On Display

By on January 26, 2014.

It is all about the power dynamic. He is fully clothed, even wearing shoes or boots and I am naked. Totally exposed to his gaze and his touch if he so chooses. The air prickles with possibilities, the smile on his face as he studies every contour of my body is filled with pleasure and something else, that wickedness that makes me fidget. My place is obvious, the roles in this moment define our D/s relationship to perfection. I am his, he owns me. This is what we are.

clothed male naked female

The Kink of the Week is Clothed Dom/Naked sub. It originally started as Clothed Female Naked Male (CFNM as it often known) a kink that is clearly associated with male subs and female Dommes. It is a fairly established kink and certainly here in the UK there are many CFNM kinksters/events that cater to this dynamic but what of the flip side? Jade states in her edited intro that she was unaware of a “corresponding โ€œClothed Male, Naked Female.” which kind of surprises me and yet I also understand what she is saying in that maybe it is the norm within most kink relationships where the top/dom is male, or is it?

I am sure for many, play often occurs in this way, with the sub being naked and the Dom being dressed but for me the kink of CMNF goes beyond that. When we got out to play it will be me who ends up in some state of undress, chained to a cross or tied down to a bench, while he remains fully clothed, but that is as much a practicality as it is anything else. When this kink really kicks in is when the nakedness is part of that play. The demand to undress, to show yourself to your Dom/top. Immediately the power dynamic is heightened.

Man in jeans

“Take off your skirt, remove your top. All of it, remove all of it, show me what is mine”

Oddly we spend most of our days at home with him far more undressed than me, but that is due to my terrible inability to get and stay warm and his ability to always be too warm/hot. As a result he is often stripping off his shirt in order to try to not melt into a puddle of Dom goo. Now clearly this has its advantages too but it doesn’t really help with this particular little kink. I think this is another reason why I am a big fan of the summer as there is a chance that I can then be naked too.

I have recently discovered that there is a CMNF fet event not that far away from us. So far the dates have not worked out in our favour but there is a chance that the one in June might be possible. The thought of being totally naked in a room full clothed males doms makes me whimper, with both the fear of being that exposed and also with a hint of excitement. Luckily the club rules are that females can wear minimum clothing, such as corset with no panties, or see through lingerie. In my head I am wearing my underbust corset, my chain collar, hold-up stockings and nothing else. My breasts and pussy are completely exposed. Writing this I can feel my heart start to flutter as I let my mind imagine the scene. I am leashed, attached to him, but on parade because that is what he wants. He talks to other men, social chit-chat, maybe I am even discussed. Would they admire my tits, comment on my arse…. The whole idea fills me with fear and hot, throbbing, sticky excitement.

For me this kink is all about the power. It takes that part of our D/s dynamic and cranks it up about a 1000 notches. In those moments I utterly exposed and completely vulnerable whereas he is full dressed, the one with the power to do, to take, to choose, to use as he sees fit. I am at my most basic, there is nothing but my body and what happens to it is up to him.

Naked sub kneeling at masters feet

I took these images in the hope of showing just how hot this kink is for me. I hope they help to illustrate my words and the powerful way in which this kink fires up our D/s.

Mollyxxx

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  1. Oh I absolutely LOVE the first image Molly! It’s a great example of how photos can be extremely erotic without showing much or any nudity. Beautiful!
    xxPenny
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  2. You have captured perfectly what elevates something that I have always considered kind of…well, “the norm”…in M Top/f Bottom BDSM interactions to something that very much *is* a kink. I think that was why I didn’t identify it as a kink as such…though perhaps if I had examined my own relationship with nudity in front of a clothed Dominant, and the feelings it evoked, I might have recognized it sooner for the kink that it is. I’m guessing that I didn’t because I have never had a Top that actively *used* it in kink play…it was just the way it was done (in some instances), or, in W’s, he doesn’t really care if I am clothed or not. If he needs access to a body part, he’ll just move any clothing covering it. LOL

    Thanks again for helping me to see something from an entirely new-and yet not new, since it was obviously lurking inside my head somewhere-perspective.
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  3. Molly,

    Thank you for this beautiful post. I am a male sub (despite the name!) and few things excite me more than hearing the command “take your clothes off and kneel before me.” The vulnerability of knowing that I am forbidden to touch my Mistress but that she can touch me wherever and whenever she wants is quite exquisite.

    Celine
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  4. As one of the organisers of the event you mention can I just say it is fear and excitement then leads most of our female guests to our event.

    People might think that a CM/nf (Clothed Male/naked female) event is full of exhibitionists but that isn’t the case, the majority of our female guests are there challenging the fear of being naked. The fact that they are exposed and ‘vulnerable’ is a room full of powerful, well dressed Dominant men is also an attraction.

    For a large number of our female guests the idea of being near or completely naked is a scary thought, it challenges them to fight one of their hardest foes, self confidence. We see guests arrive, physically shaking with fear at the prospect of entering a room with over 100 guests and standing there naked before complete strangers. The funny thing is by the end of the event these ladies have forgotten their state of undress and we have had instances of guests trying to leave without their clothes, only realising when we have mentioned the fact they might like to put a coat on ๐Ÿ˜‰

    For the men the interest is obvious, for the ladies the challenge and the sense of empowerment and the confidence it gives them is a draw. These ladies may be submissive be they are not weak and the strength they get from challenging the fear of their naked form has to be seen to be believed.

    Mr Loc

  5. CMNF is one of my favourite kinks and you’ve described and illustrated it, and all that I enjoy about it, so well here. Having her parade and perform naked, or even just normalising her nudity whilst carrying out every day tasks, is such a beautiful and magical thing for us both. The challenge for me is always sustaining the CMNF situation for as long as possible before lust gets the better of me.

    O x
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