Category archive: Thoughts for the day
Sexy is…
Sexy is that look in his eye when I say no, the slow easy smile that spreads across his lips as he advances across the room towards me and the way he chuckles when I start to back away Sexy is being cornered, my back up against the wall his hands reaching out to me….
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Question Time
When I look up submissive or submission in the dictionary I am greeted with such words as ‘meek’ ‘obedient’ ‘passive’ and compliant an I can only assume that these strict dictionary definitions have in many ways contributed to the many myths that surround submission and submissive within the context of BDSM. I am a submissive…
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Think Different
I have always known I was different. At school I was the lonely quiet child, painfully shy and socially awkward. I had the odd friend from time to time, lonely types tend to find other lonely types but none of these people would be friends for life. We were only friends because we needed to…
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Showing My Spots
The prompt for Wicked Wednesday this week is this… (click the image to enlarge) I have not written a great deal about this subject and so when I saw the prompt I thought it was the ideal opportunity to change that. It is an interesting image but as the text says it is just one…
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Flashing In The Park
Earlier this evening this tweet was bought to my attention Well bugger me, if I only had know it was that simple to write a decent sex blog. If it just a case of getting your tits out in the park then why on earth have I been bothering to write all this inane blah…
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The Sensible Option
I have learnt something about myself in the last couple of days. Sir is away in America for work. I have been dreading this trip for months now but I decided that rather than worry about it I would put it from my mind and deal with when it happened. It can’t be that bad…
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More than I bargained for
Last week I wrote this poem ‘Defiantly Submissive’ for Wicked Wednesday. It was one of those pieces that just seemed to flow, the words kind of appearing on the screen in front of me as my fingers danced across the keys. I didn’t have to think about it a great deal it pretty much just…
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Once bitten…
25th April 2012 Just over a week on from my lovely birthday party and all the bruises are nearly gone. On the front of both my thighs some deep red welts left by the wrap around from the flogger linger and when I take a shower in the morning the heat from the water brings…
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Fifty Shades Of Me
I am submissive. I know this is probably not a shock to many of you but bear with me this opening sentence is important. Yesterday Sir and I read a number of journalistic articles that had been written in criticism of another article. The subject that connects all these pieces is the novel The Fifty…
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Waiting For Santa
24th December 2011 I am waiting for Santa To visit with me Laying here quietly In the glow of the tree Will he be kind What gifts will he bring All wrapped in shiny paper And tied up with string I might have been bad But I won’t worry now It is too late…
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Our First Christmas
21st December 2011 I was thinking back to this time last year. So much has changed and all of it makes me smile. This time last year I was counting down the days to his arrival. There were 5 days left before he was due to get here and, like all the times I had…
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Having my cake…
24th November 2011 I nearly didn’t write one of these Thanksgiving posts this year. I think because he is not here today I have felt rather removed from the whole Thanksgiving band wagon. I know that will change on Saturday when we introduce 6 of our wonderful friends to the joys of a traditional Thanksgiving…
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Versatile Blogger Awards
15th November 2011 Instead of a kiss this week I am responding to my resent nominations by 3 others bloggers for the Versatile Blogger award. It all started about 2 weeks ago with the wonderful Jilly Boyd who blogs at Bare Naked Lady putting me in her list of ‘15 blogs that delight and excite…
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I Love My Lurkers
10th November 2011 I know you are out there. I don’t know who you are but I watch you silently come and go. Often I can tell where you come from, what little trail of mine you have picked up on to end up here at my blog. I share myself with you yet who…
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Fireworks!
5th November 2011 Remember, remember the Fifth of November, the Gunpower Treason and Plot, I see no reason why Gunpowder Treason should ever be forgot. Tonight is Bonfire Night in the UK, also know as Guy Fawkes Night. It is traditional in the UK to celebrate this event with fireworks, food and friends. Lots of…
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