13 May 2011

Period, time of the month, Aunty flo, I’m on, got the painter and decorators, and the one I truly hate, the curse; there are so many names for it, but whatever it is you call it, it is a fact of life. It is, or has been a regular part of every woman’s life and by proxy the men in her life too, yet for many women it is still something that they feel uncomfortable with.

When I first met Sir I was definitely of the opinion that my period was something that got in the way of my sex life, it was something I dreaded and believed made me unattractive. I was of the firm opinion that men would not come near a woman who was having her period, that for most men it was a total turn off, maybe even disgusting and so I had come to loath and hate mine. Period = no sex as far as I was concerned.

So you can image the horror and anxiety I encountered when I realised that during my very first trip to see Sir I was due to have my period. After much silent worrying about how this event would mean that for a good few days of my trip he would not want to come near me I finally blurted out my fears to Him. They were greeted with a smile and a very gentle “silly girl” as he explained to me that my fears were completely unfounded, but you don’t get over this type of deep-rooted hang up just like that and although I felt calmer about it, it still continued to niggle away inside my brain.

I remember the moment like it was yesterday, he had gone to work when it started and I felt my heart sink and the rational side of brain immediately started to do full on battle with the not so rational side. By the time he got back from work I was dressed and ready to go out, anything to put off the moment. I don’t know how he knew, but he took my hand and pulled me to my feet and kissed me, long and hard and deep before tilting my face up to him and saying…. “I know, and it will be OK and later tonight I will show you that this makes no difference to me wanting you or having you”

Later that night he did exactly that, with a tender passion that left me breathless and spent, laying on the bed with a stupid smile on my face until I saw the mess. Immediately my heart skipped a beat and I was up out of the bed apologising. We had laid a towel down so it wasn’t on the clean white hotel sheet but it was certainly on the both of us. The only word I could use to describe my feelings at that point where mortification. Over and over again I kept saying sorry, sorry, oh god I am sorry. It took a pretty firm “stop it” for me to reign it in.

“It doesn’t matter my love, if this was you’re cum and mine mingled together would you be worried?”

“Of course not” I replied “but that’s different”

“No it’s not, this is our cum mingled together with a little bit of colour added. Now, let’s go and shower”

He led me to the bathroom, turned on the taps and once it was hot draw me under the water with Him and washed me and at that moment it felt more like he was washing away my worries and anxieties than anything else.

Since that day he has shown me many times that I am sexy and desirable to Him no matter what, even when I am dishevelled and tired, emotional and snotty and even when I have my period. I won’t say that the worry has completely gone, it is something I have lived with most my adult life, and every now and again it raises its ugly head and I can feel those old insecurities seeping back in but as a general rule I know now and I am comfortable with the fact that even when I have my period he still wants me, desires me and will continue to use me at His whim for His pleasure and ultimately for mine.

Still Sexy

So I know he still finds me sexy when I have my period but whether I am or not is another matter altogether, posting this picture makes my heart race and I can feel my face starting to warm with an embarrassed flush. It has taken a lot of guts to put this out there but it is me, a part of me that is truly female. I refuse to be ashamed of any part of me, especially this one.


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V May 13, 2011 - 4:23 pm

Molls my luv, you always make me cry…
Love u

ddd May 14, 2011 - 2:43 am

Molly, I love this post and the picture is fan-fucking-tastic. It is somehow sexy AND whimsical at the same time. It took a lot of guts to post this and I’m proud to call you my SlutSister:-)

KinkyBoots May 14, 2011 - 7:09 pm

Molly, I Love the way you describe this and you are lucky to have Sir who still wants you pleasure you. I am always at my most horniest at this time which I always think is such a waste

fridayam May 18, 2011 - 12:44 am

A lovely piece about a subject too often seen as taboo? Why? A lovely photo too:) x

mollyskiss May 25, 2011 - 11:31 pm

I don’t really know that answer to that, I guess society has something to answer for that women think this is a taboo subject. Glad you like the picture, was nervous about posting it.


Jennifer August 25, 2013 - 1:00 am

Periods have been a taboo subject for a long time. I think it was in the late 1800s or early 1900s that a scientist claimed that menstrating women shouldn’t touch anything because they would infect and kill what they touched… Because of this one scientists people have been lead to believe that menstruation is infectious and/or dirty. It’s also in the bible that one should not sit where a menstruating women has sat. All of this talk of menstruation being dirty has well… lead a majority of people to beleive that menstrual blood is dirty. It actually is clean when it first comes out. No different from semen or female lubrication or cervical fluid. Like any other bodily fluid if it has infection or disease, it’s not healthy for you to consume nor would it be a good idea to ingest it if it was sitting out for a while.

Catharine May 18, 2011 - 6:00 am

I love this post. and I love being able to think of periods as completely and utterly normal, rather than the scariest or the most embarrassing thing in the WHOLE WORLD EVER, like they seem to be at the age of 13.

redme May 19, 2011 - 3:07 am

That string and your perfect clit are at least 5 centimeters apart. No problema.

Livi May 22, 2011 - 11:48 pm

*hug* very brave and very beautiful.

Catharine June 20, 2011 - 1:59 am

I see this post every time I’m on your blog. Since I first read it, I’ve filmed a video of myself orgasming while menstruating and I find it fascinating to watch. I’m not sure it’s one I’ll ever send to anyone, but you wouldn’t believe how many times I’ve watched it!

Michael Dancer July 30, 2011 - 6:22 pm

On or off, I still think that is one great looking body. As long as the woman is willing, I am.

Sir Libertine August 24, 2011 - 8:41 pm

A beautiful post, and so brave of you to reach that point of sharing so much – I can relate as a man for I had to learn that my wife still wanted me at that time of the month, and infact was at her most horny; so we found ourselves delighting whatever day of the month took our fancy. Sadly, that was years ago – and these days we’ve grown apart. I’m so pleased you and yours, are also savoring every day that prsents itself.

Sir Libertine

ikinkthere4iam November 24, 2011 - 7:49 am

Im in awe. Of you, for being brave and putting yourself out there. Of your Sirs mature and sexy assurances. What a wonderful response, from both of you. I adore you both all the more!

Goddess Aphrodite December 27, 2011 - 9:11 pm

Fantastic post to write about. For me, this is a foreign feeling to feel ashamed of my period when with a man. I have always reveled in the idea of blood. It is life. Men who have shunned having sex with a woman because of her period have always puzzled me. And women who won’t have sex with their man when on their period…even more puzzling.

Has your view changed now? I bet it has with the constant knowing and evidence of your sir’s love. It is part of you…don’t be reviled. There is something alive and raw and carnal about it that nothing else can compare to. Enjoy it!

Love, A.

mollyskiss December 28, 2011 - 3:44 pm

Thank you for this wonderful comment and short answer is yes my view has not only shifted but completely changed. I have discovered a new found love for this part of me and each month find myself dipping my fingers into the mess and… I think your words sum it up well…. and feeling wonderfully alive and carnal.


Miss C February 5, 2012 - 9:39 am

Just as erotic and brave as you described. Especially the picture. This was wonderful to read, thanks so much for letting me know about it. There’s something really liberating about this post, and in fact this whole site. <3

missaconitine March 7, 2012 - 10:00 pm

another beautiful post… i’m so in awe of you molly!



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