“I am for those who believe in loose delights” ~ Walt Whitman
Sadly I can’t really seem to find anyone who would like to share in my loose delights with me. I am trying to collect my thoughts around dating and relationships before a write a proper post about it all but a summery is that the more I do it the more I realise that I hate dating. I appreciate that Covid has made it worse. I have basically given up at the moment as I don’t feel safe going out and meeting people when infections are spreading in such high numbers but even when that was not the case I can’t say I enjoyed it but I miss having any partners. Blimey I would settle for one right now let alone multiples.
Oh and ethical non-monogamny? That is another subject I am feeling unsure about too and need to compose my thoughts on but so far I can’t say my experience of it has been that enjoyable or even particularly fruitful. Maybe it can all be blamed on Covid or maybe not and it’s not for me. I don’t know what the answers are but I need to find out if I am ever going to find someone to partake in my loose delights again!
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I don’t feel safe dating with Covid. There was brief moment in time after being vaccinated that I felt safer with a FWB. I am no longer pursuing anything though. I don’t feel safe. It is very lonely and sexually frustrating.
Curious to hear your thoughts on ethical non-monogamy. Looking forward to that post.
Beautiful image! Love the pose.
This is a great pic! It shows off your legs to their best affect, and the way your toes point … all very nice.
That is such a lovely photo Molly.
And I do hope the coming months may prove easier … for everyone … and perhaps new opportunities will arise.
Xxx – K
Hello! I had my own personal crisis, so to speak, with ethical nonmonogamy. In short, I had been nonmonogamous my entire adult life, and then I decided I maybe didn’t want to be anymore. It was difficult. Anyway, feel free to email me at jrvincente@gmail if you ever want to talk!
Lovely photo. I’ve had similar thoughts in other places and times. Eventually the universe provides.
I love the iron bed frame. And the way your curves accentuate a lovely playground.
Dating is definitely weird in covid times. ❤
This photo is absolutely captivating x
Beautiful image. I hope you will be able to get back to dating soon xx
First, that photo is stunning. The lighting, three angles of your body, it just all comes together to make a very hot visual.
Second, the thought of dating gives me an immediate getting of anxiety. I hated dating. Ask the uncertainty kills me. I’m in an open relationship and it works for me in many ways but it’s not perfect. I’ve been with my partner for, God, 15 years. In a lot of ways it has become more of a partnership than anything else. I seek out passion elsewhere but then when I find it the possibilities become very limited as far as any future it can have. Like I said it’s not perfect and I don’t know how sustainable the whole situation is. But it’s better than dating for me at least. So basically I don’t know what the fuck in talking about. But great picture.
Thank you and I always appreciate your words and thoughts.
Molly
I absolutely love this shot, the framing and the pose are so good. I can relate so hard to the covid anxiety and I can only imagine how tough it must be to think about dating and relationships at the moment. I hope that you can get some clarity and find what is right for you.
It’s all so tricky isn’t it. Finding the balance between needing to get out and see people and being safe is just tough. And I don’t envy you at all with the dating issue, I’ve never really done the dating thing myself and it scares the shit out of me!
I am intrigued by your thoughts on ethical non-monogamy, so look forward to reading that.
Your photo looks orgasmic
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