This weekend it is CMNF. In case you don’t know that stands for Clothed Male Naked Female which is a kinky play event that we go to a couple of times a year. It is one of our favourite things to do to although I am not hugely enamored of the naked part, not because I don’t like showing my body but because it mainly just makes me cold and also I don’t find anything particularly sexual about being naked. I does help that all the men are dressed but as they all carry on as if all the woman were clothed it is no where near as sexy and exciting as it sounds. However the venue is our favourite, we have a lovely group of friends we go with, we get to indulge in some public play and there is yummy cake and tea and that makes it one of my favourite ways to spend a Sunday afternoon.
However there is one part of it that Michael really dislikes and that the dress code for the men which requires him to wear a suit. In case you don’t already know he hates wearing a suit and I don’t mean dislike or not keen on, I mean truly passionately HATES the damn things… and don’t get him started on the evil that is a tie. He says that it is an indication of how very much he loves me that he puts on a suit for this event and I know that is true and I am delighted to be indulged in that way because not only do I enjoy the event but (and don’t tell him this because it makes him grumpy) I rather enjoy elements of the dress code too.