“There are lots of things that I’m always pulling inspiration from.”
~ Tom DeLonge
I had a conversation on Mastodon this week about public hair that ended up with me saying that I couldn’t imagine ever going back to be completely shaved again.
Of course I have learned over the last 15 years of my kink/sex journey that declarations like that are to be side-eyed because I have said it about so many things.
“Oh I wouldn’t ever want that”
“Yeah that is definitely not for me”
“I can’t ever imagine wanting that”
“That is definitely a hard limit for me”
I have said words like this about so many things including being made to bleed/cutting, needle play, knives and golden showers to name just a few but all of those things I have discovered I was very wrong about. In fact some have even turned out to be seriously hot kinks for me.
The result is years ago I learned to be sceptical of my declarations like this and have embraced the saying ‘never say never’ when it comes to such thoughts. Being completely shaved is one such example. I am pretty sure if I searched back through posts here I could find where I have written that I could never imagine not being shaved. That I would never go back to having pubes again.
I was wrong.
I love my pubes. I have what I guess most people would call a full bush. I sometimes have a tiny tidy up round the edges but apart from that I pretty much just let it grow wild and free.
I love how it looks and I love how it feels. I love running my fingers through it, stroking and caressing it but I also love pulling and tugging on it. Something about that sensation that just feels so fucking good.
So would I ever shave it all off again? Absolutely (probably) not.