Gag me

I don’t own a gag any more but maybe if I found someone who wanted to be gagged I would think about changing that…. Put it in my mouth I…

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Memory

“Yesterday is but today’s memory, and tomorrow is today’s dream.” ~ Khalil Gibran I am sitting on the end of my new bed post shower wrapped in a big blue…

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Kitchen Alchemy

“You don’t have to be a chef or even a particularly good cook to experience proper kitchen alchemy: the moment when ingredients combine to form something more delectable than the…

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Cuckboy

The prompt for Kink of the Week is Cuckolding and it is not really my kink. Hot wifeing and cuckqueening definitely are but I never really connected with the cuckolding.…

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What the hand does

“What the hand does the mind remembers.” ~ Maria Montessori And just in case I should forget he took a picture for me. On Thursday The Gentleman and I managed…

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Charm(er) no more

I updated my about me page last week. I didn’t publise it but just quietly made some adjustments to reflect current situations with regards to my relationships. Firstly I wrote…

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Queerness

“If I wait for someone else to validate my existence, it will mean that I’m shortchanging myself.” ~ Zanele Muholi No more. I lived this for many years. When I…

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My clit and me

“The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well.” – Sigmund Freud  I was in my mid twenties when I had my first orgasm. It was…

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Passion of life

“There is no end. There is no beginning. There is only the passion of life.” ~ Federico Fellini But there are endings and there are beginnings but really both of…

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Wish

“A wish is many things. It is apprehension and anticipation. It is lucky coins and dandelion fluff and rainbows stretching to forever. It is loves-me after love-me-nots and a pile…

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Serves you

“Let go of that which no longer serves you” ~Adriene Mischler Adriene is also known as Yoga with Adriene and it is her videos that I use for my daily…

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