Spit it out

by Molly Moore
MOlly with spit dripping out of her mouth

When I was at school (I was about 14 or 15) Dionne spat in my hair. She was the ring leader of the girls who bullied me and I hated them and was terrified of them in equal measures. I will never forget the sound as she cleared her throat and my disgust at knowing that was in my hair. I ran to the toilets and did my best to wipe it off but for the rest of the day I felt like it was crawling through my hair. When the bell finally went I rushed straight home, ran a bath and washed her foulness out of my hair. Even writing this down now 30 years later it makes me feel angry but also disgusted.

There is absolutely nothing sexy about spitting as far as I am concerned. I suspect my revulsion for it is closely linked to that experience although I have always felt it was a fairly disgusting thing. If I ever see someone spitting in the street, it is always men by the way, it makes my stomach turn. I understand if a fly goes in your mouth or something but it is never like that, it is almost like they are marking their territory or something. It is such a vile habit and it would be a massive deal breaker for me if a man I was with did such a thing.

That does not mean I am anti saliva. I have definitely been known to lick my fingers before sliding them inside myself and watching him suck or lick his fingers before pushing them into me is fucking hot but if he actually spat on my cunt I think I would probably recoil in horror. I also love sucking his cock and getting it all hard and wet and when he fucks my mouth and it make me drool that is sexy. So it is not saliva that I have a problem with, after all I love kissing and when he goes down on me, and even when he licks a finger and uses it to wipe a smudge of my face, it is not the saliva that I dislike but the act of spitting that grosses me out.

I have found spitting to be something that often features in quite a lot of porn especially BDSM type stuff which is really jarring to me. The moment he spits on her I am done. I just can’t watch it. The same in Tumblr, the amount of times I have found a gif or porn that at first glance looks damn sexy and then bang, he spits in her mouth, or on her face or arse and I find myself grimacing and instantly switching it off.

I can completely understand how spitting can be a kink for some folks though. It you are into humiliation play then eroticising being spat on or spitting on someone would make perfect sense to me. There is something degrading about it and so if that taps into the scope of your humiliation kink I am pretty sure for those people it would be as hot as hell. However I do wonder just how prevalent that is because the rate at which I see it in porn would suggest it was fairly popular/common and yet I am not sure that it is, but I have nothing to really base that on so I shall be very interested to read the other Kink of the Week posts about this topic or read any comments on this post about it so if this is a kink for you, or you think it might be please do tell me more about it as I would be fascinated to hear it. Just because it is not my kink does not mean that I don’t find it interesting to learn how it works for other people and supporting people in their kink choices, even when they are not my kinks, is for me a really key part of being a sex positive person.

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gausik December 13, 2017 - 1:57 pm

Yes of course. I like girls spitting in my mouth

May More December 13, 2017 - 2:05 pm

Exactly the same thing happened to me when i was about 13 or 14. Walking home from school and some boys from the neighbouring school starting jibing me and then as I passed them, one gobbed in my long, wavy, hair. It was disgusting. I ran home very upset and that put me off spitting full stop 😉 Licking fingers etc is different and not a problem – once a lover tried it and I told him – not for me. But like you, I think if it’s your kink that’s ok – it just is not mine x

Marie Rebelle December 13, 2017 - 4:37 pm

I am totally 100% with you on this. My post has been written already and will be up on Friday. Our feelings are SO the same on this subject!

Rebel xox

Melinda December 13, 2017 - 6:32 pm

I agree. I always felt the act of spitting was a form of degradation. I cannot stand seeing men spit and I would be sickened to see a man spit on a woman that he is sharing intimacy with (I know, it is porn after all). I can’t watch porn. I got so turned off by the ejaculating on faces and then there’s the spitting on vaginas (yes, I know that it is supposed to be for lubrication)…it is all a turnoff for me. I love kissing and I enjoy tasting him when we kiss. I enjoy semen shared between us, too. But having him spit into my mouth? Oh no! Not me!


Molly Moore December 14, 2017 - 12:17 am

I like watching porn but face slapping and spitting are two things that will have me moving onto the next movie very quickly


Modesty Ablaze December 13, 2017 - 10:07 pm

I have to agree . . . spitting does nothing for me personally. I have occasionally been asked during a session to do this, but because it’s something I’m not comfortable with, I’ve never been able to oblige.
And as for lubrication . . . well there’s a lube for that!!!
Xxx – K

Couisn Pons December 13, 2017 - 10:38 pm

I have never spat and never knew it existed in a sexual context until I started watching porn. It’s certainly not to my taste. I enjoyed the post Molly and I’m with you on being a sex positive person.

Elliott Henry December 14, 2017 - 1:15 am

I agree, there is a difference between saliva and spitting. Nothing sexy about spitting.

Nero December 14, 2017 - 2:19 am

I can’t stand the spitting in porn videos either. Not hot, not erotic. I have no idea why they do it – possibly so they can label it ‘extreme hardcore’ on the free tube sites? And then the spitting perpetuates itself because what teen bot isn’t going to click on the clip marked ‘extreme hardcore’ on a free porn site? 🙁

Nero December 14, 2017 - 2:20 am

‘…teen boy…’

Aurora Glory December 14, 2017 - 2:28 pm

Totally agree! Although I don’t really like saliva either. If I watch porn with spitting my stomach turns and I have to turn it off. It just makes me feel sick to be honest. I have only ever been spat on in malicious ways so perhaps that has something to do with it. I can definitely see the appeal for others though. Especially with degradation or even just to make things nice and wet!
Aurora x

Bee December 16, 2017 - 3:49 pm

I’m so sorry you had to deal with that, bullies have no idea how much something like that stays with you. It makes me so bloody angry!

As for spitting, I’m with you. It really isn’t for me even if I can understand the humiliation aspect.

priti December 27, 2017 - 12:03 pm

I agree, there is a difference between saliva and spitting. I suggest some page like this.


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