An undress code

by Molly Moore
close up shot of Michaels bearded chin and collar of his shirt

This weekend it is CMNF. In case you don’t know that stands for Clothed Male Naked Female which is a kinky play event that we go to a couple of times a year. It is one of our favourite things to do to although I am not hugely enamored of the naked part, not because I don’t like showing my body but because it mainly just makes me cold and also I don’t find anything particularly sexual about being naked. I does help that all the men are dressed but as they all carry on as if all the woman were clothed it is no where near as sexy and exciting as it sounds. However the venue is our favourite, we have a lovely group of friends we go with, we get to indulge in some public play and there is yummy cake and tea and that makes it one of my favourite ways to spend a Sunday afternoon.

However there is one part of it that Michael really dislikes and that the dress code for the men which requires him to wear a suit. In case you don’t already know he hates wearing a suit and I don’t mean dislike or not keen on, I mean truly passionately HATES the damn things… and don’t get him started on the evil that is a tie. He says that it is an indication of how very much he loves me that he puts on a suit for this event and I know that is true and I am delighted to be indulged in that way because not only do I enjoy the event but (and don’t tell him this because it makes him grumpy) I rather enjoy elements of the dress code too.

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missy September 8, 2018 - 11:40 pm

Great image. I see he has lost the tie at the first opportunity but he looks very sexy with the open collar. I find a nice suit very hot. Also a formal shirt. HL doesn’t wear them as much as he used to but I like it when he does. I like the idea of the dress code as it would reinforce the dynamic for me. ?

Tabitha September 9, 2018 - 1:13 am

Sexy shot ? and it’s made all the more sexy that he’s worn the suit just for you x x x

Cara Thereon September 9, 2018 - 1:34 am

I may need a moment alone. He’s soo sexy in those photos. Unf.

NPE September 9, 2018 - 1:55 am

I know some people view the tie as a phallic symbol, maybe a part of why it’s in the dress code?

silverdom September 9, 2018 - 7:27 am

I’m with Himself on the suit thing. I haven’t owned one for years, after too many years in uniform, then a civvie job that also required suit and tie.

kisungura September 9, 2018 - 9:19 am

Very sexy shot and hope you both had a great time at your event. Cuiplash used to wear suits and ties and waistcoats for his previous job and I loved them! He’s more casual now in his current job so it’s exciting when we’ve an opportunity to dress up, which isn’t often! I love the cropped shot and the B&W palette. And hands….well, enough said.

HappyComeLucky September 9, 2018 - 9:47 am

I don’t think anyone should be shamed for liking a man in a shirt or a suit. It might not be everyone’s cup of tea but it is just a pleasure. Even more so when they have put it on for a purpose rather than just because that is what they wear everyday.

Molly Moore September 9, 2018 - 11:21 am

Umm I really hope I didn’t com across as shaming anyone for liking that. I have gone back and read the post just to be sure I didn’t say that. I don’t think there is anything wrong with anyone wearing or not wearing one or people finding them sexy, all I said was he hates wearing one.


May More September 9, 2018 - 12:46 pm

Very sexy shot Molly x

Cousin Pons September 9, 2018 - 2:21 pm

A very powerful image Molly.

Marie Rebelle September 9, 2018 - 4:50 pm

Despite his absolute hate for suits, he does look damn good in one! Love the dark tones in this image. Beautiful shot!

Rebel xox

Modesty Ablaze September 9, 2018 - 7:57 pm

I rather like a man in a suit actually . . . and your photo definitely is very sexy!!!

Do they do an alternative CFNM event ? LOL !!!

Xxx – K

Julie September 10, 2018 - 10:58 am

He might not like wearing them, but he looks very hot in a suit xx

Victoria Blisse September 10, 2018 - 5:23 pm

One of my favourite things is when I’m naked around suited guys. It’s happened a few times and it makes me very happy.

Bee September 10, 2018 - 6:39 pm

There is something about the event isn’t there. I like the naked element because of my exhibitionist streak but,as you say, it’s cold! I love the venue and being with friends in those surroundings…and cake, I bloody love cake!

LittleSwitchBitch September 10, 2018 - 6:59 pm

Oh man suits are so hot – one reason I wish my OH didn’t change jobs because it’s now quite rare he is in one. x

Jack (and Jill) September 14, 2018 - 6:06 pm

It occurs to me that my enjoyment of dressing formally comes entirely from the possibility (okay, likelihood) that I will be perceived as more attractive when doing so.


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