When it comes to wearing a plug I have discovered a new candidate for my favourite butt plug ever award but my butt plug experiences have not all been happy ones.
A couple of weeks ago Girl on the Net wrote a post about a traumatic incident she had when a butt plug managed to disappear inside her while she was having sex with her partner. She is not alone in the horrendous adventure because it is something that happened to me once too.
I have mentioned in a time or two here on my blog but not in any great detail. It happened years ago when I was in Vegas with Michael. We had already had anal sex and he had come inside me and then he used the plug to, well, plug me. He was using a glass dildo to fuck me with when the plug just slipped into me. It was one of those jeweled plugs. I really can’t describe how utterly terrified I was in that moment but whatever you imagine, add on the extra bonus of being in a foreign country. Luckily Michael was calm in a crisis and despite me literally having a full on panic attack he managed to calm me down and for what of a better description talk me through expelling the plug in the same way you would the normal stuff that comes out your butt. Much to my relief it worked.
However it left me hugely traumatised when it comes to wearing plugs particular during any other penetration. I still use the jeweled plug but only to wear out or in preparation for something else. I would never wear it during any other sex or afterwards. When it comes to wearing a plug during sex I actually tend to prefer using a dildo that has a base so that either me or my partner can hold it. I need to know that is happening, someone is holding it, otherwise I just can’t do it. Just the thought of it makes me heart race and not in a good way.
I have a number of different plugs now but recently I acquired the treasure you can see in the picture above. It is the Doxy plug and oh my goodness I love it so. It has a beautiful tapered head and a lovely narrow long stem (which is the key to a great plug in my opinion) so you can close properly around it and as you can see and nice wide base. Would it be better with a T shape? Yes probably but I feel quite confident about the base it has. It is definitely substantial enough that you or a partner could easily hold onto it. I know you shouldn’t have to me but I need that now to feel comfortable but when it comes to wearing a plug this one feels so damn good.
Sadly it has to be given a full test run during sex but I hope to correct that as soon as possible and when I do I will be sure to report back if it ticked all the boxes for us both or not. In the meantime though I shall continue to put it to good use all on my own!