It is always interesting to me when these topics of Kink of the Week come round again. I like going back to see what I wrote first time rounding and seeing how, if at all, my thoughts have changed on the subject. Over the years some things have gone from no to yes and some from yes to know and some have stayed the same as we have explored together. Figging is one of those things that has definitely stayed the same as a big old fat, No Thanks.
I like anal sex. Actually I really love anal sex. I have a couple of butt plugs, my favourite is the metal jeweled plug but a close second is the small Godemiche Plug B that is so damn comfortable. We also have an anal hook and a Godemiche Peg which I can hugely recommend too. Of course all these get used with a large helping of lube because I like my anal experience to be hot and pleasurable not sore and uncomfortable.
I like my anal sex slow and controlled. I want to be pinned down with the weight of him, his mouth on the back of my neck, a hand on my hair as he rocks his hips into me, burying his cock in my arse and whispering into my ear about how good it feels, how much he likes to hear me moan, how despite my protests he knows I want it like this. I am so not into vigorous arse fucking, you know the type, it is all over main stream porn and is often accompanied by the gaping arsehole thing that I truly can’t stand seeing. That is not me.
I am fussy about my bum and the idea of putting something in their that burns and irritates quite literally makes me shudder. I completely get the humiliation potential in figging but it is just not going to work for me like that. The idea of it does not make me feel like I would being used in a sexy hot way but makes me wince. I don’t want a burning stinging bumhole. It is as simple as that.
However the post I wrote back in 2013 about this subject was WAY sexier than this one, all about figging, where no actual figging happened but….. Well I suggest you read for yourself, especially if you like a good mindfuck. I Don’t Give a Fig
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