Long Distance Relationship

Sit with it

Sometimes things go well and sometimes they totally wrong foot you and when they do often the best and only thing you can do is sit with it for a…

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Unchaste my heart

Voluntary or involuntary? Clearly-defined or open-ended? Happy or utterly miserable? Most of us will endure (enjoy?) periods of celibacy at various points in our lives, whether it’s a short dry…

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Magic Moments

Hertfordshire December 2009 It is snowing, a rare thing in the UK. The kids are waiting in the hall for me. “Come on, just 5 minutes” appears on the screen…

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A Touching Moment

It is not only Masturbation Month but because it is, for that very reason it’s also the topic on Kink of the Week. Yes, I really was that organised for…

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Defile Me

One thing I quickly came to realise when @domsigns and I were in a long distance relationship is just how much I craved to be kissed. Oh I wanted to…

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The First of Many

“Good afternoon madam, how can I help you” “Checking in” I replied, pushing my reservation confirmation across the desk towards the young man. He immediately busied himself with his computer…

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Lamb or Chicken

I am terrible at making decisions. I am brilliant at making decisions. Two contradicting statements but, depending on the circumstance both are true. In my younger years I made some…

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Unbound

I have spent all week mulling the topic of Protocol over in my brain and I have tried starting this piece about 3 times. Each time I think I have…

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Out Of Office

I am on holiday… or more correctly WE are on holiday. This will be our first family holiday together since Sir moved to the UK to live with me and…

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Message Me

20th June 2012 The prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday is …I sent him (her) an email… immediately it got me thinking of all the emails that Sir and I…

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