Gorean Slave Positions is the current topic for Kink of the Week. I am aware of the Gorean community within BDSM but it has never been one that has held any attraction for me. The strong element of protocol that encompasses the Gorean lifestyle is definitely not something that features within our relationship. I do not identity as a slave or even a service submissive. As I once said to him very early on in our relationship if you are looking for a maid, or expecting me to cook and clean for you then you have come to the wrong sub. Luckily he wasn’t looking for that or I doubt we would have got very far together. Just to be clear, I will happily cook and clean as part of my contribution to our life together NOT because I am sub.
So, bringing it back to Gorean Slave Positions. We just don’t do them, they are not part of our dynamic in any way. That doesn’t mean I won’t kneel for him, how else is a girl meant to give a really good blow job, or present my arse to him when I am in need of a spanking but as a form of protocol or ritual it just isn’t us.
When I mentioned this topic to him and enquired ‘What position do you like me to be in?’ he replied with
“Next to me on the sofa”
We are so lucky that we both get to work from home and so a great deal of our day is spent in this perfect position. Of course I have a few positions that I am particularly fond of, the aforementioned kneeling is definitely one of them as is ‘beneath him, legs spread, cunt full’.
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