Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 – Nominations

by Molly Moore
Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 banner image sponsored by Chaturbate


Welcome to the Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 – Nominations – This is your annual chance to nominate your favourite sex bloggers but read on because there are some new things afoot.

Let’s kick things off though by introducing the sponsors of this years list and I am so happy to say that Chaturbate who have sponsored every year since 2017 have yet again agreed to be the sponsor again of the list and just like there are new things afoot with the list Chaturbate have also agreed to send some swag bags to some of the winner. More on that below.

Top 100 Sex Blogs 2021 banner image sponsored by Chaturbate

Chaturbate is the worlds most popular web-cam where you can chat for free. You’ll find thousands of broadcasters live on cam and ready to play, every time you visit. You don’t even have to enter your email or credit card to meet someone to share your sexy fantasies.

Yet again I can’t thank them enough for their support this project. Right from the summer of 2017 through to this current list they have been totally on board with the aims of the list and enthusiastic about supporting the sex blogging community as a whole. Please do take a few moments to go and check them out and enjoy their fabulous site because their support really does make all the difference to the amount of time I can dedicate to this project but be warned you might find them very distracting.

An important note on trans inclusivity and transphobia

Before we get onto the new bits and the nominations I am including this section again from last years nomination post because it is just as relevant now as it was back then.

There has been a lot of discussion of trans inclusivity and transphobia within the sex blogging community this year. After some of these discussions I hired a trans inclusivity consultant to look at the Top 100 Sex Blogs and highlight areas where I can do more to be trans inclusive. Trans inclusivity involves acknowledging your privilege, working to unlearn the cissexism that we have been taught all our lives, uplifting trans and non-binary voices, and not writing about sex as though all men have dicks or vice versa. Without this inclusivity you cannot be a sex positive writer. I have implemented the changes that were suggested to me most notably being clear in the rules about sex positive content and also making a slight change to importance of social media in the scoring and bringing in a score for the use of pronouns. (You can find these changes in the Transparency Report linked below)

I can’t police every thing every blogger has done, especially when it comes to social media. I do however try to read as much of peoples content as I can to get a good feel for what they write about and how they write about it but it is not a perfect science. I am one person reading through, last year in excess of 170 blogs, I will invariably make mistakes and potentially miss content that might disqualify someone. (As in the past, if that happens and I discover it, that blog will be removed from the list) When it comes to removing people from past lists, this will only be done if at the time the list was posted their content at that time breaks any of the rules.

Please read all the details below carefully before making your nominations!

What is the score?

Please read this post, The Transparency Report,  which covers in great detail how the list is made including lots of details about the scoring system and what things I look for on each blog.

New Voice of the Year

In the past this award has gone to two blogs that are new this year and therefore have not been around long enough to qualify for the Top Sex Bloggers list but who have caught my eye as being interesting and exciting and ones to look out for in the future. The amount of people who end up getting listed for this varies depending on how many people get nominated. If someone gets nominated for the main list and don’t qualify because they have not been around long enough they automatically get put into this list for consideration.

Please include a New Voice Blog in your nominations if you wish.

New Categories

As well as the traditional list the Top 11 Sex Blogs I have decided to expand the list and bring in some category awards. These are not for blogs as a whole but individual post. There are 3 categories of post: Fiction, Non-Fiction and Photography/Image.

You can nominate one of your posts in each category or in just one of them. That is totally up to you. So if you only write fiction then feel free to nominate your favourite/best fiction piece for the last year (see rules below). Or if you have a non-fic, fiction and a photo post then you can nominate 3 different posts. One in each category.

If you are nominating a photograph If you are nominating a photograph/image then your post may contain just a photo but it might also contain writing too but it is the image you are putting forward to consideration.

There will be 3 winners in each category, a gold, silver and bronze if you will, which I will select from all the posts submitted.

The rules for the category section are the same when it comes to content, sex positivity etc (see below) but if your blog is not eligible for the main list because you have not posted 24 posts this year then you can still enter a post(s) into the category awards as long as your blog is over a year old. Also if you are a previous winner of the Top 100 you can also enter a post into the category awards. Oh and unlike in the main nominations where someone else has to nominate you, when it comes to the category nominations you can totally nominate your own work. Pick the post(s) that you are most proud of that has been published in the last year and enter them using the form below.

The Form is Closed

The Rules of the Game…

I have created a permanent page on my site for the rules, any updates or amendments will be published here but as this is the nominations posts I am putting them here also. PLEASE make sure you READ them before making your nominations!

  • If you are a sex blogger, no nominating yourself! I encourage your to tell your readers and social media followers so they can nominate you. You can of course nominate your fellow sex bloggers.
  • You CAN nominate yourself (your posts) for the 3 new categories. (see above)
  • Each nomination MUST include the blog url, not just a name. (Or follow the steps on the forms above)
  • The number of nominations any blog gets is not relevant to the outcome of the list. So those with 1 nomination and those with 20 are all considered for the list on an equal footing. Although I do record the numbers down and in the event of a tie-break between two blogs for a place on the list the number of nominations might be taken into account.
  • Blog content can be anything sex related – erotica/fiction, sex education, sex news, dating, reviews, photography, confessionals, non fiction, personal life accounts etc. Nothing illegal, obviously.
  • Podcasts are not eligible for the list and if your blog is essentially your show-notes and embed of your podcast then you are not eligible. Someone needs to do a list for Podcasts!
  • Is your content sex positive? In the past blogs have been removed from the list because they do not meet this very important criteria. If you are writing posts that are misogynistic, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, whorephobic, etc. or are essentially pick up artist tips, then your blog is not sex positive and your blog will not be included on the list. Additionally, if you are promoting unsafe practices like vaginal douching, “surprise” anal sex or anal sex without lube then your blog will not be included on the list.
  • If you are linking to such sites or publishing content that is sponsored by sites that I deem to be problematic, (examples listed in the previous point) you will not qualify for the list.
  • The blog can’t be protected. It’s ok if a few of the posts are protected, but the entire blog can’t be behind a password or paywall
  • The blog should be at least a year old, but anyone who’s been blogging since at least November 1st, 2020 will be considered. Special exceptions will be made for someone who has recently moved to a new blog, but was previously blogging somewhere else as long as that content is still available to view.
  • You can nominate as many bloggers as you like.
  • The blog must have a minimum of 24 posts published between 1st Nov 2020 – 31st Oct 2021. Any blog with no posts in the last 45 days will be eliminated.
  • You can nominate your post(s) in the category awards regardless of how many posts you made this year but your blog must be a year old.
  • Tumblr style blogs that are purely reposting other people’s content are not eligible for the list.
  • Commercial magazine style sites are not eligible for the list.
  • Blogs attached to commercial shops are not eligible for the list.
  • Blogs that previously won the spot have been retired (see the list below).

Previous winner on the list are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) A Dissolute Life Means (2015) Domme Chronicles (2016) Kayla Lords (2017) Rebel’s Notes (2018) Floss Does life (2019) Little Switch Bitch (2020) Super Smash Cache (2020)

PLEASE DO NOT NOMINATE ANY OF THESE PREVIOUS WINNERS (Previous winners CAN enter the new category awards above)

These are the current rules as of 1st October 2021. I reserve the right to amend, adapt, change or suspend the rules at my discretion but any changes will be issued in writing on this site.

I know a lot of blogs but I do not know everyone and I am relying on you to help me get to know many more. Nominations are now open. You make your nominations in the comments below or you can email them directly to me [email protected]. Please mark the subject line with ‘2020 Nominations’. If you are a blogger and want to nominate a post for the new categories do that above using the forms. Please feel free to return and make as many nominations as you wish. Nominations will run until the 1st of November 2021 which should give people plenty of time. That will give me November to do all the reading etc with the aim of publishing the list in the first week of December 2021.

I think that just about covers it, now it is over to you for the nominations!

You may also like


Innocent Loverboy October 1, 2021 - 11:08 pm

Worth staying up until nearly midnight in order to do this, really. I definitely didn’t just stumble across this on Twitter or anything.

Okay, here are my very very very lazy nominations:

1) Christine from Light in Grey Places – because this blog makes me think the most, and it’s one of the best-written things I’ve seen in a long time:

2) Sexilicious Ash – because she is a new discovery for me, and cheerfully admits to being addicted to sex. Her photos are sound and her occasional descriptions of sexual encounters are really hot:

3) Amy from Coffee & Kink – because she always has content ready to go, on a semi-regular basis, so there’s something new to read on here at least every few days:

4) Quinn from On Queer Street – because of his sterling trans recognition work, even if the blog isn’t updated as much as it used to be:

5) Bunny from DTBRH – because, although I understand she has found it difficult to blog over the last few months, she’s still producing content, overly commercial though it may be!

And one wildcard:

Lemon from Citrus and Sex – because the posts are long, thoughtful, insightful and use fun, seemingly random formatting to make them seem jaunty! She has been on a bit of a rebranding mission this year, but I’ve been enjoying her activity on Twitter too:

I’ll throw in some category nominations too, possibly when I’ve had some sleep.

Focused and Filthy October 2, 2021 - 2:24 pm

I’d like to nominate Honey at
E40 at and Bee at
Also The other me at
Modesty at
I may be back with more!
Missy x

MxNillin October 2, 2021 - 6:27 pm Reply
Jaylin October 2, 2021 - 7:19 pm

I’d like to nominate Mx. Nillin:

Jenna October 3, 2021 - 2:31 pm

Hi Molly,
I am not sure how this works, so I hope my nominations are ok.
I was a fairly new blogger when I saw your list last year, and was completely amazed that I was number 99 – it was a huge surprise.

I wanted to mention some of the erotica bloggers who have I have found a great inspiration, and who have also extended advice and support and just seem to be incredibly kind and welcoming. I know they put a lot of work into their own blogs, and I can see they give so much to others too:

Marie Rebelle – website Rebel’s Notes:

May More – website called Sex Matters:

There are so many amazing writers and poets whose work I love.
I wanted to mention another favourite who has been a wonderful friend:

Gentleman Dave – website The Poet’s Kiss:

There are lots of other great bloggers too. I will make a list of some more.

Jenna October 5, 2021 - 7:53 pm

Could I add a few more nominations please Molly?
I have written down some of the bloggers whose work I read regularly. There are more, but I can see some of them have already been nominated above.

A Faded Romantic’s Notebook – Romantic Dominant

Journey Of Self Discovery – Gemma

Leap Of Faith – The Barefoot Sub

Wind Whisperer

Erotic Musings, Poetry And Social Commentary – David Mei

Oh Larney – Larney

Journey Chase – Journey

Tabula Erotica – Emmaleela

F Dot Leonora

Temperature’s Rising – Mrs Fever

Sadie McMaster – Sadie Autumn Artemisia

Hopelessy Hopeless – Caralina

Girl Boner – August McLaughlin

Frolic Me

Finding Strength In My Submission – Nora

MPB – Julie

Storm Elliott October 4, 2021 - 7:56 pm

From my nomination list that I don’t already see listed here are the following:

On Her Back
Violet Fawkes

And for New Voices:
MX.ED Reviews

I may be back with more. 🙂

Embyr October 4, 2021 - 10:03 pm

I’d like to nominate Submissive Feminist!

Holly October 5, 2021 - 1:27 pm

I’d like to nominate Missy at https://www.submissy. com/

Theanonymousfeminist October 6, 2021 - 9:24 am

Not sure why the link didn’t paste properly. Here it is again:

Jacqui October 5, 2021 - 3:44 pm

I would like to nominate The Anonymous Feminist:
I’ve followed this blog for nearly ten years now and have watched their writing transform to in-depth and educational posts regarding BDSM,fetishes, consent and fertility. From well researched pieces with references to personal experience, their writing draws in the audience and I always feel I come away with a fresh perspective.

MxNillin October 6, 2021 - 8:51 am Reply
Emma October 6, 2021 - 6:51 pm

The Anonymous Feminist

Fab. Witty funny and insightful. Full of honest humour.

Dominic Tiernan October 7, 2021 - 4:13 pm

I’d like to nominate TheDuchy .com! They teach how to safely tie people up. They are clear, down-to-earth and friendly.

Miss Ruby Reviews October 8, 2021 - 6:29 pm

Rolf Hansen October 17, 2021 - 7:45 am

Hello Molly,
Unfortunately, English is not my mother tongue and I have a hard time expressing myself in the English language.

I hope the nomination works anyway.

I hereby nominate Rain DeGrey with her two very educational, knowledgeable and humorous blogs:




I hope the nominations can be taken into account.

Have a wonderful weekend.


Rolf Hansen

We_Fear_Nothing October 17, 2021 - 4:41 pm

Nominating the following:

Niki at

Storm at

Violet at

Ash at

Focused and Filthy October 17, 2021 - 4:58 pm

I’d also like to nominate Zebra Rose at

Missy x

Zebra Rose October 17, 2021 - 5:10 pm Reply
Floss October 17, 2021 - 5:31 pm

A lot of my other picks have been mentioned, so I won’t double up, but (and forgive me if I missed them above) I don’t think I saw

Violet @
Bee @
Innocent Loverboy @
Andrew @
Victoria @

Floss 🙂

We_Fear_Nothing October 17, 2021 - 5:58 pm

Oh and I forget these.
On Her Back at and

We_Fear_Nothing October 17, 2021 - 7:41 pm

Oh and as a newcomer how could I forget to add the lovely mywildlens

LittleSwitchBitch October 19, 2021 - 9:50 pm

My favourites have already been mentioned so I won’t double up again but I just wanted to say thank you Molly for all the time you put into this x

Verne October 24, 2021 - 4:15 am

I’d like to nominate Mx Nillin

Stuart Collins October 27, 2021 - 7:26 pm

I would like to nominate the fabulous @LuvbunnySL82 and please.

Miss pink October 27, 2021 - 7:26 pm

I’d like to nominate the lonely kinky Katie, her blog has really helped me with exploring new things, the posts are always beautifully written and extremely hot.

Luv Bunny October 28, 2021 - 7:27 pm

Hey Molly,

Thanks so much for organising this bumper list of awesome sex bloggers!

A few bloggers I’d like to nominate are:
1. Storm from
2. Violet Fawkes
3. Posy Churchgate
4. Innocent Loverboy
5. Brigit Delaney

Thanks to those who nominated my blog Down The Bunny Rabbit Hole. Your support is much appreciated, as always. I will endeavour to get writing before too long. Some smutty prose would be the ticket!

Quinn Rhodes October 31, 2021 - 9:58 am

I’ve left this until the last minute because I am terrified that I’m going to miss someone out. (I probably have missed someone out.) Also, I’m nominating a couple of these blogs knowing full well that some of them won’t meet the minimum posts requirement – sorry for creating more work for you, Molly. And thank you, as always, for all the work you put into this.

In alphabetical order, my nominations are:

A to sub Bee:
Betty Butch:
Chronic Sex:
Coffee and Kink:
Exhibit A:
Exposing 40:
Formidable Femme:
Girly Juice:
Jayne Renault:
Jen Dragon:
Kelvin Sparks:
Mx Nillin:
Quenby Creatives:
Sex, Love and Videotape:
Super Smash Cache:
The Other Livvy:
The Wench Works:
Zebra Rose:

Exposing40 October 31, 2021 - 12:08 pm Reply
Insatiabear October 31, 2021 - 12:40 pm

Like to nominate three of my favorites:

Cheeky Minx and her gorgeous words and pictures at (even though she updates mostly on Twitter these days).

Violet Fawkes, a power for sex positivity and pure sex in a small package:

Lemon from Citrus and Sex, another sex positive educator and delight to read:

@RealInsatiabear on Twitter

Quinn Rhodes October 31, 2021 - 1:57 pm

Anne Stagg:
Louise Kane:

Quinn Rhodes October 31, 2021 - 5:50 pm

Ella Dawson:

Julie October 31, 2021 - 6:38 pm

I think all my nominees have already been mentioned except Violet Grey:

Thanks Molly for your continued hard work on this project.
Julie x

Moose October 31, 2021 - 8:54 pm Reply
The Other Livvy October 31, 2021 - 9:48 pm

Thank you for all your work on this list each year! I think everyone i regularly read has already been nominated but I couldn’t see Ella Dawson so I’d like to nominate her too. (I hope she’s written enough posts to qualify!):


Leave a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: