It is all about the power dynamic. He is fully clothed, even wearing shoes or boots and I am naked. Totally exposed to his gaze and his touch if he so chooses. The air prickles with possibilities, the smile on his face as he studies every contour of my body is filled with pleasure and something else, that wickedness that makes me fidget. My place is obvious, the roles in this moment define our D/s relationship to perfection. I am his, he owns me. This is what we are.
The Kink of the Week is Clothed Dom/Naked sub. It originally started as Clothed Female Naked Male (CFNM as it often known) a kink that is clearly associated with male subs and female Dommes. It is a fairly established kink and certainly here in the UK there are many CFNM kinksters/events that cater to this dynamic but what of the flip side? Jade states in her edited intro that she was unaware of a “corresponding “Clothed Male, Naked Female.” which kind of surprises me and yet I also understand what she is saying in that maybe it is the norm within most kink relationships where the top/dom is male, or is it?
I am sure for many, play often occurs in this way, with the sub being naked and the Dom being dressed but for me the kink of CMNF goes beyond that. When we got out to play it will be me who ends up in some state of undress, chained to a cross or tied down to a bench, while he remains fully clothed, but that is as much a practicality as it is anything else. When this kink really kicks in is when the nakedness is part of that play. The demand to undress, to show yourself to your Dom/top. Immediately the power dynamic is heightened.
“Take off your skirt, remove your top. All of it, remove all of it, show me what is mine”
Oddly we spend most of our days at home with him far more undressed than me, but that is due to my terrible inability to get and stay warm and his ability to always be too warm/hot. As a result he is often stripping off his shirt in order to try to not melt into a puddle of Dom goo. Now clearly this has its advantages too but it doesn’t really help with this particular little kink. I think this is another reason why I am a big fan of the summer as there is a chance that I can then be naked too.
I have recently discovered that there is a CMNF fet event not that far away from us. So far the dates have not worked out in our favour but there is a chance that the one in June might be possible. The thought of being totally naked in a room full clothed males doms makes me whimper, with both the fear of being that exposed and also with a hint of excitement. Luckily the club rules are that females can wear minimum clothing, such as corset with no panties, or see through lingerie. In my head I am wearing my underbust corset, my chain collar, hold-up stockings and nothing else. My breasts and pussy are completely exposed. Writing this I can feel my heart start to flutter as I let my mind imagine the scene. I am leashed, attached to him, but on parade because that is what he wants. He talks to other men, social chit-chat, maybe I am even discussed. Would they admire my tits, comment on my arse…. The whole idea fills me with fear and hot, throbbing, sticky excitement.
For me this kink is all about the power. It takes that part of our D/s dynamic and cranks it up about a 1000 notches. In those moments I utterly exposed and completely vulnerable whereas he is full dressed, the one with the power to do, to take, to choose, to use as he sees fit. I am at my most basic, there is nothing but my body and what happens to it is up to him.
I took these images in the hope of showing just how hot this kink is for me. I hope they help to illustrate my words and the powerful way in which this kink fires up our D/s.
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