By on March 5, 2014.

My life is filled with laughter. A pretty bold claim I know but it is true. I am not for one moment saying that it is not without its moments of frustration, stress, irritation etc, after all this is a real life, not a fantasy Disney movie. There are no roses round the door, instead we have a rotting door frame and an out of control clematis but we do have a lot of fun in our lives.

For any of you who have actually met my darling husband you will know that it is not possible to spend time with the man and not end up laughing. I have long ago decided that one of his key missions in life it to make people laugh and smile. Nothing pleases him more than to elicit that reaction in someone. It is a remarkable trait and one that has deeply happy side effects for me; a life filled with laughter. Not a day goes by without there being laughter about something, even those stressful tough days are somehow twisted into something funny when he is around. He does have his grumpy, moody moments, he is human after all, but as a general rule they are rare and short-lived.

I think he might be the only man I know who has a funny story to tell about both his vasectomy and his Prostate Biopsy. In fact the latter even includes a bit about the doctor commenting on the fact that he was the only patient he ever had who joked his way through the whole thing. Seriously, he can turn pretty much anything in fun and I love it.

I have a tendency to worry and as I have commented before, over-think things and this can lead to a serious frame of mind. He balances that perfectly for me. I cannot tell you the amount of times he has turned tears into laughter. You know the kind, where you are laughing and crying at the same time. Is there a name for that, Craughing maybe? This is often done with kissing, not the passionate stuff but the constant little kisses, often with silly faces, all over me, until I am giggling like a small child. Anyway, like so much of our life together our different personalities create a harmony in which we both thrive.

Laughter also features as part of our kink. There are times when I am flying high beneath the flogger or whip or whatever implement he has chosen when I will start laughing and if that happens then he tends to hit me harder which only make me laugh even more. So many times I have looked over my shoulder at him, laughing, and saying…

“I have no idea why I am laughing, as this is not funny”.

There have been times when we both end up just laughing, although this doesn’t mean the hitting stops, as I said above, in general it increases as he knows full well that that is exactly what I need; more, harder, faster, deeper. The laughing, like the tears that also sometimes happen, is an indicator that I am letting go. Everything is vanishing apart from me, him and sensations. It is truly cathartic and the laughter is just an outward sign of that release.

When I saw Kink of the Week was laughter I immediately went to my large store of images looking for something to sum the whole thing up. Sadly I don’t seem to have anything of my laughing during play. I shall have to try to rectify that at some point but I do have a few fabulous images that pretty sum up the happy joyous laughter in our life together

Laughing while being bitten on the neck

One of the things you should know is that it is not possible for @domsigns to pass up an opportunity to try on a funny hat….

Man wearing penguin hat

Or a pair of glasses….

Funny eyeball glasses

Sometimes my participation in this insanity is also required, such as this time when we were visiting Amish country. I am not sure we make very convincing Amish though, I think my bare shoulders and cleavage let the whole look down.

Dressing up in Amish hats

He maybe Dom but that doesn’t mean he can’t be completely silly and sometimes down right bonkers. He is a man who truly knows how to put the laughter in life and I am very lucky that his greatest joy seems to be putting the laughter in my life.


Ps… Apologies to Jade and Rebel for combining their memes this week. As a general rule I like to keep them separate as I think they deserve their own dedicated space but due to Eroticon2014 my week is shorter than usual and I just don’t have the time to write two separate posts.

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  1. Have a fantastic weekend. I only met Signs very briefly last week, but in that time he had me cracked up with “American Pudding”.

  2. This is such a lovely post, Molly. That first picture of you and DomSigns and the huge (huge!) grin on your face? That says it all. Long may the laughter continue. (And I absolutely concur that your other half has an excellent and wicked sense of humour – I still giggle about the, er, ‘erotica’ readings he shared with us at a certain club.) Jane xxx
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  3. This past weekend I have experienced yet again how much fun and laughter there is in your lives. I am thankful to say that my Husband keeps the smile on my face too!

    You know why I am late with commenting, right *winks*
    Yep, because of Eroticon. Next time I take my laptop with me!

    Rebel xox
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