to bare myself) . . . I am in agreement with your own thoughts.
But, of course, as in EVERYTHING in life . . . it should always be whatever feels right for oneself !!!
Xxx – K
Oh absolutely…. I totally think people should do what is right for them
Mollyxxx
I say your cunt looks lovely every which way you choose to groom it! I totally identify with the difficulty of letting pubic hair grow out after shaving for years; even now, I shave my vulva every couple of months or so just because it feels like too much.
I love a hairy man too. I like running my fingers through a nice covering of chest hair.
I have to say I decided I like pubes, mine are there but not so busy that they stick out a mile. I have dyed them before with normal hair dye not a good move.
This made me giggle. Just about every part of this could’ve been written by me. I’m glad I tried my little experiment though, it made me realise how much I hated the damn thing and why I shave!
i know this is an old posting, but… when i was younger i spent most of my free time at the beach, i kept myself trimmed just so nothing would show outside my bikini.
about 10 years ago, i decided to shave everything off for my husbands 50th bday. i really did a bad job of it LOL that night he shaved me silky smooth, and it became just another part of foreplay…
a couple years ago, he got sick, and was under the weather for almost 4 months. my pubes started growing out… i noticed a few grey hairs mixed in with my natural blonde color….
thankfully we’ve gotten back in “rhythm” and he’s giving me my weekly(at least) smooth shave 🙂