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Selection of BDSM paddles

“Because you know,
I’m all about that thud
‘Bout that thud, no sting”


…the sting comes with sharp or rough pointy bits that claw, scratch and tear at my skin.

It seems twisted lyrics are becoming a bit of a feature of my Kink of the Week posts. I used one in my piece about crying and this one has been buzzing round in my brain since the moment I knew the topic was Paddles.

Paddles and I have a bit contentious relationship because as a general rule I really don’t enjoy that hard stinging slap sensation that many of them have a tendency to deliver. If there is ever a choice, which does happen sometimes, my love of all things heavy and bone rattlingly thuddy means I will nearly always a pick a flogger over a paddle unless…

Flog me, spank me, whip me, make me skin red raw, hot and numb and I will be pointing longingly at one of the paddles that will finish the job with a flourish of sharp little points that gift me two things I love, blood and marks. I will bite my lip, tense my body and endure it all to get that result which will make my body and brain fly.

We have a moderately sized collection of paddles, ranging from a bread board that he was delighted with because he purchased it at a car boot sale (flea market) for 50p to the Vampire paddle that was gifted to us by a friend. In this picture I have ordered them from least to most favourite (left to right in the image) depending on the slap/sting that they give and as you can clearly see all the ones with the vicious looking adornments are all clustered together on the right hand side apart from the studded paddle that is just mean and stingy and is often used as a starter for the others but because the studs are smooth doesn’t ‘bite’ in quite the same way the others do.

Selection of BDSM paddlesThere is a new member of our paddle family that I have utterly fallen in love with and that is the thick padded one that was made by @Lord Raven and was a gift to us from @malflic. The padding on this means that all the sting, which I loathe, is absorbed into the material and as a result it delivers a wholloping great big thud which not only feels amazing but is accompanied by the most wonderful sound that fills up my head as the sensation fills up my body and a bit like the floggers is the perfect companion to the more spiky paddles in our collection. We only acquired this new toy just before Christmas but as you can see from the picture it has been well used.

Paddlewm-4 Paddles are a mixed bag for me, some of them I hate and will go out of my way to avoid but those with a slightly evil twist that have the potential to either deliver a thud which results in deep dark bruises or ones that deliver their marks in a more flesh biting manner make the marks slut in me sing with joyful lust.


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Ps… Apologies to both Jade and Rebel for combining memes on this but sadly time has not been my friend this week



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  • Show Comments (12)

  • Malflic

    You do know I’ve got a completely evil grin going on right now. Oh and since you like thud and the padding i have another model for you to “enjoy”.

    • Molly Moore

      *eyes @malflic suspiciously….. evil grin eh? Somehow the words enjoy don’t fit in this sentence quite right


  • Lord Raven

    oh yessss I am grinning from ear to ear. I am a bit disappointed the paint on the padding didn’t hold like I had hoped it would but that you like it is even more important to me. Oh just wait…I thing I have something in the works that will really lift you off your toes now that I have read a bit of what you like. and of course I know my partner in crime will enjoy “delivering”

    • Molly Moore

      It has been well and I mean WELL used but where the cushioning moves as it reacts to the impact it has cracked and come away but who cares, it still does the job…. and oh does it do the job.


  • Vivian Nyx

    Interesting! Though I *much* prefer the stingy sensation to anything thuddy.

    I’ll admit I’ve been having some cursory thoughts about blood recently… not sure I’ll ever get to do it because my Master has it as a hard limit for Him, but that last picture sure looks enticing 😉

    • Molly Moore

      Blood play used to be a hard limit for me but gradually over time that has changed and it has actually turned into a big turn on for me


  • Marie Rebelle

    We just recently acquired a vampire paddle and I am so so so happy about it and cannot wait to feel it on my skin and admire the marks. I hate the smooth paddle we have, but I bet I will love the vampire paddle as much as I love the vampire gloves 🙂

    Rebel xox

  • Cammies on the Floor

    I’m with you on thuddy, and the hectic week. Still, I like how you organized your paddles from favorites.

  • luv2sex.info

    Very creative. I use paddles to row boats and you use paddles for sex.

  • Curvaceous Dee

    Oh boy – I want a vampire paddle (and a cushioned paddle) so much now! I’m all about the thud, and occasionally the blood 🙂

    xx Dee

  • Jade

    I just commented on Marie’s blog about paddles with spikes – one thing I have never experienced is being HIT with spikes (W has used his “pokie pads” many times in predicament play, and my ex used to have a vampire glove, but neither ever swat with me them hard enough to break the skin.) That may be one kind of play I *wouldn’t* enjoy…

  • sub-Bee

    I am so, so jealous of your new padded paddle, I crave the delicious bruises it leaves behind. Yet another thing to add to my ever lengthening wish list!

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